You have to flirt, be fun, chat via instant messenger (the site’s) and mail etc, reply to their emails and questions. It’s like social networking, but you have to work quite hard to get and keep the guys interested. Definitely don’t let them take the piss when chatting on IM – they will keep you talking for free all flipping day! Then again I don’t have the patience for that site so I’m probably not the best person to be giving advice aahh