Anyone else not told their family?? Started by: emmab85

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  • emmab85
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    No idea how soon before u can have them redone, dont they 3 – 6 months for them to fully settle & stop changing so there is ages for swelling to reduce. U might like them over next few weeks as they stop being painful, swelling decreases & they start to soften.

    I thought the same about the smaller ones 260 instead of 300 & wish I’d had them too cus like u said u can enhance smaller ones with padded bra.

    I think over time u might like them.

    Just give it time hun, cus its alot of money to spend & then have to spend it again within months to go smaller, they really do need to settle in.

    xx

    cazza
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    yeah think you’re probably right on the 3-6 months. when did yours stop being so painful?? they feel quite numb today and very sore. cant get comfy at all. thank u its really helped talking to someone who feels the same and understands. i just need to get thru the next few weeks. got loads of nights out coming up and i’ll probs be hunting for outfits that hide my new boobs instead of showing them off like a normal person! xx

    emmab85
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    Mine was alot better yesterday (Day 5 post op) even managed to wash & blow dry my own hair aswel as hoover & iron an outfit to wear that day.

    I felt better once id been doing things & getting back to normal.

    There still painful first thing in a morning, but no pain once been up half hour or so. Still sleeping proped up & getting fed up of that now.

    my nipples still feel numb but I know that can take ages for sensations to come back.

    I have a hen night on saturday & depending how it goes tomorrow when bandages come off depends on what I will be wearing.

    I think as the days go on u will end up liking them.

    Hope u start feeling better soon hun

    Let us know if u need to talk anytime

    xx

    cazza
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    thank u. yeah its gonna be hell sleeping upright for so long! i really hope so. dont think im in a very good place right now …. hope it all goes well tomorrow when u get your bandages off. i can give u my email add if u want to chat privately or anything xxx

    emmab85
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    Cazza – Heres my Email address if you want me for anything or if u just wanna chat privately: ema_b85@hotmail.co.uk

    Will let you know how I get on tomorrow!

    Take care hun, were all here if you want us for anything

    xx

    luna
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    Hi girls,

    am so glad to hear from some1 that they dont wish they have gone bigger!

    I am just like you 2 – I have nothing atm and just wish to have a little bit of my own boobies. Am a 34 AA and wanna be a C cup. Was given 2 sizes and decided for the smaller one but after being on here I got worried cos every1 wanna get bigger!!

    I have made up my mind now though and go for the smaller one – it might take me 2 cupsizes up which is absolutely great and more than I can hope for.

    Cazza am sorry to hear that you feel so down but you just had your BA and as the other girls said the swelling takes some time to go down and then of course they will soften and get more natural with the time – just need to be patient. I know its easier said than done. Hope you feel better in the next couple of days. Would be nice to hear how you all get on xxx

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    Luna, i feel the same after reading this!

    I have nothing (34aa) and want to be a c cup so any increase is fab! I quite like small boobs, just not flat ones! haha. So i would rather be a bit smaller than hoped than too big cos anything is better than nothing! haha.

    Debating between 300 and 340 and dont want to regret not having one or the other but guess you have just got to go with what feels right…? plus lots of people do say go for the biggest which i think has influenced my decision…

    I keep telling myself that there isnt much difference between the two sizes but it doesnt make it any easier!! Arghhhhhh! xx

    luna
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    hayleylou,

    I was offered the same sizes as you and when I spoke to my surgeon I decided to go for 300. I know there isnt alot between them which doesnt make it easier I totally agree plus all those comments here got me really worried! It does influence you when you only read you should go bigger!!

    But now I decided to stick to my first gut feeling and go for 300. I am prepared losing a bit having unders – and then again some people say that when the muscles finally relaxes you might go up a cup size!?! I did the rice test with the 10% you lose having unders and I think: WOW this is going to be all mine :D

    I dont think i will be disappointed and whatever decision you make you wont be!

    When are you having your BA hun? I am booked in for 26th November with Mr. Kazzazi xxx

    cazza
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    hi girls thanks for your comments. yeah the only advice i could offer is to seriously think about what it is that you want and go with what u want and not what other people think. cos once you’ve got it there’s no going back unless you have further surgery which isnt ideal. i think im just paranoid cos i had absolutely nothing and now i have some which i suppose takes a bit of getting used to. plus im in a lot of pain so thats probably affecting how im feeling. i had unders so im hoping i’ll loose a bit and loose a bit more once swelling goes down. i just wanted to be a B cup so fingers crossed thats all i’ll be by the time everything settles. xxx

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    @ Luna…I’m booked in for 11th of Nov with Mr Traynor. Not long for us now!

    I have done the rice test with 300 in one and 340 in the other and tbh, i cant tell which one is which unless i weigh them again?! Its so exciting though and know we wont be disappointed! Cannot wait! xxx

    Cazza, hope youre feeling better once they settle…I’m sure you will xxx

    cazza
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    thanks hayleylou. yeah i did the rice test thing as well. like u say there’s not much difference between the two sizes really. same goes for me i suppose. i tried sports bra on with the 2 sizes i couldnt decide between and the same really u couldnt tell once u had a top on. i still wish id went smaller tho. i know mine havent settled yet so cant judge properly but i just have this feeling i went too big. xx

    mrsf25
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    Hi Ladies.

    Im not really telling anyone either – my fiance, my mum, twin sis and 3 closest friends know and thats it! Not telling anyone else as my in-laws defo wouldnt approve..just not sure if they will notice but I dont think they will ask even if they do.

    I was a saggy/empty 36c – had 365cc (High Profile) and im in a 38DD bra and i totally love the shape and size..will be happy for them to go down a little in size when swelling goes down but certainly dont want them any bigger

    As someone else said, its a personal thing and for my own confidence its not as if they will be on public display ever haha xxx

    cazza
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    yeah i think its up to yourself who u tell and who u dont. im a very private person and just want to keep it that way for me and my circumstances xx

    sara11 2
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    hope ur feeling a bit better today cazza x

    cazza
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    hey sara thanks – just feel the same really, in agony and hate them to be honest just too big for me! the swelling hasnt gone down at all. pretty fed up! x

    sara11 2
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    it will its still very early days x

    cazza
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    yeah thats true just feeling pretty down and regretting it x

    demi
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    Hi Girls.

    I have been for my consultation and I am seeing my surgeon tomorrow and I have not told anyone! My dad will flip and my mum would prrefer me to go on holiday. Im think just do it and they will get over it! At least they cant stop me from doing it if its all ready done!

    xxx :D

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