anyone have a teenage son? how did they react to your new additions??

My 14 yr old son over heard a conversation between me and a friend discussing boobs job and he had a fit, saying he will move out if i have them done, and i will embarrass him in front of his friends!!! apparently his friend calls me a MILF!! hahaha i find it hillarious as i am far from a milf but i dont want to upset him or cause him and problems!

Im booked to get them done on the 19th oct but dont know how to tell him or the best way to go about i??

Help pleasexxxxx

hei my son is 5months so i dont rly know what to say but goodluk xx jus tel him how important this is to u n he has 2 get over it n accsept it… then ye he will hate it… but when hes older he will understand n b ok with it!xxx

Niki- I have a 16 year old daughter who is supportive of my decision. When I first told her, she asked..”What for, you’ve had small boobies for 38 years and you carry them well. Why do it now”? I told her that I wanted to be able to enjoy my clothes more and that she could now have all my bras (put a sparkle on her eyes). She says that whatever makes me happy, I can do it. The day before my surgery, she and my 9 year old son took the train to have 3 nights vacation at my friends house in Birmingham. They brought me flowers! Up to this point, I am not 100% sure what my 9 year old thought had caused me to be ill in bed! I prefer not telling him, because he is still young to react to my decision. My daughter did clean our whole house, did the laundry, ironing and dishes on their return to Birmingham, while the hubby does the looking after and cooking! 😆

My suggestion is… speak to him and tell him what made you have the plan in having a BA! For 14 years he has always been your life and with good explanation, I am sure he will learn to come to terms with it. Besides, his friends does not need to know what you are having done. This is a private matter and should be dealt with in the household. Goodluck hun

thanks for the advise girls!! i am having a very hard time with my son at the moment, mood swings, grunting, 1 minute he hates the next he loves me! he really is hormonal and all over the place, i try not to let him get me down but its awful to think im going to upset him more!! i considered not having it done for a few yrs but then i think why???? im sure he will get over it in a few weeks and i cant keep pussy footing around him all the time!

The was a point when i thought i could sit downand talk to him about but i think this isa bit more sensitive with it been his mums boobs and him been 14yr old lad!

Sounds like i need teenage advise more than BA advise haha kids ah? you just cant win!

hopefully the right time will come and it wont be as bad as i expected ! fingers crossed!

xxx

LOL, yah it looks like you need the teenage advise aside from the boob advise. My daughter was the same at the age of 14, but at the end of the day we are the parents so we must make that clear to them in a good way.

I am crossing everything for you><

Niki i have a 16 years old Daughter well 17 tomorrow!! she is my world and we sit down and talk about everything. She is exactly the same she said that i am being stupid and selfish and doesnt agree with it at all as she say that I have boobs now that is nothing wrong with them so why would i do it. I was meant to be booking in of the 4th Oct but this and not being 100% sure as i am scared i will want them to be so lovely and natural and after having them done i will hate them, i have been reading so much on here i think, because of this i have not booked it. i just dont know what to do. I know like you that a few days of moods she wouldnt be able to stay angry at me. oh my what to do. x

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