Feel like crying!!

I know I’m only being silly…but I’ve wanted my BA for so long, and now that I’ve finally got my date and paid over half, I let myself get excited!! wish I didn’t because now I don’t know if it’s going to happen!!!

When I paid my deposit to secure my op date, I wasn’t advised when the remainder had to be paid(maybe I should have asked) but I was so excited!! I called and paid £1400 last week, and still wasn’t given a date for the final payment.

I had a call from MYA on Sat, but because I was in work I asked them to call me today.

So….today arrives – my pre-op with the nurse at the cardiff clinic(still no mention of final payment)within 10mins of leaving the clinic I have a call asking me to pay the final balance! with working shifts and my 2yr old son I told them that I can’t get to the bank today and need to move some money around 1st, and I don’t get paid until Friday, so asked if I could be given a few days to sort it out.

I was told then, that if I don’t pay the balance today, I will lose my date and the op would be postponed. So I suggested paying some today and some on Friday, to which I was told my op could still be postponed!

I can’t postpone my date….I’ve struggled for 6weeks to arrange the time off work and I’ve arranged childcare(my mum is off work the same time as my op as she works in a school)

I don’t know how I’m going to come up with £1550.00 today – I’ve asked my bf if he can lend it to me from his business account, but it’s not looking likely!

I know the balance has to be paid, but all i’m asking for is a few days grace!!

But it’s apparently out of Cardiff clinics hands as head office have asked them to collect the balance.

This whole thing is such an emotional rollercoaster – just not sure it’s going to be worth it anymore! Feel like crying!!!!!

Ring the clinic manager hun.

I had trouble getting the last £960 together and they kept ringing me all the time. My clinic manager managed to authorise things with them and I didn’t end up paying the last £960 until a few days before my op!

There’s no way they should be threatening to postpone your op! x

CAN u put in on a credit card hun?

I wish I could 2cuks…but I’m getting married next year and have just paid the deposits for my reception and suits/dresses on my credit card!

I’m sure I’ll think of something…I want it too much just to give up! But I do think its too hard and too emotional to keep trying and failing!

It’s just one thing after another!

I think I will ring them tracy2010 – its as though they make up the rules as they go along!!

Hi littlelexi, we are going to get someone to call you about this shortly. I am sure we can sort something out. Please try not to worry.

hope u get it sorted hun x good luck x

Just checked my phone to see an answerphone message from the clinic manager and a message from one of the admin girls in the clinic – thay have agreed to let me pay some today and the final balance on Friday!

it’s just a shame that it takes an email from MYA MOD to the clinic to get a response and to get someone to listen to your concerns! When I tried to explain to MYA cardiff earlier today – I was just dismissed. 1 email from MYA MOd and it’s all sorted!

Thanks MYA MOD x

Thanks gem0307 – all sorted x

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