A bit scared

Hi girls im having my BA done 2 weeks 2day and i am really getting scared i have been excited all this time but the closer it gets the more scared i am gettin, im so worried it will go wrong or i wont like them and its goin to really hurt, im also really worried about the nasty coments in goin to get after. I had a 2nd nightmaire last nite and have decided that its enough i should be really excited now scared, does any1 else feel like this xxxxx

Hi Zoe,

I had my ba last Friday and felt all of the above in the run-up to it. It’s completely normal to be scared. I was really excited then it hit me the day before. I was soooo scared, spent most of the day before running back and forth to the loo (sorry if tmi!) and hardly slept the night before.

But on the day, I really enjoyed the whole experience. I was really nervous beforehand and had a bit of a wait, but made sure I distracted myself with TV and magazines. My Fiance did a great job of keeping me calm too! The anaesthetic (which was the bit I was most worried about) was the best bit! I had a really good sleep and didn’t believe the nurse when I woke up and she said it was all done coz I didn’t feel any pain at all! Everyone is different, but the painkillers they give you afterwards are great, and I’ve had discomfort more than pain- nowhere near as bad as I imagined! My boobs are all bandaged up at the moment and a bit hard and pointy, but I’m really happy with the size and so pleased that I finally went through with it after wanting it for 6 years!

Only a few of my friends know and have been really supportive and excited for me. If anyone does give me any nasty comments, all I can say is either they don’t have a clue what it’s like to be unhappy with their body or they’re just as insecure as I was and jealous that I’ve done something about it and made myself happy!

Which hospital are you going to? And which surgeon? I had Mr Singh at Highgate. He did an amazing job and the staff at Highgate looked after me really well. It’s a really nice hospital and felt more like a hotel! Feel free to ask any questions. The best advice I could give is not to be scared and just enjoy it (much easier said than done, I know!)

Take Care and Good Luck,
Katey x

Hi Zoe, im having mine done in 3 weeks in manchester, and ive just started feeling really terrified!! I know that we shouldnt be worried because we will be v well looked after! I think its the not knowing, and i know for me its the worry of how much pain i will be in after the op! I just keep focusing on how great ill feel once its all over and done with, Im sure we will be fine though!!! x x x

hi zoe i had my ba fri 18th like you i was scared after getting to hospital after nightmare with train got there 9.15 i was 1st of 5 that day for op dr kazazzi came to see me about 9.45 drew on me etc by 10.10 i was in theatre no time to think about it which was better .i would have been more nervous just sat waiting.by 12.10 i was back in room.didnt handle ga very well felt dreadful all day couldnt eat till they gave me brekkie nxt day.my boobs felt like id been crushed .i was more bothered about the feeling sick but some people handle ga better.dr saw me nxt day at 8.15 am said ok to go .eventually went at 11 when i was picked up.been ok since no pain just tender and sore just keep taking your tabs they give u .they make u sleepy.getting my tape off on xmas eve so cxant wait to have a good look at them and have a nice bath .take care tracyx

hi zoe i am booked in a week tomorrow and am also feeling the nerves I am literally having dreams every night about it! haha I am trying not to think about it too much now and am banning myself from looking at pictures or talking to everyone and anyone about it as I either get nervous or excited or worried. I am really gna try and switch my brain off until the day but everything iv read about girls being nervous they all (or almost all) enjoyed it and I havnt read about one unhappy person after a few weeks of healing dnt worry it will all be fine il post my story in a week and will tell you very honestly good luck hun tho u wont need it! xxx

good luck karley hope your ba goes ok i was really nervous couldnt keep off loo on the day b4.but i got up nxt day thinking this is it no turning back was 1st to arrive at hospital that day cos of weather didnt expect to go in 1st id only been at hospital half hour and i was drawn on and in my robes ready to go .which i think now was better .if id have been waiting all day id have been a bag of nerves.good luck take care tracy x

yeh im first im aswell admission 7.30 thanks juicylips! xx

aww thank you every1 i feel a bit better, Katey im havin mine done in Doncaster with Mr Kazzazi he seems really nice, i hav told myself not to think about it so much now and just think about christmas i cant believe its only 3 days away i been thinkin about my boobs so much that iv not really thought about christmas haha. im even more worried about not likin them now, i hav just seen a picture of my best firend who had hers done a year ago, she had the pear shaped inplant and i have never really like the shape and i hav just seen a picture of her from the weekend and you can see to whole inplant i looks so wierd because its not round it just looks like a pear is stuck in there!! xxx

hi zoe youll b in good hands with mr kazazzi and the nurses at doncaster they really look after you .rooms are nice 2 i got a nice goody bag of molton brown minatures which i cant use till get tape off in 2 days time.your friend must of had the tear drop implants not very popular i read they can move around in the pockets cos their narrow at top.good luck again.x

ye thats what she had they really dont look very good she told me that i should get them too becasue they look more natural but i dont think they do really, you got a goody bag thats cute im looking forward and scared now i just want to get it over with 1 week and 6 days seems forever rite now! what did you wear to come out of hospital should i buy a tracksuit? xxx

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