Confused.com!! what should i do?

I was absaloutely set on having my BA, booked the surgery for 19th april, had all my appointments decided size etc, paid deposit. Now everyone is putting me off! My dad who was behind me all the way is now saying im too young and that i should wait til im 24. thats 4 years away and i really want it done now, worrying about how im going to afford living after ive had it done as will hve no savings to back me up. ARgggh what should i do? should i wait a few years? sorry about the amssive ost just so confused what to do!xx

Hiya Hun, it’s 100% your decision, make sure you are doing it for all the right reasons. Regarding affording it, get the loans over a longer period so the monthly relaunched are less. I’m getting 9k worth of surgery, which is a killing but I know how much I want it so paying it off for forever but least I will be happy xx

No why live them 4years 4summers thinkin i couid of had my boobies now! if i couid of afforded it when i was younger i wouid defo of spent my youth bein happy with my body xx just make cut backs hun for me its less goin to topshop and buyin take aways xx

awh thanks girls, youve been a great help! i was so looking forward to 19th of april and all my family have just put a downer on it, i think im still going to do it though. And hush your totally right getting my boobies in out in my bikini will be brilliant! i cant wait. xx

Ignore them hun Get the body u have always wanted Xx

Totaly agree with hush – im only 20 i have been thinking about it for about a year ish now and im having them done for my 21st birthday present and my friends and family are going to chip in towards it, why wait when you know you want it done? granted it is a big procedure but it can be reversed in the future its not as if you having your face tattooed! xxx

Hiya, im sure they are just worried about you… unfortunately parents put a downer on things sometimes.. im a 33yr old mother of 3 & my parents were still not keen either !! If its really important to you then go for it girl!! Im booked for April 19th too, only just over 6 weeks for us to wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yeah your totally right, ive told them now ive made my mind up! ive wanted it for so long now and my boobs are shrinking not growing!! Ah wiked, where are you booked in to? im booked in to highgate over night stay xx

Hi danielle I’ve wanted my boobs done since I was 18 but was put off by my dads reaction ( he told me to wait till I was 21)! So I waited and at 20 had a mortgage and bills to pay so could not afford it, I started saving again then at 22 got pregnant with my first, I started saving again and had the money ready then I passed my driving test and spent the money on a car! I started saving again and got pregnant with my second child! So after a house a car two kids and a few holidays I started saving again…then I got made redundant and moved house so the money I saved was used again! Finally I saved again and I’m booked in 16 march, but I’m now 30 and 12 years passed and life got in the way!

Do it now while u can because you’ll be 30 before I know and regret that u never had the boobs u wanted for your 20’s! I’m getting mine now finally and gonna have great boobs in my 30’s lol!

I know what it’s like, i’m nearly 30 and my mum told me i was stupid on friday when i told her. My reply was it’s my decision and why should i regret not doing it – but if i regret having it done, it would be my regret and no one elses.

No one can tell you how to feel, i have been so upset with my boobs since i stopped breastfeeding as i have been left with empty horrible boobs to the point i have cried at night so have finally bit the bullet and booked it.

Ultimately it’s your decision hunny, but good luck what ever you decide and if it’s a yes I’ll see you on the 19th! xxxx

Danielle honey, You must be so serious about having this op because you’ve come this far. This is your life, your money and your decision. If you can live with your decision, I’m sure everyone else will eventually, don’t worry… it’ll all blow over in time. And I very much doubt you will regret it, it will no doubt boost your confidence, on those sunny beaches, out on the town, in clothes the list goes on etc 😉 xxx

I had mine done aged 21….glad i did now. I’m 25 and had a re-do due to problems but still happy!

This has been a great help! I know your totally right, why wait when i can have it done now!! I hate it when people say well your just having it done so guys look at you, its not that at all and im sure most people on here think that its about how you feel about yourself not other people! thankyou girls xx

I have one regret about my BA… and that’s that I wish I’d done it sooner – I can’t wait for Summer, go for it x

Thats so true! the boobs are for YOU! I have been gutted every summer i couidnt wear what all the othere women was wearin! i h8 lookin at them when i got in the shower i felt like a man!! Why shouid u be ashamed and unhappy when u can change somethink? so glad i did xx

Hi Danielle,, yes Im Highgate too on the 19th… on a day case.. may see you there !

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