Doubts… Started by: no more – chickenfillets

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    Did anyone every ask them selves if they really need it?

    I really “want” bigger boobs lol, the op is booked and i have the money there for my final payment….but I am stressing out now.

    My op is 3 weeks tomorrow so getting real and i just keep thinking omg what if i dont like them after, what if they look horrible and I want my small boobs back haha.

    Does this mean i shouldnt be doing it or is it normal to have these feelings?xx

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    Hey hun, i was thinking this the other week! i have my odd days of thinking it but as soon as its done you will not regret it! heard of soo many girls feeling great after it, including my friends that have had it done, may just be nerves because you now know its actually happening? :) xx

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    Totally normal hun…..if you saw my posts a year ago, i was freaking out thinking should i go through with it..what if something happens. But knew i would always regret it if i didn’t do it. I’m 10 months post op now, and it really is the best thing, i know everyone says it but it really is. My confidence has got so much better :o) I’m loving my DD’s xx

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    Totally normal hun. Mine is in 12 days and im thinking the same although i know I want it done. Wanted it for soooo many years and it’s nearly here. However becuase it is becoming real you do have those doubts. It’s not like you can just unzip it and take them out! lol. (Although that would be cool). I think my problem is that im such a perfectionist that im worried i’ll wake up and hate them or something will go wrong.

    I think anytime you have them whether it be, tomorrow, next month, next year or a few years you will still feel the same.

    Def not alone in how ya feeling hun xxx

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    Aw thanks girls :D its good to know you pre-ops girls r feeling the same lol.

    I love walking around with the rice bra on under my clothes but you can just take them out and pop them in whenever haha.

    I think if i pulled out i would regret it years to come because i am sooo close lol.

    And to be honest i have only really heard good stories :D am really looking forward to 2 months post op becuase i am thinkg they will be more settled then.

    What are you ladies going for size wise and unders or overs :) xx

    P.S i am getting mine the 26th april so if anyone is near or on that day let me know and we can be boob buddies hopefully lol xx

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    Mines a week Friday and I’ve gone through this as well! I spent Sunday staring at myself topless in the mirror and thought hmmm I have good boobs what am I doing BUT then realised its more a case of saying bye to them before my new improved boobs go in. We’ll be fine :) xx

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    Ooo sorry we posted at the same time!! 1500cc overs with Singh :) xx

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    Hi CF’s

    Oh my god… i’m so relieved to hear that some one else is feeling the same way. I had my pre op last weds, and am now all set for the 16th April…. and I am

    TERRIFIED!!!!

    I keep having nightmares at night about it going wrong, and starting in the mirror thinking… “what am i doing? shouldn’t i just be grateful to be healthy? what if i feel too big after? what if ?… “

    I’m so so scared.

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    Omg lol i keep doing that too….i keep saying i mean really at least i have some boobs, i just dont have enough to get a cleavage or do a lot with them. I have no confidence when wearing vest tops and buying a dress is very difficult because i cant wear anything low cut or slip open lol.

    My bf said oo we could try *** wen u get ur new boobs and my reply was well we can do that now and his face said it all haha he was like eh nooo haha am he was the one that didnt want me to do it….hmmm really lol xx

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    Mines a week Saturday and im having 410’s with Mr Fallahdar. x

    Jennifer – 1500cc???? Don’t think I have ever seen anyone on here having that size. I picked up 800cc in my pre op and the surgeon said this is what the weight will be with your two boobs. So yours will be 3000cc extra weight? You crazy lady :-) x

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    Hey Boobie bud (forestbabe) we can be terrified together! :-) x

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    It horrible because its a mixture of fear and also excitement lol.

    I am just scared i dont like them….like what if they turn out wrong i.e one bigger than the other or squinty lol all these things…..

    Omg jennifer r they not massive lol am terrified and am only getting 380 over or 410 unders lol still to decide xx

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    Hey Fairydust

    (I think we may have spoken before but…) I’m having mine on the 16th with Dr Fallahdar too! Maybe we’ll see each other?

