Excitement gone- need some reassurance girls! :(

Hey girls,

I’ve got my op on feb 17th with mr Singh, it’s all I’ve been talking about and have been so excited! The only person that knows in my family is my mum and some of my friends! My dad doesn’t know as he doesn’t live at home!

My mum text me from work this morning and just said that when family notice I should be prepared for a negative response (my mum isn’t against me having them done!) but from my dad etc as they always say things like that you don’t need anything ever done etc! They don’t know what my boobs look like and that I’m not confident how they are, they aren’t awful but I’ve wanted them done for so long!

I said to my mum I’m not doing it for anyone else and that if they don’t like it then poo to them! Lol!! I think it’s also cos I ask my dad to help me with money occasionally so he doesn’t think I cam afford it, although I can!

Just need some reassurance girlies that I should be doing this and that it shouldn’t really matter what people think of it all my excitement seems to have gone and now I’m worrying! sorry for the essay! Just needed to hear what everyone else thinks about situations like this!

Thanks girls!

Jess xx

Jess – I got ppl’s opinions on what they thought amd i can honeslty say f**K em!

Its your body, your decision, your money…..if they dont like it jog on! If they dont like it dont look and defo dont touch.

And make sure you tell them, when they earn your money for you they can tell u where to spend it…..

Honest just ignore ppl its not of their god damn business xxx

Jess I’m in the same boat as you, only my partner and a few close friends knew before hand, and only a few more know now I’m a week post op, I did this for me, and me alone, and my partner paid as a wedding present. I don’t care what people think or say to me as they find out because its my body, and my confidence xx

You know how long you have wanted to do this, I did the same thing kept it between me an my mum I’m due to have my ba tomorrow. So I told my sister last night and the response I got hurt a bit she knew how long I had been unhappy seeing as she is a natural 34dd her comment was ohhh you’ll have better than me. I know not everyone will like my decision but it’s right for me. It hasn’t been an over night decision for any of us considering it or going through with it only we know how we all feel. So basically i think Sod em hunni and be happy :0) we have got everyone on here for support when times get hard and you got ya mum xx

Honey I think this is your chance to be happy with the way you look,and believe it or not when you have your new boobs you will not care who knows or what anyone says,your confidence will be through the roof,this is about you no one else.This is your dream no one else’s,and your dream is about to become reality,don’t let anyone or anything spoil that for you,you have a massive family here to support you.xxx

babe …I come from a country where although everyone is constantly in a bikini on the beach and they all do their boobs they wont say it, admit it…some good friends have it done wont talk about it but yet I tell them what size I want and they like omg thats huge youll look fake etc and I just think oh well whatever who cares what they think…who cares what anyone thinks..in the beginning I didnt want to tell anyone but now after being on the forum and seeing how giving advice can really help others why not be open about it if I can…luckily all my friends and family that im close to are happy for me but you do get the people that will always judge but honestly it does hurt but you know a ba does not mean you are some fake doll your simply enhancing your natural beauty anyways and who wouldnt want to do that if they could?

just sending some hugs and support…you have your mom on your team thats probably the best person to have your support anyways:)

xxx

Thank you so much girls! You really don’t realise how much I appreciate your comments and support! I am going to go ahead and do it, if I earn any money from them I will spend it on myself! Hehe! most people I have told have been really supportive about it and my family might be if they knew, I love my dad and he’s always been so good to me, but I can’t care too much if people don’t like them, it just makes you think twice about having them done doesn’t it! My excitement is creeping back thanks to you girlies, we really need to have a massive meet with everyone on here, cos all of you are so lovely and seems rubbish we will never meet! we should organise something!

Thank you so much girlies, I feel so much better and it thanks to youuuuu! I’m gonna tell anyone that thinks I’m stupid to f off! Haha!

Love to all of youuuuuuu!

Jess xx

Course do it for you. First person who new was me fiancé he’s a bum man so didn’t agree but then realized how much it means to me n helped me pay , My mum new as soon as I booked always new I wanted it … She’s isn’t for or against it lol but my dad goes mad when we talk about it, so when I pay it off my mum told him, he went mad !! Lol people are going to react in different way but if it’s for you why would it matter ?? Xxxxx

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