5 days post op…Feel sad :( Started by: yoyo
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yoyo
0pYeah my best friend got funny after I had the op, she was really wierd when she visited me with her BF yesterday, only stayed for 20mins and would hardly look at me! Was completely unexpected from her! I’m sure she’ll come round, but it’s funny how it affects people.
My parents have said if I’m too big, they don’t want me around much, they will be too embarrassed cos aparently I will look ‘slaggish’ lol! I also work part time for them at the mo while I’m building up my own business and was totally relying on that income for the st 2 months after my BA cos it’s office work, and they have told me that bif I’m too big I will not be allowed to go back into the office! (Thus the smaller size choice I went for which I now regret!)
You’d think I was just a puppy, but I’m nearly 30 lol!!So yeah, just do what’s best for you!
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YoYo,
im 3 weeks post op now and i am starting to get some feeling back although in places i cant feel anything. Get random sensations and sort of shooting pains every now and again but this is all part of the healing process. One side seems to be alot better than the other. I went to bed the other night and asked the other half to do a touch test….. he prodded at my boobs to see if i could feel it, at one point he pressed one the left side of my boob and i thought it was the right…… hmmmm that needs to improve.Looks like everyone is helping with the suggestions of how to make them look smaller, im sure your Mum will be happy once she meets up with you. You know how over protective our Mums can be!
Dont know if you took any before pics? i did, and i showed my Mum them. It made it alot easier explaining how i felt and why i did it. If you didnt and think this may help ask your nurse if there is any chance they can give you the before pics that they took.lilmiss
0phey i had mine done same day lol mine r really far apart but they r getting closer every day n i can squese a clevega lol got my post op appointment next monday cant wait 2 get the tape off am iching like mad xx
missyy
0pthe mood swings and emotions really do worry me
Rio i have to say……………………………………………WOW they look fab and look mint in tops too hun
so jealous
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myario
0pYoyo, I had my nose done a year or so ago and they warned me what an emotional journey cosmetic surgery can be, the anaesthetic can last ages and cause mood swings and the after effects of surgery can make you very tearful even if you’re thrilled with the results. Hope you’re feeling better soon.
Sky, I know we’ve chatted loads and you’ve seen my pics. I’m on;y 5ft tall so even smaller than you and I was worried that I’d look silly as had 32d boobs to start with and had 460 implants. I’ve updated my pics today so have a look at the one of me in a t’shirt and you’ll see just how small they look in clothes. Non-one in work noticed and I was wearing tight fitting stuff with a cardy x
yoyo
0pThanks so much Sky!
Nunnite sweetie and sweet dreams of your new fabulous boobies!:swingin:
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myasky
0pYou go girl no bra!!! Cant wait 2 go bra less myself lol!!:swingin: I will def keep u posted thanku for all ur advice hun. And remenber stay positive and happy ok:jumping:
Keep in touch
Gudnite zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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yoyo
0pBtw JoJo,
How long did it take for the ‘numbness’ to go? Or didn’t you experience that?
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yoyo
0pThanks JoJo!
Yeah, I wish I’d not told them, then I would’ve gone for the size I wanted and not had the stress before the op, but never mind eh they are still big enough, there are worse things going on in the world lol!:bigsmile:
I’ll get some baggy tops and hoodys over next couple of days and hopefully it’ll be ok, I’m seeing my mum on Thursday and she’s guna decide then if I’m ‘too big and embarrassing’, hope she comes round cos I really need to keep that job at the mo! Esp with just taking out the loan for the BA, talk about bad timing eh!
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YoYo
i totally agree with Sky your friend more than likley wants hers done!
Buy yourself some baggy tops and you will be surprised how many people dont realise you’ve had your boobs done. I wore big tops and hoodies to work and no one knew that i’d had it done!!!!!
I didnt tell anyone that i was having BA not even my Mum…. just turned up after the op with big boobs! I’ve managed to keep it quiet so im sure that going back to the office wont be an issue.yoyo
0pYeh me too! Haha! I wanted them done since I was a teenager, but waited, and don’t think I’m guna have a growth spurt now! lol!
As for my friend, she always used to tease me about my ‘tic tacs’ and new I always wanted her ‘Janet Jackson’ cleavage, but now mine are bigger than hers and obviously pert, she couldn’t believe I wasn’t wearing a bra… She’s got herself a well off BF now, so I’m sure he won’t mind buying her some lol!
Ah, I can’t wait to hear your story hun!
Time will really fly by for you!
I’ll be uploading pics in next few days, will let you know when I do!
