DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE PEOPLE ON YOUR LIFE! …

So as most of you know I had to tell my mother in law. And I kept bottling it and my boyfriend was like, “you’re telling her tomorrow before you go to uni.

So I bit the bullet and went to the kitchen and I told her. I started with dont worry I’m not pregnant or in trouble…whch helped!

She just hugged me and said you do what you need to do sweetheart! (As long as it stops there) She asked me if she was that awful why I couldn’t telll her, then I felt bad and I was like noooo! I love you and I didnt want you to think I was crazy or an idiot. She hugged me again and said not to be silly. She asked me how my partner Tom felt. I just shook my head,(some of you may have seen the “unsupportive partner” post and when he walked in she went…Dont be mad at her Tom, she needs to do this for her!!! I have never thought anyone was more amazing. I’m never going to keep anything from her again and I feel so much better…Huuuuuuge weight lifted few!

So if you are wanting to tell your parents and you’re scared and worried. Just bite the bullet and you never know they may surprise you…and stick up for you!! x x x

aww that’s so good! I had a similar thing with my sister. I avoided telling her because I was worried about her reaction… she ended up hearing it from my other sister and my mum.

I wish I had told her earlier now because she was all for it! She’s the only one in my family that is truly supporting me and even went and done lots of research on the topic. She says she totally understands and that people probably won’t even notice since I always wear a big padded bra at the moment anyway, haha

Glad it went well for u hun xxx

Woohoo well done fawn babe!! I still havent told my mam. lol.

Xxxxxxx

Well done! Glad it went well. I was very fortunate that my family were very supportive, it makes a huge difference. I thought my parents would be against it and was so scared of telling them! But they were great. When I nearly bottled it a week before surgery it was my mum that convinced me to go ahead with it!!! I think my sister is just jealous of my amazing boobs now. Hehe!

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im due to have mine next week and i told my nana at first and she says that doesnt agree with what im doing!!! then my nana had told my mam and my mam sez to me u better not get it done i sed hey listen its my body and am doing what makes me feel comfortable im sure after i have had it done that they will be fine with it i think its just the shock.. they sed have u thought about it i sed yeah for years i just didnt tell u i was thinking about it as i was only thinking!!!!! my partner is happy with me getting it done as i will be happier..

my boobs make me feel really low about my self i have 3 children and i love them to bits i dont luk like a mam at the minute i look like a 15 year old with no boobs i take my eldest to school and see all the other mams with these boobs and it feels like the all looking at me thinking i look sooo young i want to look like a mam with boobs and be able to take them on holiday and run around in a bikini with my children looking like a mam…..and when ive had my ba i will tell my family this then they might be able to understand!!! happy days x

I never told my dad for ages, my mum ended up having to tell him and tbh im glad she did! coz I was supposed to have my BA in June coz I wouldnt have the money til then. BUT when my dad found out i was getting it done he offered to loan me the rest of the money so now I have boobies!

wow bexepie, that’s cool of him. I don’t intend on telling my dad. I don’t know if my mum will tell him or not. I think if he does find out he’ll just act as if he hasn’t heard it, haha xx

Yea safe to say I hav a cool dad lol

Hey fawnlockard, if there was one person I was dreading to tell that was my bf mother, she’s in her 60’s and she’s very old fashioned etc. Anyway, as it turns out, I had more support from her (and my sister) than anyone, I’m 13 days post op and she’s rang me every day to see how I am. So yes, I totally agree with you!! I only told a few close family members and a few people I work with, but I wish I didn’t tell anyone at work now, but it’s done now and I’ve just got to live with it and if anyone has a problem with my op, it’s their problem not mine xxx

awwww some lovely stories here it is fantastic to have the support of your loved ones, i only wish that my mum was alive so that i could have confided in her, but I know she would have understood – she would probably have come and got hers done too! x

Hey tammy, Ah bless you, sorry to hear that, and I totally agree. I lost both my parents at a young age and I wish I could have confided in my mum too (she died when I was 7 of cancer), I just know my mum would have understood and been supportive too, she was so kind natured and lovely. My mum however did have large breasts (prob dd/e), she prob would have opted for a reduction and maybe an uplift though (after having four children!!) All my 3 sisters are well endowed too, I was the only one who ended up with tuberous and asymetrical breasts… 13 days post op now so glad I had op at long last!! 😆 xxx Your breasts look amazing too tammy, thanks for sharing your pics xxx

awww thanks for your responses guys! I’m so lucky to have her, if only I’d told her sooner because I probably would have fekt so much better in the long run. I really dont know why i underestimated her at all! Women in our lives are so amazing, I’m really sorry to hear that tammy and michelle that you guys couldn’t confide in them. I know what you mean tammy…my mum want an uplift now haha! Women really are amazing. Im not telling my dad because there really is no point at all, and he’d flip…but i dont see him often enough for him to notice anyways. Day after tomorrow I’m so excited, it’s come round sooooo quick! x x x

Hey fawnlockard honey, my uncle flipped when he found out, he’s catholic and thinks I should be grateful with what I’ve got! He said ‘you don’t need them plastic things’… It did upset me at first and I wish I hadn’t told my aunt and uncle (my aunt wasn’t exactly over the moon but okay about it once I told her why I wanted op). So yes Tammy, if you feel your dad doesn’t need to know I don’t see why you should tell him, and like you said you don’t see him all that often anyway for him to notice after ba. Wow day after tomorrow!! It’ll fly by honey, looking forward to hearing your story!! All the best xxx

Thanks michelle hunni, you write such lovely posts It’s fantastic having the support of so many lovely ladies on here x

All the best for your op fawnlockar x

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