    I like your positive attitude. Though I’ve wanted them for ages… I can’t seem to shake the fear!

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    … just saw your massages! oops!

    Yes… boob buddies!

    Eeek! not long now! xXx

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    I’m the 15th!! Yeah they’ll weigh a lot, apparently I’ll go through a few months of adjusting to it then be ok!! There custom mades so had to be ordered, been a pain in the arse! Xx

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    Don’t worry babe, Im nervous too but it really will be worth it in the end. Def keep in touch. Little is having her’s done too that day so there will be 3 of us together. You got people going with you on the day to calm ya nerves?

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    oooo well least ur getting what u want chick :D cant wait to see a pic of them!!

    Whats ur stats the now jennifer if u dnt mind me asking? xx

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    Ohh noo lol i wil be doing it all on my own – going to hosp and back and am not getting any visitors coz everyone is working :( xx

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    Jennifier – Sorry to sound rude just inquisitive but what size are you now and what size are you hoping to be with 1500cc? I think i’d constantly be laying on my back with that weight. I thought 800cc was mega heavy lol x

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    Hi CF,mine’s hopefully 21st if all goes well with Mr T tmrw.I have a medical background so everything about this scares the crap out of me especially the thought of the anaesthetic but I’ve been wanting this for so long and if I don’t do it now,I don’t think I ever will (I’m 37) and I KNOW I’ll regret that forever.Thing is I am the most unlucky person in the world-nothing ever goes right for me so half of me is thinking I’m just setting myself up for potential problems which can be avoided by continuing to use my hated fake,sticky,itchy chicken fillets!!!! So sod it,I’m doing this! 😆 xx

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    Hey F-Dust

    Deffo keep in touch! My BF is coming along… but I think will clear off for the afternoon evening. Are you staying over night.

    xXx

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    Oh no chicken how horrible for you. Hopefully you’ll have some boobie buds :-) x

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    i’m glad i’m not the only one whos TERRIFIED!! Mine is on Wednesday and I am so so scared!

    Its like the feeling when I go on holiday, petrified of getting on the plane but excited to get on my hols!!

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    No im a daycase hun. Im guessing you are overnight then?

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    Aww hun you can borrow my mum of you want!! I’ll send her back to hospital the next day lol

    It’s ok, I expect questions when people realise the size I’m getting lol I’m a size 12/14, broad shoulders and an empty 34e/f at the mo, he thinks my body will eat the first few cc’s just filling up the boobs I already have xx

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    Yeh… we live to far away to drive back. Have you got some one coming to support you? xXx

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    Yeah my bf is coming with me for the day. We’re staying in London the night before and then after the op too. (He is gonna be so bored)hehe. I would no way pay an extra £400 for the night when a hotel is £69 down the road. If your too unwell to go home they keep you in free of charge anyway.

    Sassivet – Im the same as you. If things go wrong it’s gonna go wrong on me. However, if it doesn’t their gonna look fab. Can’t keep thinkig what if. Only live once and if something does go wrong they can always put it right x

    Positive thinking girls. xxx :P

    P.s – Good luck Haylz for Wednesday x

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    ive never had an operation before or even been under any kind of drugs/anesthetic i just keep thinking what if i dont wake up!!!

    but im booked and ive 15 days to go and theres no way im backing out, i have no boobs now so im so excited! :D xx

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    What u having done leanne :) xx

    leannexxx 2
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    im having a ba, 410 unders with mr traynor on the 19th april, i think 41os anyway … gotta confirm theyll fit on the day tho lol xxx

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    Heya. I think if u feel this way u need to really prepare urself for an emotional ride. Most girls on here have cried afterwards,even if they weren’t nervous b4 hand. Im 2wks post op and not looking at mine without clothes on yet,im just letting the days pass until theyre healed/settled. U prob wont like them at 1st but u will! Just remember to be patient and stay strong ;)

    Most women say its the best thing theyv ever done! Xx

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    Wise words thunder!! My nurse to be said to try and ignore them (as if! Lol) for at least 6 weeks cause it’s normal to panic when their new as they aren’t showing the real result :) xx

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