Btw, I don’t often have time to go on the forum, so if you have any questions, save them up and write me an email… yo.zervides@googlemail.comxxx
myasky
0pGosh thats mad isnt it. Shame ur parents are bein like that. You sound like sucha lovely girl. Im in my EARLY 30’s lol. We r old enuff to make our decisions arent we!! I really waited for this as I knew my boobs werent gonna get any bigger!! And as for ur m8 she probably wishes she cud have hers done lol:tongue:
yoyo
0pHi girls,
I had my BA on 28th Oct with Mr.Adamo (my story is somewhere on the forum, I think page 2) and I feel really depressed! 🙁
It’s not like me and not in my nature, so I’m quite baffeld!
I feel down and tearful and don’t know why! Did anyone else feel like that after??
Also my cleavage seems really far apart, and I’m worried it’s guna stay that way, maybe I should be more patient it’s only day 5!:bigsmile:Any feedback would be appreciated,
YoYo
xxxmyasky
0pAhh Bless ya!! Gad ur feeling better..Funny how this forum can make such a difference. And ur right about telling too many people. I’ve found that one of my friends is being quite jealous about it, really has surprised me to be honest..Oh well!! How have ur parents been since ur op? Have they mentioned it?
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yoyo
0pThanks JoJo!
I had an argument with my BF last night, but was so overly emotional and crying etc over such stupid thing I feel like an idiot now, was really OTT lol!
Today I feel like crying for no reason it’s ridiculous! And I’ll try to be patient with the cleavage and size etc, still early days! Hope you’re happy with your new boobies!Sky-
you may be able to hide it from your parents if they don’t see you often, just blame it on hormones haha! I made the mistake of telling my parents before and it all went downhill form there, one big headache!! But everyone’s family is different, and some are cool, so just do whatever you think is best for YOU and what will give you least stress before the op… As for friends, my experience is just tell as few as possible, cos you get too much gossip and bitchiness to contend with otherwise! This week will FLY by for you hun! :bigsmile:
To all-
I feel much better after all you lovely girls have reassured me so much!
THANK YOU!
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xxxmyasky
0pThats what I’ve heard so much on here that they appear a lot smaller in clothes. I have not even told my parents just my other half and 2 close friends know so think my mum might get a shock lol. I dont really see parents that much though so prob just think i’ve grown haha!!. Its unbelievable how the time flys pre op dont u think cant believe its next Wed. Are you feelin better now hun?? XX
YoYo i totally know how you feel!!
i was really and then one day it just hit me like tone of bricks, i shouting, crying, everything. It happended to me around 7 days post op. Dont worry you will start to feel better.
Dont worry about your clevage either…. i felt like i could fit a bus down mine. Alot of my swelling seems to have gone down now (3weeks post op today) and my clevage has defo improved.
Stay possitive!
yoyo
0pHe’ll take everything into consideration Sky, so if you have a lot of breast tissue and skin, you’ll need a big enough implant to fill it out properly. He knows what he’s talking about so put your trust in him, it’ll look great!!
He suggested either a 340 or 380 for me, and I chose the smaller one cos I had loads of family grief over it and I want it to look natural.
I’m 5’4″, size 8. Was a 30a/b with tight chest muscles from training, so he couldn’t fit too much in anyway, I think I’ll end up a 30dd/32d? It’s amazing how much smaller they look in clothes though!!xxx
myasky
0pHya Yoyo,
Yeh mix of emotions really. Like u im with Mr Adamo. Having 525cc’s after much consideration!!! Mr A insisted that I should go for a big implant as Im currently a saggy 34B/C size 8-10 curvy
Only 5’2 so thought OMG way too big but he said they would be perfect for me so am really putting my trust in him. I just pray that everything goes ok and I am happy with the results.XX
yoyo
0pHi Sky,
Bet you can’t wait! Who is your BA with?
Only thing is I wish they were a bit bigger, only had 340hp overs, think I got the ‘boob greed’ they talk about haha! My BF says def no bigger on my frame! Just hope they don’t go down too much…
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yoyo
0pThanks so much for your lovely comments girls!
I feel better already :bigsmile:
Have my post op appt with nurse tomorrow, it’ll be my first day out in the big wide world, will be nice to get out!
xxxmyasky
0pAhh so sorry u feel down. My ops in 9 days and going thru lots of different emotions myself. Im not an expert but read so many posts…I really dont think u have anything to worry about hun.5 days is not enough time for your breasts to even begin to settle. I know I will probably stress about any little thing too its to be expected. Dont worry Im sure lots of other girls on here will be able to relate to how ur feelin rite now. Are you relativley happy with he size & everything thou?
Sky xx
susie29
0pHi yoyo
Dont worry chick I felt like that. I had my BA done on the 23rd oct I`ve just had bandages off today and I love them. Please dont worry about your cleavage
mine is far apart and I was nearly crying thinking omg !!! Is this ever gonna change. But I did see some pics that made me feel soooo much better. Your breast will change alot in the next couple of weeks/mths. They will soften and drop a little and you will get the desired cleavage. Keep your chin up hun you will be fine.xx:rolling: -
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