dealing with people after BA

im really worried with how people will react after my BA. i know theres a lot of negative stigma attatched to getting breast implants and im not sure how to deal with people making comments and such afterwards. its going to be really noticable too so theres no way i can lie about it. has anyone else dealt with any negative comments? if so how did you react to it?

What size implant are you getting hollieheartt? You may find that it isn’t as noticable as you think. No one has noticed mine (not even close friends), and I havent told anyone except my partner and some family. I had 410cc implants from 34a xx

im having 295cc and im a 32a. i know this is one of the smallest types its just i have already had people mention that i have small boobs before so i think maybe the change would be obvious xxxxxx

Just be proud hun! Your doing this for you not anyone else! F what they all think! xx

Put it this way, alot of women bitch about boob jobs but most women wud love to have one. So the negativity really is only jelousy lol, the amount of times iv seen girls with fake boobs n thought BITCHH ! now its my turn x

Im not worried one bit if anyone says anything, I’m far too excited about it which is why I haven’t had a problem in telling friends and work colleagues, a few have asked “why”??? And have appeared a bit baffled by it but I bet if they were told they could have a free procedure they would as everybody is unhappy about some part of their body!! Like sophiepatterson said be very proud that u are doing something that will make a positive impact on your life and happiness, Good luck xx

lets just say…..anyone who does have something to say is more than likely just jealous! xx Trust me, you wont care, you will be so proud when you get them! xx

Tell em to Feck off!!!

dont listen to them, i nearly cancelled mine because of close friends being sooo negative, at the end of the day its your body and your not hurting anyone so dont know why people have to be like it xxx do it its the BEST thing i have everrrrrrr done xxx

thank you girls! this has really helped. im just gonna have to grow a thicker skin. i guess if i want it enough it shouldn’t bother me anyway xxxxx

I am a little scared of this as well. My friends and roommates all have been really supportive, although they all say they won’t do it. I doubt that though.

But I work a lot with different women on projects and already know I will get many mean comments in the future. Just hope I can grow a thicker skin also.

It really is jealously, some “friends” are negative because you will look good and feel more confident by fixing your hang up. I have experienced that already and havent had it done yet. So what, only you live inside your skin, xxx

Im nervous about this too, especially for going back to uni in september and people there noticing and asking about it! Haha i wont know what to say, youre right there is a stigma attached to it ive only told the people who need to know and im nervous for people asking afterwardsssss! Did anyone find that people from work etc had a negative opinion about it? Im a 34c going with 410 or 460s x

All of my close friends, family and work colleagues know about my BA. My nan was very sceptical but everyone has been great. Alot of people have said how they thought i would b much bigger. They were expecting Jordans!! But they know it was only to make me look more in proportion and to feel better about myself and they all seem to b happy for me! xx

It’s got nothing to do with anyone else so if they ask just say yes I have and leave it at that if you don’t want to go into it, at the end of the day it’s for yourself and no one else! I personally don’t care if people know and have made everyone aware so they don’t need to be whispering behind my back n asking people if I have or haven’t not that they’ll need to cos I’m hoping they’ll be a massive noticeable difference lol! If there’s negativity ignore it n don’t let them ruin something that’s going to make you happy and change your life for the better X

Its ur body, ur money and u can do wot u want with it.

Dont listen to others hun xx

I told everyone i was having it done and got mixed comments – but its simple if they dont like it dont comment, dont touch and dont look when they are done xx

This is for u and no one else – so F**K em all xx

i was like this at first, worried about what other people would say/think but i know i want it so much so im more excited now. i want them for me and no-one else. ive actually told everyone now lol as i cant wait. Just remind yourself why you want the operation and you will be fine

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