Boyfriends!?

hi girls am yet to have my op but my boyfriend is starting saying” i dont want u to go this big cos ppl will stare at u even more than they do now n thts not far on him”!etc. my surgeon offered me 380’s or 340’s at first i wanted 380 but cos my bf been moanin i said ill go for 340 n now hes tryin to say no go for 300 well my surgeon didnt even offer me that!! i dnt wanna have this op n wake up n think there 2 small!

I have told him that its my body n i will have what i want as im payin for it anyway but its just causing rows everytime i bring it up plus were gettin married in march n my op will b next yr 2 i rele dnt wanna start out 1st year of marriage arguin over my tits! he knows how insecure i am of my body since having our son n hes usually been so supportive but this is just windin me up! any advice would b great plz girls! xx

omg!!go 380 girl, its u paying, ur body and u who has to live with the regret of not getting 380.

1 way to look at it is boobs are for life boyfriends arent !!

u will definately regret getting any smaller than 380, i have seen loads of posts on here about sizes and girls regretting not going bigger and this will ultimately cause massive problems between u and ur bf because u will resent him loads if your boobs are too small for you.xx

You should do what makes you happy… but, at a compromised size. It’s not like you’re gonna be walking round topless or with them shuved up to your chin…with two wonderbras on?? Tell him that he should be proud to have people look at you… knowing that you’re his. It’s his own insecurity he needs to work on, instead of creating issues for you.

i have always padded my bras out, so i don’t look flat chested. and my hubby did say to me that he was a tad concerned i’d look like a typical blonde big tits… so i went and got a brown dye and dyed my hair and he was like “eeerrr, i don’t know if that suits you…i liked your hair blonde” hahaha. theres no suiting some people pmsl.

MEN!! aagghh!

hun, i would definatly go for the bigger size if you can. like i say, just coz we’ll all have boobies, doesn’t mean we gonna be flashing them.x

thats really not fair on you for him to even be thinking about himself when its you that needs the supoprt from him, he should understand as youve shown how much youve wanted this. tell him its not nice for him to put his insecurities on you, your with him and your probs doing this so you can be more happpy and confident and he will benefit from that, not like your gunna run off with the 1st guy that looks at you! alot of people think after a boob job your gunna come out looking like jordan, but to be fair i dont think on the 1st ba you can go “too big” depending on ur frame. your surgeon knows best not your bf. xx

thanks girls just needed a pick me up, i know in the end i will go with what i want anyway, but it would b nice just for other half to not whine on lol men hay!! thnks girlies ur all wonderful on this forum xx

i agree with the girls hun, do what u want to do and 380 is not that big really i had 410 and wish id gone bigger, not really that noticeable in clothes compared to when i was wearing padded bras. why dont you try the rice test and put them in a sports bra and put some clothes on over the top to show him your not gonna look massive xxx

or just fout u could tel a sneaky lie and say your meeting him the middle and getting 340s but go ahead with the 380s and tadarrr!! he will just think youve had what he wanted but rli youve got ur own way lol! x

lol del75 we done that together last nite n he was like 380 is way tooo big i thought that to but i thought when there actually in i will loose a bit neways rite? even with overs x im a c at the moment n would love a DD/E XX

i really dont wanna go smaller n regret it after all it costs so much money n im saving so hard xx

lol laura 21 great idea he makes sure hes at the appointments tho lol xx hehe

do you mind if i add u girlies?? xx

i just added you Gem.xx

orrr no! never mind lol! seriously though if youve told ur surgeon the size you want they will rli try to get that for you, ive just had 460 unders from a 34b and i asked for a dd-e and thats evactly what ive got x

lucky cant wait to get mine xx hope ur enjoyin them babes x

not at all hun il add you now xx

oops we are already friends, your right tho you will defo loose a bit of size compared to trying the rice boobs xx

lol so we are u look fab hunni x

added you now i think thought when youve had them done he will have a change of heart! especially when he sees how happy you are and im sure he will love them too i hated my boobs b4 never showed them and now i can and hes chuffed..and he made out he wasnt bothered about boobs lol! x

thanks hun xx

thnks girls x

380 hun. you”l have to live with your body forever…not necessarily him. And the emotional and psychological nightmare that he will have to live with if you end up resenting having had small implants will be a hell of a lot worse than feeling a little bit of jealousy over your new found confidence in yourself.xx

Girl go as big as u want to! He won’t complain once uv got them lol, an its a lot of money so its better for u to think ther big insted of small or not much difference! X

It’s your body hun so go for what you want, he is just feeling insecure at the moment as men do for some reason!!! once you have them he will love them. x

thanks girls x

380, hun! x

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