any 1s fella against boobs???

i really realy want cosmetic surgery and have the funds 4 a boob job and i wanted other things depending on the price… i also have a baby and a new house to move into soon i could use the money 4 mayb a new kitchen??and my bf is dead against me having anything done but i need 2 b happy with my self and have confidence bak so it wil benefit ow relation ship its worth it right?? oh what to do the only thing thats holding me bak from doing it is the fact that hes not happy withit. has any of your other halfs been like this and youve gone ahed with surgery?? and what company did u decide to go with?

hi talisafrancis I was with some one for 6 years and he was really against boob jobs I have wanted one for years but never got it because I listened to him, but we ended up breaking up this year because he cheated on me, so I decided to book mine im getting mine done in 6 days time, but I told him about it last week as we still talk from time to time, he then made me question it again, he said no one will take me seriously and that its not attractive, I was having real doubts again, but then after speaking to some of the girls on here I realised that the only one you are will always and forever is yourself so its important that you are happy and if thats what makes you happy he should support you on it, he loves you regardless otherwise he wouldnt be with you. he says he doesnt like it now but he will come round once hes seen the difference in you. you will know deep down what it the right thing to do, but you cant not do something that you know will make you happy just because some one else doesnt like it, lol sorry for the novel ive just written xxx

hei thanx .xsactly what i was thinkin! good luk with urs soo xiting ! keep me posted ! r u having anything els done?xxxxxx

thanks I will defo keep you posted, no just the boob job dont think i can take more pain than that haha, hope you make the right decision for you xxx

I really do think guys just assume you’ll end up like Katie Price but that isn’t the case at all! Maybe show him some after pics so he can see it can look really natrual x

I agree with sharon, i think they think that every woman who has one done will look like her or someone who had it done to the extreme. I do also think though that its partly because of the attention he will also know you’ll get, as he is a guy so he knows what others are like! Im sure he’ll come around once he see’s how great and natural you look! xx

yeah my ex said to me that if i had them done i’d ‘probably run off with a footballer’ lol! think they just need a bit of reassurance that you’ll still be the same person…just with a hot rack x

ooohh yeah sounds like me and my partner last year!! ha ha!!. we also still are in desperate need for a new kitchen, but i also needed a boob job! my partner kept ignoring me when i mentioned it, and kept changing the subject, and it got tp the poit of my breaking down in tears, and taking me top of and saying “just look at the state of them!!!!!! i have ended up like this having our beautiful children, and i love them to bit, but i also want some new boobs!! i cant live any longer with these saggy spaniel ears” ha ha!!.

but he gave in and i booked my consultation may last year and got my boobs done through transform sept last year, and ive never been as happy!!.

my partner was funny as he thought id have ridiculous massive implants like pam anderson and katie price, but after having them done he was quite surpised.

he thought they looked a bit stuck on at first due to the swelling but now he like them as they are normal in size and wobble.

he does admit now that he was wrong and i was right! so its all good.

in fact tell him to read what ive wrote, and understand that mya and transform only do the natural look. In the end us women go through child birth and do everything for our kids, so whats so wrong in getting a bit of our old boy back, cos thats all it is, implants are big and fake they actually look similar than our old breasts b4 having kids.

i remember when i had my saggy flat chest, and my boyfriend looked at a girls boobs, she had big dd and i was gutted, and that made me make up my decision, and now my boobs are ten times better than hers ha ha!! i have nice pert average in size boobies.

also tell him!! that if you have your boobs done things will get better in the bedroom department!! ha ha! cos they do make you feel sexier in your self! ha ha XXXXX

that meant to say ” get our old body back” ha ha! sorry my toddler is trashing my house so i have to write as quick as poss!!! and make spelling mistakes

haha my 5month is attakin the keyboard takes ages 2 get sumthin posted xx

hi talisafrancis do you think you know why he doest want you to get it done? is it cuz he doesnt like them or is he worried about what other men are going to be like around you?

i dont think men like us spending money full stop but its what you want thats important once nobody goes hungry lol i personally wud prioritise boobs over the kitchen thats just me sometimes u have to think of your own happiness and i guarantee u all men love boobs they cant help themselves and they hate the thought of your new found confidence because deep down they r all quite insecure so i say go for what u want not anyone else…good luck

Well said lila, think my bf is the insecure type but he seems to be coming around to the idea now he knows he hasn’t got a say! I love him to bits but uv always gotta put urself first! Xx

i cant wait if i didnt have my baby id consider goin abroad for it 4 shure. i think he doesnt want me gettin them done mainly coz he thinks i want huge kati price boobs n gonna look fake and men will look n that so i can oonly prove him wrong coz im not gonna give this up 4 no1 xx

talisafrancis-Questioning ourselves is never been surprising… we always think of our family before anything else…I have and I know it. My mum died of breast cancer and got me a bit worried that my risk of having breast cancer would increase if I had BA. Then,I spoke to my husband and asked how he feels with me having breast enlargement. He said that, if I wanted this done I should go for it! I had my BA last Wednesday, my dad came to visit unexpectedly Thursday before my procedure and I started to panic because I did not want him to know. My husband said, not to worry and he will speak to my dad…it turned out that my dad questioned my desire and that why my husband is letting me do this… My husband said, she wants this done, therefore the only thing we could do is support her decision!

My husband has been great looking after me, my daughter of 16 yrs old has been so helpful at home, done the house cleaning including ironing yesterday.She is a gem. My 9 yr old son knows I am unwell, but did not know of what reason. They have been my priority for years and this year, it is my turn to look after me…I had my eyes lasered 30th of July and had my BA on the 11th of Aug.

There may be some thoughts to consider personally! You need your partners assistance for at least a week as you will be limited on what you can do. Talk your decisions through with your partner as this is a sign of respect! Remember what they say…a happy you, makes a happy all!

Weigh the situation and I am sure you will come up with an agreement with your partner. Good luck mate and keep us posted!

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