Being judged for having BA…

Hey girls,

I’m having surgery thurs, 300cc MHP overs with uplift. My assymetry is being corrected as well as tuburous breasts. I know women have ba for many reasons, but for some reason I just feel like I have to explain to those close to me that it’s nothing to do with vanity or sex. Don’t get me wrong there’s nothing wrong with having ba for vanity or sex reasons either! For me I just want to feel in proportion with my body and confident as a woman, and this is something I’ve been considering for years but was too nervous to go ahead with it. I’ve told a few people and wish I hadn’t now. How do you feel? xxx

Every person I told supported me 100% my parents are just worried incase of any complications that may happen, but theyve loaned me over a £1000 which is what I was still to save so I could get it done sooner. All my friends were excited about me getting it done but once again were worried incase anything went wrong, even my gran was thrilled to hear I was getting one done she even said “I wish I could have done something like that at your age” Im not telling my other gran thought bcoz shes VERY old-fashioned and pretty much SET in her ways and I know she’d like disown me and/or go crazy at me, so what she doesnt know wont hurt her…

If anyone youve told is not supporting you then thats their problem, its your body, your confidence, and your life, theyre probs just jealous

Hey hun, aw I know how you feel. Its so difficult trying to get people to be happy for you as they just dont understand unless they have either had it done already or are thinking about it. What matters is what YOU think and what YOU want. Try not to let other peoples negativity bring you down. I almost backed down after my fiance told me he would split up with me if I did it as I have ‘perfect’ boobs already and he would not fancy me with ‘fake football tits’. I asked him if he wanted help packing his stuff… Anyway, we are still together and my surgery is booked in 2 weeks so the moral of the story is that eventually people will come around. To be honest, people don’t even really need to know so maybe just keep it to yourself till after you’ve had it done, then if someone asks, you can tell them. I find people’s comments amusing and laugh it off if they are being negative. Try not to worry about it hun, chances are they are probably jealous…

Good luck on Thurs!! I hope it all goes well and you love your new additions! xx

you go girl…don’t let nothing or no-one put doubts in your mind…wish mine was this thurs…you do what’s right for you…go for it…best of luck…let us girlies that aint having ours done yet how you get on…x

i totally agree with all of the above i dont care who knows, if they wanna judge me i dont care, theyre the ones with the problem not you xx

p.s i meant to say good luck sweety xxx lol

Thank you girls for all your replies. And I do agree, my op has nothing to do with anyone but me and if anyone has a problem with my op it’s there issue not mine and I don’t have to explain myself to anyone regardless of my reasons for having op. If I’ve learnt anything from this, it is that I have been wrong about people lately, people who I thought I trusted and at the end of this op I will hold my head up high and challenge anyone from now on who de-moralises me for it. The nerves have been kicking in today and I don’t need anymore stress. I’ll keep all you lovelies all updated after my op, I’m off to manchester tomorrow to see Mr T for final consultation then staying in hotel overnight so I’m not late thurs morning for my op. I’ll post pics too in due course. Thank you all so much for your kindness and support. Good luck to those with upcoming ops…lotsa love and hugs xxx

people will judge you no matter wot u do in life every1 has an opinion, what ive learnt is that people who are worth caring about will understand why you have done it..and tbh who cares wot any1 else thinks. i wont b havin my op for a few months i dont think due to havin to save abit more than i thought but ive decided not to tell any1 about my op wel other than immediate family, boyf and work, i just think that its no1 elses business. its a big thing havin a breast enlargement and often when people have nothing there in the 1st place it a hard thing to do and a big step.

good luck with your op xx

well said leanne i’m not guna be making a grand announcement about it but if someone asks me then im not guna deny it nor confirm it, it’s none of their beeswax lol

Thats a shame its guna take longer 4 u to get ur BA hun but it will be well worth the wait xxxx

i know…wel im just wahckin most of it on 0% finance credit card when that comes but gota save up another grand and a half 1 b4 i get it done, eyyy ill get it one day hehe x

the time will fly in hun xx

Dont justify yourself to narrow minded ppl…….just get ya massive fake boob and smack it round there heads

Hahahaha that comment just made my day at wrk lol

Hey girls you’ve all made my day!! I have a big smile on my face now despite being nervous about tomorrow! Thank you to all post-op ladies for sharing pics over the last few weeks, giving advice and support, being so understanding and just damn lovely and caring!! I’m off shortly to manchester so won’t be able to post update until maybe friday and I’ll share my pics too! And best of luck to those with upcoming ops, I’ve waited years for this and I know I won’t look back.

…If only there were more people in the world as lovely as you lot. Thanks again for everything. Lotsa love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

good luck girl xxx and ENJOY YOUR NEW BOOBIES!!!

hope all goes well tomorrow x

hi michelle, all the best for tomorrow hunni Keep that big smile on your face, you’ll soon have your new boobies yipeeeee xx

LMAO you girls crack me up love ya! good luck hunn, just think about how you’ll feel post op and just ignore narrow minded people, i cant stand ignorance, with people like that, if it’s not your boobs, it’ll be something else anyway..live and let live, and if they can’t, as ticky88 said, get smacking! i’m going to have to take out a few family members myself xxx

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