any advice for me . insecurities

No matter what i do and how much i spend i still.feel as insecure and as unwanted as i did before.
I get major paranoia and feel like its gunna destroy my life..

My bf loves me but im always worrying that im not good enough or that hell find someone better.
Or that hes not attracted to me i just dunno what i can do to sort my head out.

This paranoia is gunna end up destroying my relationship x

Hi hun. ..from what I have seen of your pics you are a very attractive young girl. I think it might be worth having a chat with your gp and express your feelings to them as they might be able recommend that you maybe see a counsellor for a bit. I would strongly advise that you do not have any further cosmetic surgery hun as you are not doing for the right reasons at the moment and you may later regret it once your emotional issues are resolved. You must never try and change yourself for someone else. If someone is worth it, they will love you for who you are. It seems to me that you also need to start loving yourself for who you are 🙂
Hope this helps xx

I second what kate has said hunx

Its so hard maybe its my past it just affecs my future i cant seem to shift these feelings x i dont want to push away the one man who acthally loves me because of whats happened in the past.
Just have serious trust issues and insecurties xx

have you thought of some form of counselling or therapy hun? I know some people don’t like it but it really does help 🙂 it would help you deal with the past and your insecurities…just an idea 🙂

Counselling really helped me it’s worth looking into:) x

Try and sort out what’s going on in the inside first hun xxx

Yeah ive tried counsilling a few times but they never took me seriously

It didnt help resolve the problem xx feel like im stuck in a ongoing battle x

You need to try again with the GP and counselling. All the girls are suggesting it, we can’t all be wrong hun…be persistent with the docs, you need help, and someone to talk to.. Someone with a degree in the area I mean:) don’t give up!

Hi Hun.. Sorry to hear your feeling down. I was the same for a long time and tried counselling.. personally for me, it didnt work and i am now on what i like to call my ‘happy pills’. I swore blind that i would never take tablets for my moods but once my son was born last January i knew i couldnt carry on the way i was. I started on my tablets in march last year and my gp is aiming to have me off them by christmas. Its certainly isnt a ‘quick fix’ nor a decision that should be taken lightly.. but for me, it has really helped me to see things in perspective and see myself the way i should. Im not perfect but, well.. neither is anyone else. Hope you feel better xxx

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