Do I or Don't I?!

Hey everyone!

I’m 19 years old and have recently been thinking about getting a boob job. I am a 34B (but not completely filling out my bra) and I’m really self conscious about the way I look. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years & still aren’t comfortable with getting my boobs out. Do you think getting a boob job is the right way to go? HELP!! x

Babe Im also 19 and I had my boob job done on tuesday I was also 34B (previously 34E but lost 2 stone). Ive been with my bf for 5 and half years and he loves me the way I am and look but it was something that I’ve always wanted. I would onyl advise u to do it if thats what YOU want dont let any1 decide for you xxx

OMG I feel so old now I am 40 lol xxxx

Do wot feels right for you hun – I did it for me and gotno regrets xxxx

Have a consultation and c how u feel about it x

Thankyou so much – obviously my boyfriend has said he loves me the way I am and I definately won’t just jump in to deciding straight away! Do you mind me asking what size you went up to?! xx

Thanks cuks I’ve only just started thinking about it. I do a lot of sport and people have said my breasts may not have fully developed yet from all the exercise I do but I just don’t feel confident! x

I wanted them done for years and years because I’m flat but I never had the guts to do it, now I’m due to have them done in 19 days!

I’d say do your research and have a few consultations and if it’s still what you want, then go for it.

xx

hiya grace can totally relate to you on this 1! im a 34b also was with my ex for 4 years and didnt show him my boobs properly, been with current bf for 2 years and i never take my bra off infront of him.

I think it all depends on how you feel, i worried that if i get my boobs done what if im still the same afterwards, but i think deep down il feel alot more confident, not just with my bf but also going on holidays, wearing things i would have never wore b4 cause i just dont fill them out etc, i went to councelling a few years ago and i found it didnt really help me much, but every 1 is different and maybe talking to some-one about how you feel could change the way u feel about urself? its only since ive got with my current bf that he has made me feel more confident in myself, but just still the issue of not liking my boobs so im trying to look at it in the way that its not something i need cause ther is anything wrong but its something i want. sorry for blabbing on but hope that kinda makes sence? xx

It makes perfect sense your thinking exactly the same as me! I just think that when I talk to people they look at me like I’m crazy cause I’m not accepting myself for who I am. Of course I’m not just doing it for my boyfriend but I hate putting a bikini on or getting changed infront of other people. I have thought about counselling but I just don’t think I’ll pay much attention

I am definately worried about them going wrong – I hear so many stories about them looking awful and I would hate to spend so much money and not be happy with them. I suppose that’s a risk you have to take though? Xx

I waited all my life for the confidence,and thats what it gave me,no more waiting in changing rooms for a cubicle because I was too embarrassed to get changed in front of people,never been able to wear backless dresses because my chest was like an ironing board,it was the best thing I ever did and im 53,DO IT,you will never regret it.xxx

I doubt I will have it done for another 2/3 years but I defiantely need to research about it! Thankyou for the advice Tina xx

I think you defo have to do it for you, my ex was a dick and i think my confidence issues do to some degree stem from how he was with me,but even b4 i had a bf i used to look at myself and think how am i gunna ever be with any-one?? as silly as that sounds. i used to think how can i move in with some-one or have a family with some-one when i cant even get undressed in front of them! but even tho my current bf tells me he loves me way i am it doesnt change how i feel.and thats why im doing it. ive had ppl tell me ther is nothing wrong with the size i am but i feel rli out of propotrion and alos dont like the shape much so i feel myself its something i want x

I feel exactly the same – I admit that I am a very slim girl as I am only 5″5 and weight 8.5 stone so I understand when people think that my body is in proportion. My boyfriend would prefer for me to stay the way I am but I’m not planning to go to a huge size – perhaps just a C to make me feel more confident! Sometimes when I look at myself I also think that my nipples look to big for my boobs which again doesn’t help the self esteem. It’s just such a big decision to make at such a young age as I don’t want to regret anything going wrong! Xx

Im bigger then you im 5’7 and a size 12 so to me im rli out of proportion lol! but maybe thats just cause i think i am, but either way i think its gunna be summat i will benifit from and even if i do still feel kinda same after ther gunna look 100x better in a bra cause they will fill it and look great in a bikini! as long as i feel better it doesnt rli matter if my bf gets a show or not lol x

Haha exactly. I think it would make a happier person overall as I am always buying tops that don’t show to much chest. My vra’s at the moment are plain and boring with enhancements to give me a clevage and I hate not being able to wear pretty bras without padding! xx

I used to nearly come out crying after trying on bras! id go in ann summers get a bra on and stand ther think why do i bother lol! i wear air boost bras from primark ther great! plus i dont want ppl at wrk seeing an obvious difference so im trying to wear the air bras all the time at wrk! x

I think I wanted to do it at about 18 as well, i’m now nearly 30 and finally able to afford it. My husband has been behind me the whole time and has always accepted me for me but knows how long i’ve wanted this done so he supports my decision.

You still have time to grow, i work with a girl who didn’t start growing boobs until she was 18 and now she has a huge pair.

Always make sure it’s what you want to do for you and nobody else.

As for the risks or it not looking right or going wrong, these are what come with any surgery. But remember, technology has moved on so much and if you have any problems post op your PC (patient co ordinator) is always there to make you an appointment to see your surgeon. And if you’re not happy i’m sure he’ll do anything he can to correct what your not happy about.

As Belle said, have a few consultations and decide from there, you are not tied into anything just because you have a consultation.

It’s your decision.

Good luck with everything. Xx

Thankyou so much I clearly can’t afford it at this age but I would like to have it done in around4-5 years when I know I am fully able to support the price of it. Sometimes I wonder whether athletics has stunted my development and whether or not they will get bigger when I stop. I am also on the contraceptive pill – does this have any effect on the growth of boobs? xxx

i went swimming alot when i was younger and stopped when i was 13 after starting period , i grew just gradually and then stopped! i started taking the pill when i was 16 and its not made my boobs any bigger like with anyone they just seem fuller around time of the month only reason ive had to wait til now is cause ive been paying for a car i got on finance for the past 3 years, so ive had to wait a while too, but if you do decide to do it it will be a great feeling knowing u can finally afford to do it, i feel rli pleased with myself for sticking to car payments and now finally been able to do this lol! massive pat on the back for myself hehe x

Congratulations! I have other parts of my life that I need to focus on first – rather than my boobs! I need to decide about university and other factors so deciding on a boob job will take another year or so! It’s just really gathering information from you guys about what you think and stuff like that My family all has small boobs so I was never expecting Fs or something large like that but I was hoping for an average size which I don’t think I am xx

well have a big think about it and like belle and lou said even going for a consultation to get more info wont hurt and then see how u feel x

Thanks everyone you’ve all been amazing helping me out! I’ll let everyone know when I finally decide what to do! xxxx

I’m 20 and i am getting mine done in 19days. Its going to make me confident and a happier person which is why i’m doing it! No matter how old i am, i should be happy and i’m not at the moment. So i feel this is my only option! Hope this helps anything else you need just send me a private message xx

Thankyou – thats how I feel aswell at the moment xx

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