3 weeks to go!!!!!! Feeling guilty!! Started by: liegh

Yeah I feel the same. I’m having the op on 4th Aug and I got a 6 month old son, I’m terrified too and have been so close to cancelling a few times. Don’t worry I’m sure you’ll be just fine, good luck xx

Hi ! I had my ba on July 2 and I have a little girl who is 3 tomorrow and a 4 month old boy! I felt the same ! Scared I would not wake up , knowin I would not b able to hold them. But it only a week and I was able to cuddle my baby if some1 picked him up and give him to me! I am back to normal and it’s only just ova a week! My children have not suffered at all , really they have gained a happier more confident mummy! And I’m really lucky my parents n hubby were great and kids got spoilt rotten! My whole experience was great the pain was no where near as bad as I thought and I was able to do more than I expected ! Good luck girls and don’t feel guilty xx

bless you all – I was the same had two little ones at home. Everything will be fine don’t worry. One thing though make sure you have lots of help afterwards with the little ones because things like picking them up will be hard for @ least 7/10 days. I remember my little boy sitting on my knee then throwing his head back and banging my news boobs ouch that hurt more than the surgery!! Saying that the after pain was not that bad at all remember to stock up on painkiller ).