A man-related MESS.

Where to start…

Before I get with a guy, I completely know my own mind, exactly what I want and don’t want. As soon as a guy comes along, I go into total panic mode and want everything I don’t want realistically. I’ve managed to land myself a fuck buddy, we’ve known each other only 2 weeks, and it’s all gone pear shaped, yet we’re still seeing each other cos the sex is amaszing. Anything outside of the bedroom is awful though, we are completely incompatible.

Honestly, my head is spinning!

Any advice from you ladies, I wanna hear it! xx

Hun, I say as long as you don’t wanna be in a relationship with him or have feelings, go with it! Have a good time until you do stumble across someone you like and could see yourself with! Xx

Ended up in the exact same situation but times two! Was meeting a guy that I really liked then he started blowing hot and cold and another guy wanted to take me out and my friends persuaded me to meet him instead of hanging around for first one to make his mind up, and after meeting a few times ended up sleeping with him! Been round for just sex like five times now! And it turns out the first guy is keen but was just weary because of being hurt in the past and has told me how much he likes me etc and I feel soo bad and know what I need to do but yet the second guy has something about him that keeps me going back to him! But think its just what he has in his pants so really need to stop but its just such a nasty situation, imagine if the first guy knew especially because I think both of them think that we’re not seeing other people what a bitchhh haha xxx

Sophie don’t worry hun, I’m also seeing 2 guys just because this is the only way I can keep myself from being too attached to either of them. As shitty as it is, I’ve gotta do what I need to do to look after myself! x

I have various fuck buddies because I hate relationships but love sex and get bored of people VERY easily, there’s only about 6 ‘regulars’ who come round now because the others bore me to tears. Fuck buddies aren’t for meaningful conversation or going out to dinner; they are just for sex and that’s it…so why would you want anything outside the bedroom? You’re not supposed to be compatible, if you are then it’s a plus, but if the sex is good then that’s all that matters. Sorry sweetie but I have to be frank on this one x

Dolly, you are completely right! I tried to get the sex and the pleasantries and it hasn’t worked at all, it’s only messed me up more. We’ve agreed to have a break for a week, and I’ve deleted his number til he texts me. x

It just doesn’t work; I really couldn’t care less if I went out for a drink with any of them or whatever, I just want them to smush me and then leave lol. I think you have to be in the right frame of mind to actually have fuck buddies because waayyy too many girls take it too seriously and expect something more which simply isn’t the case…then they get all upset when the guy doesn’t want to know, I think it’s quite pathetic really. I don’t know why but I just never get attatched to people. Ever. I think it’s stupid, but that’s just me…

Ohh how come? If the sex is good then I say hold onto that one xxx

i say aslong as ur happy doin what ur doin & u dont end up falling for him (= hurt!) which it doesnt sound like that will happen then f**k it, jus go with it! literally lol!! u only live once x

Yeah, I totally agree. When I’m single I know full well what I want, but then when a man comes on the scene it all goes pear shaped and I end up falling for them etc etc, even though I know that’s not what I want. It’s ridiculous. I think this fuck buddy thing has been a lesson learned tbh, and thank god he still wants to see me after all the drama (the sex must be good haha). x

Just got to grow a thicker skin hun; like I said, they aren’t there for anything other than sex. I don’t know why but this has been wired into me ever since I was 15; I literally can’t stand having a boyfriend…never cried over a man in my life, maybe I’m just heartless lol, oh well I have fun and I intend to keep it that way

Why though? I’m not trying to be rude or pry into your business but why is it that you can fall for someone just through sex? x

this post makes me feel really 😯 🙄 😳

@oooroxanneooo why? xxx

if im single i think that i want to be with someone then when im with someone they just do my head in something stupid

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