Am I the only one

Who is struggling to bond and like my new boobies??

I have wanted this for so long and expected to be like everyone else straight away saying I love my boobs!….. The fact is, I don’t, I am only 1 week po but they are such a weird shape and I just keep worrying that they won’t drop and will look like this forever. They are better than what I had before but I suppose I had a perfect pair in my head and they are so not what I imagined.

Is it normal for them to be sort of under your armpit? I havent seen anyone else’s look like mine.

I think I am just being impatient really and worrying because everyone else seems to love them straight away.

Sorry for such a moany post just needed to get it out as my partner is sick of hearing me x x

i loved mine to start with.. then the other weekend i hated them!! got so upset x

Hun you will get used to them x they need to settle and the swelling needs to go down x once this has happened you should be used to them x

yes you are being impatient but i think tbh we all have been at some point after the BA xx

Thanks for replying. I know I am being impatient, I just worry that everyone loves there’s at first and they don’t seem as oddshapes as mine, I am trying to upload my pics but for some reason it won’t let me x

have you shrunk them ??/ xx

No, I am trying to do it off my phone, sk going to try off my computer and see if that works x x

Just wend to ad u KD2011 but it was already requested…. I’m sure they r fine ur just not used 2 them. I’m like u. I aint had it dun but I have a perfect pair in my head and I no they aint gonna b perfect x

Mine also felt like they were under my armpit and around my sides- I hated it! But I can safely say, 5 weeks post op and they feel very much forward facing, lol! You’d be surprised how much difference a month makes, so don’t panic. xx

thank you for all your replies, just need to be patient and stop looking at them and criticising xx

I know exactly how you feel hun. It’s so hard not t analyse them a million times a day. When you’re back in work/back in a routine, you won’t think about/look at them so much and it’s then that you’ll notice the big changes. xx

hope so, back to work on Monday so should make it easier not to look all the time. its the reactions of other people as well, they don’t say anything but the face says it all. xx

What did u have huni. Cc’s and unders? Who with. They look fine 2 me not weird at all I can see them droppin nicely (from girls I’ve seen on here b4) and lookin natural xx

I’ve also been there too hun- I get the ‘they look natural on you/not too big’ which I wasn’t really hoping for, haha. xx

yep exactly the same, makes you feel crap, one of my friends said…. so when are you getting them done as i didnt tell anyone the date and i said i have, she was well shocked. xx

I hated mine for the first 6 weeks! It changed when I was aloud to get normal bras. I realised how different they look. You’ll learn to love them. Xx

awww hun your not alone! i was exactly the same! seriously! and i felt like nobody else was feeling the way i did as they all seemed to be in love with their boobs and i hated mine!!!!

it didnt help that other ladies were having theres done around the same time as me and they loved theirs! i felt so crap and down, depressed and cheated…..i cried all the time, i didnt want to look at them, still i took pics week by week so i could see the improvements, im 6weeks post op now, i love them! dont get me wrong i still dont think they are perfect, my right is smaller than my left and im having probs as it goes under my arm pit!! (especialy when im led down, my boobs stays where it should and the implant wonders off under my armpit!)so looks like a growth under my armpit lol nurse said it needs more time for the scar tissue to hold it in place. they will sort them selves out you are very early days and i promise they will change and you will start to like them but like jade said when you get them in a normal bra they will look gorgeous! and you will realise how much you like them.

hang in there hun! x x x

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