ADVICE PLEASE

Ladies…. I’m in massive panic stations… my doctor rang yesterday and said the cosmetic surgery company have rang and asked to release my medical notes and her view on whether im fit for surgery . So my doctor rang me and said there is no doubt you’re medically fit but i do wonder if you’re mentally fit!!!!!….. I went to my docs in january and just explained how I was feeling in terms of the way i feel about my boobs and the effect I feel it is having on my self confidence. i told them i feel so out of proportion and because i am big built i feel really manly which is had effect on my intimate relationship so they gave my anti d’s which i took for a month and didnt bother going back because i don’t feel pills are the answer for me. she said to me maybe we could explore other avenues before considering surgery I told her I have been considering surgery for over 6 years it’s not something i have rushed into the only thing that gets me down is my boobs and the way they make me feel so taking pills certainly isnt going to make them grow!! My operation is meant to be in 4 days. hotel and transport paid for non refundable child care arranged time off work sorted and now all Ive got to do is wait to here from the surgeon whether or not he will agree to operate!!!! I am soo pissed off!! This doctor has never even met me as ive only just moved doctors i’ve told her my full feelings over the telephone. Ive told her im not having this surgery to go and flaunt myself or too go ridiculouly big all i want is for my boobs to be in proportion with the rest of my body I just want to feel femine, i told her if i was petite and had small boobs it wouldn’t bother me but im not im broad and look like a bloke naked!! I’m so upset with lack of understanding and wanting to fob me off with anti depressments!! so for the long post just soo hacked off and upset right now xxx

I hope you get this sorted out, I cant believe they have left it this late to check things with your GP!! Have you spoken to your pc about things?

That’s shocking Good luck with it all, fingers crossed you’ll get your lovely new boobies xx

This happend with me they wrote to my gp like a week b4 my op but my gp didn’t hav ny records stil as is been with them only had changed 6wk b4. It Got postponed 3days b4 n they wudnt reschedule until they Got the letter xx

Hope u get this sorted Hun, it really should be your decision not the the doctors. Good luck in sorting it xx

God my Dr’s are useless and I cant imagine them getting back within a week, u cant even get an appointment to see a Dr for a month!!

My PC has been fantastic to be fair can’t fault her…. just tried ringing my surgery and asking to speak to the doctor but she went home at noon, she is ringing me first thing I have asked receptionist she if she can see what the dr has faxed over to the nurses and surgeon she read it out to me so as long as she is not fibbing to me because she doesn’t want me to flip out at her it doesn’t directly say I advise against surgery so hopefully it will be okay god im just so worried will lose so much money if they refuse to operate. My PC is trying to get through to the nurses to make sure they have got the fax and to confirm whether surgery will go ahead!! I hope i hear something today as I wasn’t able to sleep at all last night!!

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