Bad day.. :(

Hey girls, I know this is a bit off topic but I’ve had such a bad day!! I’m 18 years old & wanted a BA for years, I finally got accepted for finance & am booked in for 11th may with mr singh. I didn’t tell my parents as I know my dad wouldn’t understand (he’s Muslim & totally against cosmetic surgery). I told one family member about it & my finance acceptance (my auntie.. Mums sister). Not only has she told my mum about my boob job (not about the finance), but also her boyfriend (very gobby & annoying), and has now told my uncle who texted me today saying ‘if you don’t tell your mum about the finance then I will’. I’m so annoyed & angry & don’t know what to do as I told my mum I have been saving up for it and she seems okay with that. I know that if she finds out that I have it on finance she will go mad. I work full time in a stable job, I have a good credit rating & know for a fact that I can afford the monthly payments & know the importance of paying money back. I don’t know what to do and it’s making me think negatively after I’ve been so excited about it.. Just seems so unfair that people are getting in the way of something that will make me happy, I thought family are meant to be supportive?? When I told my auntie she promised not to say anything. I feel so upset & in a pickle xx

That’s a hard one bbe have wanted my ba for many years now and all my family was against it it even caused some of my family to say if I had it they will never speak to me I have waited till I was 21 to have it to make sure its what I want and I am still rly unhappy with my body so I am going ahead with having it done i have sat my family down and told them that I am having it done I no what can happen but mya have such good reviews and many of my friends have had a ba from mya, It would be better coming from u then from other people sorry not much help I hope every thin works out ok for u xxx

aw thankyou hun, annoying isn’t it I’m just trying to stay positive cos i know it’s what I want. Hope your BA goes well, i admire u for managing to wait till u were 21 lol!! Do u mind if I add u? xx

That’s ok bbe yeah corse u can and please let me no how it all goes what Sergeon are u going to have Hun? And what one are u going I am at wimpole street xxx

Maybe if you asked your mum to come to one of your appointments, mya have an open door policy so if you wanted to take her to go over the procedure and financial side of it then im sure that would be ok. But if you think its more the fact that you are getting it on finance that would be the sticking point then maybe you could make a list of all your incomings and outgoings so your mum could see you can definitely afford it and she doesnt have to worry about you getting into debt. Mums worry, its what they are there for but so long as you know it is definitely what you want and you can afford it then go for it good luck xx

thankyou Hun I’m having mr Singh on 11th may at highgate!! what about you? yeah definately will, let me know how yours goes too, soon enough we will hopefully have amazing boobies haha! xxx

Hey Amy have u hd ur ba ? Xxx

Thankyou Amyk84! I feel like I need some reassurance haha, I just don’t want it to get out of hand! Thankyou for the advice, I was thinking of showing her my bank statement & showing her I pay everything on time! just hope if doesn’t all get messed up. I appreciate everyone’s help xx

Hiya, yep im 6 months post op now. Had 415 and 485 high profile soft touch overs (had a big asymmetry before) Its such an exciting time for you xx

Yasmine were here for ya xxx

Amy, hey Hun are u I am so excited I can’t wait what Sergeon did u have and are u happy with ur boobs xxx

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