BA excitement vs unhappy boyfriend?

Hi the other half is not so thrilled with the idea of me having BA. But I have wanted them for years! One minute he’s fine then he’s not talk about mood swings!!! Can’t have been the only one in this position?? Any advice?? Xxx

Think he has the case of the jealousies! I have put off having a BA for 10 years because my exes have always tried to put me off their problem is being made insecure over your new boobs which is totally unfair on you!!! I told my BF 5 days after i booked (probably not ideal but we have a totally unconventional relationship) but i didnt want him to think i was doing it to please him & also so he knows i can make my own decisions. I think he was secretly excited when i told him but he hasnt talked much about them since my sizing consultation but he’s not really a talker tbh. Think you probably need to reassure him your not going anywhere & you will still be you just with “bigger boobs” (not that you should have to – im quite rash these days with me its you either like it or lump it) Good luck male mood swings are horrible xxx

@Danielle soo agree with you. My hubby is jealous too, but end of the day its my body, so decisions should be solely mine too. @Lucy dean it depends on what kinda relationship you have hun, if you have good communication with your bf then go ahead and make him at easy. If not, then do whatever makes you happy 🙂 x x x

I sent mine the pics of my sizers as he said i must let him know “instantly” lol i said what do you think his reply “i will let you know when they are in my hands” lol. If hes a keeper he will get over it,…if he doesnt he obviously has issues he needs to work through! Only do whatever makes you happy if you dont you will be the miserable 1!!!! xxx

Totally agree with Danielle…

@Lucy do what you think is right for you babe..if he loves you he should be happy with whatever makes you happy!!

I had this problem too and as my boyfriend lent me the money for mine he had a say in how big I went. If I was choosing myself I would have defo gone bigger but he says that he doesn’t like big boobs.
He was also forever asking me if I’m gonna leave him when I have them done lol. They’re just insecure bless them x

Thanks ladies!! I’ve also had the your going to leave me speech aswell! I’m quite surprised by how he’s behaving as a few months ago he was saying he would pay for them ( not that I want him too ) and now I’m doing something about it it’s a complete u turn!! Even my mums being supportive 🙁

Boyfriends come and go… Boobs stay;) no brainer really:) what happens if he leaves you in a few months for someone with bigger boobs?! Wouldn’t that be ironic? Do what makes you happy.. If your happiness is not on his priority list- he’s not right for you. Don’t keep a selfish one.

so weird we all have the same issue! my boyfriend said ‘don’t do it you don’t need it’ – I did the whole thing with my little sister, kept him completely out of it because I didn’t want him to have any control. he now admits he prefers them and that he was also worried I would ‘get cocky and leave him’= so odd!!!!

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