family fallout because of surgery

basically my brother just came round and told my mum that i was going to england to see about getting a second nose job and that i was pressuring his friend to take a loan out for me and then he started into a massive lecture about how i am too obsessed with my looks…..

so hurt and upset. the friend offered to help me with getting the money together. and im only seeing about a second nose job because my first one done abroad wasnt done properly. and most young girls like to look good.

feel so hounded upon this has turned into a massive family argument with shouting and tears and now a fallout.

now i am definitely not going to be able to get the money together feeling hopeless right now. sorry off topic just wonder if other people had fallouts over surgery xxx

Yes I didn’t speak to my parents for months they told me I was silly and vain and it’s been two years and I have saved up every penny. Don’t beat yourself up over it, you know you want it and can work for it and give them time to come round xxx

I never had any problems with my family…Parents disapprove of the size but that’s about it. Your family have to realise that you are an adult, and you may do as you please with your life; and no one has the right to tell you what to do…they can advise you, but ultimately, these are your life decisions that have to be made by you. I don’t know why people have such a problem with surgery; I find that they always seem to think of extreme plastic surgery e.g. Katie Price/Pam Anderson/Michael Jackson etc the list could go on and on. At they end of the day they do care for you and are probably just worried, but no-one should be nasty to you about it; that really doesn’t help…what you really need is support and help. You’re right about us ladies wanting to look good too…it’s normal. Something like 70% of women have thought about plastic surgery but obviously not all of them go through with it. There’s nothing wrong with enhancing yourself to be more beautiful…

Try not to stress too much, talk about it in a couple of days with everyone concerned once everything has calmed down; explain your reasons for wanting the surgery in a mature and sensible manner so no one has a reason to have a go at you. I’m sure everything will be fine…hopefully they will come around when they listen to what you have to say

Stay strong xx

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