anyone else had their friends expecting them to have gone massive simply because ive had a boob job they expect me to have gone to a about a H cup or something !
very annoying when im very happy with being a DD! xx
yes hun all the time, ive got a couple of days left for my op and im sure everyone thinks im gonna turn into a glamour model or something it does my head in. xx
Yeh i av that at work my collegues r just lyk omg ur gunna b huge lyk i am avin 410 unders expecting to b dd / e but yh i see were ur coming fr babe xxxop tomozaa worried bout peircing x
its murder isnt it! i keep getting “oh i expected them to be masssive!” – only off the girls funny enough xx
Yeah, I keep getting that too! My friend told me not to come back looking like Jordan lol.
But all my friends have big boobs so don’t really get it. They’re probably jealous my boobs will look better than theirs! x
think everyone has that reaction hun, people just assume if your having a boob job your gonna have mahooooosive in your face tits, which is actually not possibble with your first ba. its not so much about them being ignorant just miss informed about the results you can acheive xx
i know everyone i know has bigger boobs than me so u think they wouldnt be bothered, but like you said pinkjade its the fact that we are gonna have better boobs than them it all a jealousy thing in the end xx
One of my old friends (more a frenemy now!) had DDs & they were sooo saggy before she even had a baby! She doesn’t know I’m getting mine done, I bet she runs off to get an uplift when she finds out!
hate that. and if people say ‘i cant even notice uve had it done really’ it could make u feel low about not havin them big enough (as a lot of girl wish they went bigger anyway bacause the swelling has gone) x
I think its the assumption that if your having a BA your going to go BIIIGG – could you imagine finding clothes to fit? its already been a struggle since i had them enhanced lol! xxx
iv had a quite a few people ask me where my boobs are, cheeky sods, it does sometimes make me think i should have gone bigger, but, i really didnt want to go any bigger and the size i have suits me perfectly
i think its quite rude really, if you knew someone had spent all that money, you wouldnt dream of saying something insulting x
exactly! my boyfriend loves them but my friends think i should have gone bigger while my family thinks ive gone too big! they should all be happy that we are happy xxx
Girls,you can please some of the people some of the time,but you cant please all of the people of all the time,no matter what you do.Your happiness is what counts.xxx
I’ve found that since I’ve booked the op I’ve actually lost 2 friends who I considered really close, both of them don’t agree with it and refuse to discuss it with me and as a result we have grown quite distant. Also a lady who I work with and who I thought I knew really well as I’ve only told a couple of people at work, turned around and said ‘that’s really selfish, you have a baby to consider and oh well I guess you are one of those girls with your looks arn’t you!!’ wtf??
i think alot of it stems from jealously ! we should be allowed to do what makes us happy xx
u no what sod them!! if ur happy then who care. as it was FOR YOU anyway not for them! they aint the 1 who has to look at them everyday! if they stop being ur friends over that then obvously they are jealous and they aint worth havin. dont feel low about it get angry!
makes me so angry!! they will start makin silly comments to like they aint even big it wernt worth it ……..one word…..JELLLL!!!!!!! LOL emififi ur boobs r fab and u n ur bf no it!! x
missym83,yes she is right you do have a baby to consider and that child need a happy confident mother to guide her/him through life,give her MYAs number and tell her you dont mind referring her she will get a discount,jealousy makes people very spiteful.xxx
thanks sophie! its best not to listen to any negativity
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exactly!! i no its hard coz i could imagine wen i have min and someone says u cant even notice it. id b like o piss off
‘-( the one thing i think about is if my bf likes them
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Thanks Tina, I’ve got to say the attitudes have really shocked me so far as I never even considered other people’s opinions other than my BF as his opinion was something which was important to me, luckily he wants me to do whatever makes me happy!! I think you are all right, none of the girls who have said these things are happy with their looks, that says it all! xx
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