ADVICE!!! (please help?) Started by: retro123

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    In short: Was going to have BA over christmas holidays day after I broke up from uni (month off), Got offered a job and took it as I need to pay my parents back £800 which they are loaning me for the BA. Trying to get the BA booked in for middle of January due to uni commitments and can only afford to have a couple of weeks off max. How do I tell my new boss (who is a woman) that I need two weeks off (Which may coincide with their sales) to have my boob job? I don’t want to say its just an ‘operation’ because they may feel bad for me and worry and when they find out they may be annoyed that I didn’t tell them what it was for.

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    Oh and I know it may sound immature but I don’t want to put off the op until the summer because I want to be able to show off my new boobs not cover them up and swealter in my bed because its too hot. would rather be stuck in during the cold, snowy months and get them before my 19th!

    skybird 1
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    It’s none of anyone elses business hun, WHY, you need an Operation…..They don’t need to know! x

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    Yeah i would just say its an operation. It’s none of their business what operation it is. You could do that or just wait till a bit later in the year and use ur holiday for time off. What job do u do? x

    nikki 2
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    you should have said you had a holiday booked for those weeks, as an employer they should honour your holidays if you have only just accepted the job xx

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    They never asked me about any holidays :/ I know they have a sale in january and usually most sales places don’t like to take holiday during this time. I work in a shoe store x

    nikki 2
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    tell them you told your mum about the job and she sprung on you she booked you a holiday as a xmas pressie for those 2 weeks, be sneaky hehe xx

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    I can’t do that :/ would be too long to explain why but its complicated x

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    Hi Hun I’m a carer an told my boss yesterday I said I’m having an operation in jan an I need 2 weeks off luckily she said yeah that’s fine straight away but I had my story ready in case she wanted details, first I was gonna say well it’s quite private I don’t really want to say or if she really wanted to no then I would have said I’m having a ba on the nhs an iv been waitin 18 months an they finally gave me my date in jan, somethin like that huni xx

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    Thanks chick :) think thats a good one!

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