Boyfriends….. Started by: no more – chickenfillets

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    Hi girls :D

    Just a quick question to see if anyone had any feedback from their bfs after the op lol.

    My & my bf have been together for like ever so he’s usty my small boobs and I think hes scared of how they look afterwords (a bit like myselfi suppose lol) coz they will be a lot bigger….finally.

    He says he doesnt care about breast size. At the end of the day i am doing it for myself but i would like him to like them obv lol.

    When i show him pictures he is like oh yeah they are nice etc haha so think he just accepts me the way I am now becoz he has too but really he would like me to hav bigger boobs.

    Was anyone else’s bf a bit hesitant about the ba and whats their opionions now ?xx

    lisam 2
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    Yes! My boyfriend couldn’t understand why I was having it done. I can’t understand how he couldn’t understand as I had right droopy boobs. But it didn’t bother him. And I kept showing him pics of boobs and how great they would look and he just didn’t seem interested at all. Honestly, you’d have thought he was gay. Since having them done he’s starting to compliment me on them. But it’s taken a couple of weeks for him to do this. I think he just didn’t want to sway my decision either way, he wanted it to be my decision entirely. x

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    My boyfriend didn’t think I needed to get mine done either but now he can’t get enough of them! It took a while for him to accept my decision and post op I felt quite self conscious about my new boobs but after a little talking and some sexy underwear he came around! x

    lisam 2
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    Yeah, I think mine is still being quite shy over my new boobs and each day he gets a bit more adventurous! Like a little kid! x

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    My hubby is similar to your bf, he was dead against me even thinking about having a BA for years and then one night he asked if I was still wanting one and if so then why dont I do something about it! So I’d spent nearly 5 yrs thinking he didnt want to me have one!! But now I’m finally starting to do something about it (had consultations and met up with Dr Kazzazi), he’s starting to worry a bit I think about how big I’ll end up. Am gonna go with 410cc unders, but he thinks i’m gonna end up with huge lorry style headlamps for boobs!

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    Thanks girls, it must just be a guy thing haha. Mine is soo not interested just says I can do what I want as long as I dont go too big but I ma only getting 380’s so am sure I wil be fine on my frame.

    Plus he probs doesnt want me walking about with my boobs hanging out haha – not the reason I want them done thought. I just want to fill a bra and feel womanly and sexy.

    I just wont show him for the first couple of months haha sports bra firmly on so he sees them when the swelling, scaring has reduced.

    It annoying tho coz they drool ove th girls in mags with massive fake 1s yet they want us to be unhappy with nothing haha xx

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    Plus when I showed him my ever so sexy Asda sports bra, he said if thats the type of underwear I’ll be wearing once I have big boobs, I may as well stick with what I have!!

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    Haha yeah my bf thinks am gnty end up like jordan i think haha – bet he would love it if i did haha.

    Aw thats good about ur hubby lisa, I think he is warming to it coz i keep telling them that i will buy “matching” sexy underwear and saying aww just think what you will be able to do with them haha……….xx

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    Elie – cant stop laughin at that haha!!

    To be honest smaller bras look better on the hangers but big ones look better on (not including the sports bras in this).

    I think i will keep mine under a t-shirt fo the first 7 weeks and only show him when am in the gorj bras haha although i know its easier to say than do.

    The week after i will be like anyones wanty see my new boobs hahaxx

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    **Ellie sorry lol xx

    ticky88 2
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    My husband has alays told me i needed a boob job lol. Not in a nasty way though, i love his honesty. He was slightly worried about them looking stuck on but he was more bothered if i was gonna put em on show lol.x He absoloutly loves them now though x

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    My fiance tried to put me off at first. As time went by he realised that the idea was never going to leave my head and told me to go for it. Before the surgery he started getting mega excited about it all and now can’t wait for them to be healed for him to have a look see. (I refuse to show him them at the moment coz don’t want him to see them when they’re not healed… I’m worried incase it makes him look at them different!).

    But yeh, he told me that all guys probably prefer fake boobs, they just don’t want to hurt their partners feelings! haha xx

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    Bringing new boobs home is like bringing a new baby home…..suddenly its not all about them and they get insecure that we’ll get uber confident and leave them, or if we’re changing ourselves physically we’ll start changing other things around us. Men are basic insecure little creatures….bare with them they’ll all be fine LOL xx

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    I DONT THINK MY BF WILL HAVE ANY PROBS I HAVENT EVEN HAD MY BA YET BUT WHEN I TOLD HIM I WAS GETTING EM DONE 1ST THING HE SAID WAS I’LL BE ABLE TO GET A DECENT TIT WANK NOW CHEEKY GET LOL XX

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    Hahahaha classic!!!!! That made me laugh! Xx

    Fairyxx 8
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    Hahahahahahahaha tit wank!!

    Mine hasnt said much before hand, but now he obsessively pokes them lol!! And before he went away he was like dont send me pics of them let me be suprised.when i come home and see the difference!!think hes quite attached!! He also said he was pleased they dont look like footballs xx

    amyk84
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    My boyfriend has been really supportive, im still pre op. I have had the condition of no more topless sunbathing on holiday though haha x

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    Ahaha dixie my bf said the exact same thing!xx

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    Hi everyone.

    Can anyone help give me some advice pls? I have just started a new relationship and havent told him yet i have had BA. Have any of your boyfriends or husbands said that the boobs feel fake to touch? I am so used to having implants (had done initial ten years ago then re aug in dec 2010) cant remember wat feels like without. Dont want to say anythkng to him yet and anytime he tries to touch them i move away like a wee gurl lol. Any advice appreciated. Thanx xx

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    Dont say anything straight away hun. Let him have a grope and see how the situation pans out. He probably wont even notice babe but if he does just say “oh yeah, i have fake boobs” and flash him a lil smile, i doubt he’d care chick. Dont be worried xx

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