Ba tommrow and my bf just dumped me :(:(:(

Hey girls, feel so down my boyfriend just finished with me last night kicked me out the house into the car just as I fell asleep on the sofa! He completely flipped and went mad. Am so upset cant stop crying my ba is tommorow he won’t take me or fetch me he won’t even talk to me! Feel so alone don’t no what to do feel so down and there’s no body else to go with me! Is/has anyone been on there own before? So scared xxxx

oh love thats so horrible, am so sorry he’s done this to you!! have you not any girlfriends that can come with you? xx

I’m so sorry that’s awful. I didn’t go on my own when I had my BA but looking back I think I would have been ok if I had. The nurses were all really nice and looked after me and I got a taxi to take me from the hospital and pick me up from it. If you call your pc she’ll prob be able to give you the number of a taxi company that they use that are reliable and also understanding but you will obviously have to pay extra for it. Hope you sort it all out xxx

No everyone’s working so upset, feel so alone! Never had a op before either. Xxxx

Thank you! Iv booked a hotel for tonight and tommorow looking at trains now, I live 5 hours away from

London can’t believe he’s done this. Making me not want to have my ba xxxxx

Oh razzy, I’m so sorry how mean you’ll be okay tomorrow & feel proud you’re strong enough to go & do it on your own. Do you think you’ll work it through? I’m at highgate tomorrow too – when’d your admission time? Xxx

I horrible that you have to go through it on ur own but you will be really well looked after at the hospital. If I were you I’d still go ahead with the BA don’t let him ruin that for you xxx

Hope so he wont even talk to me! Em are you goig with someone? Thank you so scared! My times is 9.30 when’s yours? Woul be nice to meet you have someone there..hope that doesn’t sound pathetic xxx

Ahh that is so awful, but try not to let it ruin your ba. Maybe look on the boobie buddy list to see if you could meet up with one of the girls from here. xx Good luck

i had a huge argument with my fiance days before my op. i did it alone hun and i was fine. he was messing me around saying he wouldnt take me so i thought stuff u ill sort it myself. I did and did the op alone, the nurses are lovely and I had my booby buddy to chat to. we have since made up and things r good again.

You will be fine hun, dont let this guy treat u like this!!!! x

Evil boy!! grr men irritate me! #foreversingle

razy u will be ok hun i had never had op before and went myself xxxxxxxx

Oh razzy that’s so bad, sounds like someone is feeling insecure if he won’t even speak to you. Don’t worry though, we will all be there for you tomorrow. Which hotel are you staying in, one of us that is at Highgate tomorrow might be in the same one so we can keep you company XX

You may be able to arrange(although may cost more) for mya to have a car to pick you up and drop you back off. Had one for my Op. Sorry to hear what your going through.

Dont let him ruin this for you, Im sure all the staff at the hospital will be lovely and u’ll be absolutely fine on ur own. Good luck for tomorrow.x

p.s sent u a friend req x

you can do this babes show him how strong u can be with out him coz tomorrow will be the best day ever … u will be well looked after and soon as u look down and see ya new boobs u will think to yaself bofriend ..???????/ hmmmm what boyfriend xxx plenty more fish in the sea my love and ones that wudnt let u down at a time like this xxxx good luck hunny xx

Hi hun! Sounds to me as if your boyfriend is worried about u getting your boobs done so he is tryin to Sabotage everything for you! Please don’t let him!!! Get this done tomorrow, u will be fine on ur own and looks like u will have some of the forum girls there to help you. This guy will soon regret what he is done and when he does u make sure he realises how much of a complete D*ick he has acted don’t make it easy for him!! Best of luck tomorrow Hun x

Do not drop out of ur ba babes. sounds to me like thats what he is trying to make u do. he is insecure.cos ur gonna look fab and get lots of attention xxxx

Go for it lovely girl,i will be doing mine on my own, but thats just the way i prefer it…. be strong you will look awesome…… boys are rubbish, you will find a boob bud when your there xxxxxxx good luck

Ill be there at 10am tomorrow. I’ll be with someone yeppy but he can help us both if you need it ) xxxx pm me your number if you want to text or call when you’re there xxx

Babe hang in there your beautiful and do not deserve to be treated anything less than super special! A man who does that to you is just showing you his true colours and really not worth your time or effort! It hurts of course but ” there is other fish in the Thames” is my new London expression hehe;)

You should focus on yourself and your happiness…the rest will work itself out! I think support is really good at the hospital if you could have a friend with you but there will be a nurse looking after you so don’t worry!

You going to have new boobies and lots of good things ahead ! Keep your chin up lovely xxx

How horrible Hun, if he can be like that at a time when you need him, then you don’t need him! Be strong, keep your chin up and concentrate on the lovely boobies you’ll have this time tomorrow x

Omg that’s awful of him huni, but don’t let him stop u just u do it and think after when he see’s u in boob tube/belly top and hot pants he will be the 1 crying! U can just wiggle ya ass, stick out the new boobies and give him the finger! As for being on ur own, I was and it was great I chilled, read some mags and chatted to the nurses! It will be the best thing uv ever done huni. Do this for U x x

Very sorry for you…I think you need to find yourself another boyfriend, because this is not acceptable! DO go through the procedure though, you won’t regret it:) Good luck xx

Thank you so much girls!!! Im sittin in room 301 waiting to go down in a hour!! Eeee so scared!’ my boyfriend magically turned up at home last night and was like I’m workin in London so I’ll come with u if I can stay in the hotel! And etc etc then he said sorry and he loves me! Still upset how he acted tho!! But on the plus side u girls were All here when I needed you and sat in the room waiting to go tru eeeee!! Hoping he turns up later and then am gonna bloody stuff my face good Luck to everyone today happy healing!!!!!!! Xxxxxxxxx

Thank you so much girls!!! Im sittin in room 301 waiting to go down in a hour!! Eeee so scared!’ my boyfriend magically turned up at home last night and was like I’m workin in London so I’ll come with u if I can stay in the hotel! And etc etc then he said sorry and he loves me! Still upset how he acted tho!! But on the plus side u girls were All here when I needed you and sat in the room waiting to go tru eeeee!! Hoping he turns up later and then am gonna bloody stuff my face good Luck to everyone today happy healing!!!!!!! Xxxxxxxxx

Thank you so much girls!!! Im sittin in room 301 waiting to go down in a hour!! Eeee so scared!’ my boyfriend magically turned up at home last night and was like I’m workin in London so I’ll come with u if I can stay in the hotel! And etc etc then he said sorry and he loves me! Still upset how he acted tho!! But on the plus side u girls were All here when I needed you and sat in the room waiting to go tru eeeee!! Hoping he turns up later and then am gonna bloody stuff my face good Luck to everyone today happy healing!!!!!!! XxxxxxxxxU

Good luck hun xxx

Good luck huni enjoy ur day x

Great news huni, good luck today.. Can’t wait to read your story xx

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