do i want this? x

hi girls, just after a bit of advise pleasee

i have wanted a b.a since i was 14, (6years) but lately i have been wondering if i really do want 1, i know i do want bigger boobs ( not massive just a nice c size ) but i dunno if i can be done with all the attention,, both negative & positive,

like im not being big headed but i do get quiet bit off attention already and it annoys me so imagine how much more id get with big boobies,

im just not sure anymore

anyone else felt like this before their b.a??

any advice would be much appreciated

kassie xxx

lol ur vain lol im joking.

u know what noo it depends how u carry urself it dosnt sound like your getting them to flaunt them and cs not big you just wanna feel adequat rite.

i dont reckon ur have a problem unless u wear a halter bikkini in to town.

lol xx

and yes you want it done youve always wanted it done six years and if u pass up this chance ur probably pass up next chance.

ur doing it for you and ur kick urself if u dont xx

thanks for your reply

yea i only want them so i can ‘fill’ a bra lol,

i have been reading other people posts where people have been jelous of there b.a therefore being nasty ect. and im just not sure if i can b arsed with it lol,

although i really want a b.a but then on the other hand im thinking what if i spend all this money tht ive saved so long for on a small implant then wish id gone bigger, id b guttard confused!! lol xx

No-one will realise unless you flaunt them, so up to you how you go about it post-op. If you want to flaunt them, go for it, but be aware you may get some negativity but be strong and keep your head up – your body, your brain, your choice! Besides, there’s more of us out there than you may realise!

oh people dont like me neway jelous people and that what it is.

people need not find out fake dont look massive under clothes.

i had mine done last week i was umming and ahhing for ages and thought its soo much money to spend on me when i got bills car that nneds fixing etc but i thought sod it had 280cc from a a and now 32dd look like a c though.

and its best thing iv done,

was pain free and now i no longer feel like theres something missing.

feel really completed and my confidence in myself has soared i feel like everythings easy now i got the basics in place.

lets face it not many can afford have the guts to go thru with this so they will be jelous its human instinct but fuck it.

once u see ur before and after shots u wont give a damn. lol

you been 4 consultation> xx

ano i kinds wish i had told everyone as i was growing up that i want a boob job, but i was young and immature & i did 🙄 lol,

i know one or two people that have had them done and obv all your girls on here too,

it’s just so much money ya have to be 100% sure dont ya xx

If you dont REALLY want it then i would recommend you dont do it. if you just want to fill a bra then use chicken fillets, there £4 in Primark! id only do it if you are 100% because once its done it’ll be to late! xx

it is a personal choice and only you can make the decision but it was the best thing i have ever done. I didnt go too big so people didnt notice and I dont draw attention to them – they look really natural. defo make sure that you are sure hun xxx

I think you only get one life live it the way u want.

My mam has had surgery including a ba and also other stuff and it has put it into perspective for me. It won’t make your life perfect, it won’t be a magic pill to other problems but it will address the issue u have with that one area and if that will make u happy that’s great.

I feel uncomfortable because my breasts are diff sizes, I have the power to change it so I think why not. As long as you know that having a ba won’t suddenly mean u will find a millionaire/ land you job of ur dreams/ make u a perfect person whatever then go for it! I certainly won’t be lying about hving them done when I get my ba but i don’t think I’ll be running round with my kit off. If it upsets other people fine buy the vast majority of women can be nasty coz of jealousy anyway! We all know it’s not right for everyone so if u think it’s worth it then get yoursefl booked in x

shelly whats ur name on sofem hun? xx

wearing chicken fillets defeats the object tho, like people notice more if u have a gel bra on n its not sexy when your in your underwear lol, ano ya cant but i think if i could see the outcome of my ba befor i had it that would help haha! or if i was a millionaire as i would just pay to get them romoved lol

xx

and im more for it than against it but ya have to make sure ya 100000% sure dont ya lol xx

Hi Kassie .. Just read your post .. Im the same age as you 20 .. And Ive always thought about having a BA from my teens .. Cuz I just never developed like everyone else. I was a 32 a/b .. and had my op today .. *Yep not even 1 day post op yet lol* and honestly it really is the best thing Ive done! I always thought people were be slightly over the top when they said but it really is so true!!! I get where your comming from by already gettin attention from guys .. I get it and it is annoying .. Wearing jeans and t shirts on a daily basis defo not looking for it .. But guys are guys!

After i put my deposit down I did think am I being stupid gettin it done .. Because its not as though I have any under lying confidence issues at all!!! I just wantd to be able to fill a top .. fill a bikini and b comfortable walking around my PJ’s in my house without wearing a dressing gown .. and saying it out allowed can sound very vain .. But its the truth! When I told my mum i was getting it done she was like “it wont change you” .. I was like i dont want it to change me .. I just want to feel comfortable in what I wear! .. Anyway sorry about the long essay type message lol ..

But if you want it done .. go for it .. If you’re unsure think about .. You see so many women on here who wish they’d got it done a lot sooner! && telling close people around aint so hard either .. I told my Dad on Friday (i left it as long as i possibly could .. Hes a big black man who i think is quite traditional .. hence me being a bit wary of telling him) .. But he was soooooo good about it! Evn said if he’d had the money he would have brought one for my 18th birthday – that was a shock to the system! I havent told everyone .. But i read on here that if someone asks out the blue just say “Yeah! Dont they look great!” lol .. End of convo haha!

xx

Hi Kassie

I think if you’re questioning whether you want to have it done then thats your answer…..maybe you are not ready for it yet.

I am having a BA in 2 weeks and have wanted one for many years. I have only felt absolutely sure that i wanted it the past 12 months, and until i knew i was sure i did not book anything.

I completely understand about wanting to feel sexy, being able to fill out bras and bikinis etc. I have wanted that for years, and it is very hard to put that aside while you make a firm decision, .you need to be 100% confident, determined and focused on wanting a BA for the right reasons alone.

I hope this makes sense, don’t rush into it ad maybe take some time away from the forum then none of our opinions will influence you and you may be able to decide on your own, only you can decide, we can offer advice or opinions, but it’s down to you.

Take care

hi huni,

i was always quite tom boyish growing up, always with the boys, so when my boobs finally did grow i changed, and from 14/15 i’ve said when i get older i’ll have them done.

22 now and 5 weeks post op.

i’d lost a few stone in weight so my boobs were empty at the top, so i couldnt fill a bra properly, when i went on hol with my partner i didnt feel great in a bikini. . . . i’m only a size 8/10 and 9 1/2 stone, so its not like i shouldnt feel comfortable. . . .

but i’m soooooooooooooooooo glad i did it.

5 weeks post op and i feel like another woman! i can walk about without a bra on, i dont care if people see me in the bath or getting changed. i’ve even shown all the girls at work. . .

if its something you’ve always wanted. . . go for it. . . .

or go for a consulation, see a surgeon, if its not what you want dont. it doesnt cost you anything to talk to them about it!! xxx

Hi

Im 24 and had ba done 7 weeks ago, love them so much and I wish I had got them done sooner…. but….. having saying that I went for a consulatation when I was about 19/20 and I found every excuse not to go through with it. I really can’t have been ready otherwise I wouldn’t have thought that hard about it. When your ready you are 100% sure. Maybe give it abit longer. Or see a surgeon and discuss then thay may sway you one way or another. I was definitely doing it for me, my confidence has soared. If men already give you lots of attention your probably not going to notice too much difference unless of course you plan on wondering about in your underwear then maybe…

xxx

its shelley861 xxxxxxx

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