ARGH – girls PLEASE send a MESSAGE

this thread comes up SO FLAMING OFTEN, yet some newbies send requests and NO messages, i think this is slightly rude, yes we were all newbies once, but i had the respect to ASK before sending a message

i dont mind adding anyone, but if i dont get asked first, then your request will be ignored! you can even ask me through a thread or in a private message, it takes two seconds to ask, and its POLITE to do so! i have four pages of photos of my boobs, and i would like to know who can see them, which is why they are set to friends only xx

I agree Hun just rejected about 20 people ! X

dont think anyone will ever resolve this, id say only bout 1/5 of my friends list have messaged me ( i dont mind though, im not bothered who sees my pics lol), ive been on this forum over a year and this comes up so often no one ever learns xx

totally agree luv! i feel exactly the same!! xx

de ja vous!!! xxx

i really think to send a request, you need to pop an ‘hello’ on it, even something as simple as that is better then nothing

its a weekly thread, but so far this week iv had 12 request and three messages off them xx

hi jo, what cc did you have and what were your stats before and after? Do u mind me adding u?? x

Mya need to have a message box which u have to send a message with a friend request… Or have passwords on photos. so people have to message u for password! like sofem has.xx

accepted you hun, i had 380’s from a 32a now in a tight dd, and been measured as a f in one shop and a 30 dd in another xx

Dont know if anyone else has the same problem but i cant pm anyone cus it wont let me, even after im friends with them? xx

Barbieprincess u have to put a topic in the be able to msg, lots of newbies forget too xx

It’s going to be something that always crops up, just ignore it & decline? If they really want to add you eventually they’ll write on here or pm u x

Arghhhh this drives me INSANE. It clearly says on my profile that I won’t accept if I haven’t spoken to people before, what part of that is sooo hard to understand!? So annoyinggg! x

Phew…. I don’t fall into that category!! I’m a newbie been wanting to have my boobs done for 6 years but something has always cropped up so had been put off!! Now I have my consultation next thursday in nottingham im currently 34a/b size 12/14 5ft 7 would be great to see some before and after pics from someone who had similar stats as me as I’m unsure what size to go to!!?

Only joined the forum last night and only have one friend so far (i did message them first ) lol i promise.

Mind if i add some of you ladies xxx

Feel free xx

feel free to add me, i dont mind who sees my pics, i love my boobs and would walk around topless if i could haha xx

Thanks Girls – just looking forward to my shoulder blades no longer sticking out bigger than my boobs i swear people think i’m walking around with my head on backwards lol

Add away hun xx

When I first joined this forum I wasn’t able to send 1 to 1 messages for the 1st day or so, so I did send some friend requests without saying hello first. I also saw a newbie who posted in the forum that she couldn’t send messages. Maybe you have to be registered for 24 hours before sending messages?

the fact is that we dont want randoms just adding us it could be men wanting to perv etc…and yes its nice to compare stats ,surgeons, advise etc

I apologise, I have added a few people on here today, I have attempted to send messages but I can’t send them. Seems some people have had this problem to!

I had same problem when I 1st joined! Then realised you had to put something in the subject box, should send then! I must have looked so rude sorry girls haha! Xx

I agree hun, I understand newbies sometimes don’t realise you have to put something in the subject box as it also took me a while to realise but if people don’t message me, I ignore or reject the requests as my pics are personal to me so it’s nice to know a bit about who’s looking at them xx

I would aswel if I had personal pics up so it’s understandable why requests would get rejected! I’ve even had requests rejected when I’ve sent a message explaining the add haha but that’s fine not everyone would want to accept! Hopefully new members will see this and realise something needs to be written in subject box so message can be sent xx

Hi girls i just joined today so finding my feet, this is like joining twitter all over again!

Have my first consultation next Thurs in Wimpole st Ldn, would love to pick your brains and see your before and afters as feeling completely out of my depth at the mo having not spoken to any experts!

I also dont have any close friends who’ve had BAs for me to ask. Lots of big boobed friends, but unfortunately for me, all natural!

Am currently 32a/b and small size 8/6, anyone similar id love to see your results! Very nervous about taking this step but just having a nosey through this forum has made me realise how common a worry it is and how many ladies are in the same boat! Am defo not a man coming to perve! promise

Thank you so much!

Nervous Jess

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