Anyone else feel like their partners don't like their boobs?

This is quite hard for me to talk about but does anyone else get the impression their partners don’t like their new boobs??
My husband has always said he’s not a fan of fake boobs but totally understood my reasons for wanting to get mine done and supported that. However he was quite open and told me he wasn’t sure if he’d like them. Me being naive just kind of thought ‘yeah right…’ and was certain he would.
He’s been amazing with helping me recovery and look after our kids but not once has he said they look good, the size is nice or anything 🙁
Tonight I asked him what he thought and he said ‘well they’re still post surgery and it’s very early days’ then shrugged off the coversation with ‘I’m not getting into this’. This obviously is playing on my mind constantly now!! Yes he’s right I am only 6 days PO and they are still very hard and unsettled but would feel nice to have just a little bit of positivity about it- after all it’s a huge thing I’ve just gone through and it’s not like I can change my mind now!
Am I wrong to feel a little upset and worried?? 🙁

Are you Eck wrong he should be telling you how amazing they look!! My boyfriend just wants to see them all the time, he’s fell in love all over again!! This is a really big deal for you and it’s really good how he’s been supportive and helped you a lot but I think he should be a bit more happier for you and as you said have abit of positivity about it :(( after all it’s made you happy so he should be happy too, after all he gets to share them 🙂 xxxx big hugs xxxx p.s they look fab, sod him!! Men can be such pigs xx

Maybe he’s just worried about all the extra attention your going to get because they look great Hun, that’s all my oh is worried about lol men huh they think everything we do is about them, enjoy them Hun he’ll be fine it still very new to him I’m guessing xx

Us girls always think the worst, especially because most of us had them done because of our insecurities in first place. My bf was the same until one night about 4 weeks after he sat and told me he was just very worried about me and my recovery. Once they were all healed he was a lot better. He didn’t like being reminded they weren’t mine and that things could go wrong still, he was more relieved than me that things were all fine once I saw surgeon and that I didn’t need to see him again. He could be behaving like this for a number of reasons, try not to think the worst x

Thanks ladies. He’s not the jealous type at all but I know that he has been worrying sick about the surgery and the first few days of recovery so I’m hoping its something to do with that Liz. Maybe like you say until they are healed and looking a bit more natural and not so ‘post-op like’ with dressings etc he doesn’t really want to look at them. After all he did say he didn’t like fake boobs!

Just praying this is just a phase he’s going through. The main reason I had my BA was because I was losing my confidence with him when we were together (sorry if too much info). But if I’ve made that problem 100 times worse by having this done due to him not liking them I will never be able to forgive myself for being so selfish 🙁

Think I’m having an emotional 24 hours – damn medication !!

Hey Lenna, YES… i feel exactly the same! I keep asking if he likes them but he just seems to say they need to drop alot coz they look very fake atm.. :-O he just doesnt seem that bothered… n he keeps saying stuff like ‘oh they are so hard, i used to love your boobs before’ n things like that!! But i didnt do it for him or anyone else… and i LOVE my new MASSIVE boobs. We went out for food last night and i had a vest top on because it was so hot… they got a lot of attention and i dont think he could handle it ahaha.. he might be playing them down to you so you dont notice all the new attention you might get for them? Just a thought. xx

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