Crying! Started by: amyk84

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  • amyk84
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    Now I may sound like an absolute fruit loop now but I really want to cry and I can’t bloomin do it no matter how hard I try! I’m sore, exhausted, back at work and have 1 dropped boob and one not and all I wanna do is have a good cry to make me feel better and I just can’t seem to do it. I get this tingling feeling in my nose that I always get before I cry (anyone else get that?!) and then nothin!! Usually I’m such a cry baby too lol. I know it’s just a case of the boobie blues and usually when I feel like this I have a good sniffle, a word with myself and crack in good as new. Grrrrr so frustrating, anyone else like this? Weird I know xx

    stef64
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    I cried last night because I couldnt get comfy! I couldnt breathe properley and my back was killing me too! I was feeling very sorry for myself haha. Hope your doing ok! xx

    amyk84
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    Aww bless ya hun, how you feelin now? I’m alright just a bit of boobie blues I think and if I could just have a good cry I’d be reet but I seem to be made of stone at the mo! Lol. Think I’m missing my man a bit too, he’s been so fabulous since havin the op and we had the best part of a week off together which was fab. Now we are both back at work, boohoo :-( xx

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    Aww babe bless u!! It’s awful isn’t it, put your head in a pillow n scream!!!!xxx

    princess76 9
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    Aw poor you hon, I know how you feel, I went out today and had the boob pain again, feels like one side will explode when I walk for more than 10 mins. This recovery lark is no fun eh? x

    Anonymous
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    It gets better. I promise. Part of it is just lack of sleep. You will start to feel normal again xxx

    amyk84
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    OMFG!!!!! I’ve just given myself a break from the Macom and put my sports bra on and I fill out an E cup!! Boobie blues see ya later!! Hahaha xx

    princess76 9
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    Lol well done! I have finally been hit hard with delayed symptoms, this eve I am really low, feel like crying, scars are sore, swelling and bloating are kicking in after 9 days and none of my bras are comfy. My mum joked I should not rely on tramadol and now I’m worried I’ll get addicted so not taking it. And have discovered that walking for more than 5 mins causes the most agonising pain I have ever felt, so now I well and truly have the boobie blues :(

    sammie25 2
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    Oh god all this is putting me off! I have 2 kids and im begining to think i cant feel like especially 10 days later. My 6 month old will want picking up and ill have to go back to work afew days later :( Maybe it isnt a gud idea :(

    princess76 9
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    Not everyone gets it, I know girls who have driven a couple of days after, back at work within a week etc. some of us just not as lucky as others. Look upon this ad research!

    amyk84
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    Aww princess sorry you are havin such a rough time honey, sounds awful! Did your surgeon examine you the other day? Did you try a hot water bottle?

    Sammi25 like princess says some heal better than others and up until a couple of days ago I was doin great! Think maybe I’m just overdoing it a bit too soon and my Macom is squishing my twins, feel alot better in my cheapo asda sports bra lol. Although my Macom has been fab up to now. I also wouldn’t change it and know it will all be worth it in the end xx

    princess76 9
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    Yeah he couldn’t find anything causing the pain and said it could be a trapped nerve, it got a lot worse on the way home tho, this new pain only started on the way there and got worse coming back. I tried the hot water bottle the other day, it did help the pains I was getting in the evening and they seem to have settled down a bit now, it’s just achy now which is good. Wish I could fit into my asda bra, my backs gone up to a 36 and so I got a new bra and the next day put it on and that’s too tight now!!!! I am so looking forward to the steri strips coming off, am hoping things will get a lot more comfortable then!

    Anonymous
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    Aw you poor thing:( dont Worry about the dropping thing mine did it at different times too. That’s not uncommon. It will happen soon. Being anxious and tender is normal too. Sleep deprivation and the trauma your body and mind has been thru will make you feel a little fragile. But soon you will be looking in the mirror trying on pretty bras and feeling great!! I am week 14 and I can’t believe how quickly the time has gone and back then I was an emotional wreck – fretting and regretting everything. Hated my scars, thought my breasts looked awful etc i thought the looked uneven And mine were not healing- Now I love them and they feel soft and real they look equal too! Give it time and don’t put pressure on yourself!!!

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