Feel sorry for myself :( Started by: claire1985

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  • claire1985 4
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    I’ve just broken up with my boyfriend and I don’t think we’ll be sorting it out. So I feel really sorry for myself right now :(

    I’ve booked a daycase for 1st June so now I’m going to be there by myself with nobody to reassure me, or take me there and back :( I don’t know what to do!

    Very down in the dumps today, need words of advice and cheering up! Sorry for sounding so pathetic lol, I think I just need to moan x

    KelBel
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    Hi Hun,

    I split up with my boyfriend 3 months ago after 3 years together, its a hard thing to go through but trust me you will feel better! have you not got a friend or relative that will come with you ? xx

    george85 13
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    his loss darling. grab a friend to go with you instead. x

    Anonymous
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    Oh Hun i am so sorry xxxx can any off your friends or family take you??? you have planty of time to arrange something :) xx chin up chic

    dotty22
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    Aw, i’m sorry, there’s nothing worse than a break-up but your op date is the perfect thing to focus on, just keep your eyes on the prize!

    Good luck and remember the golden rule, silence speaks volumes so don’t call or text him and he’ll soon be crawling back! xx

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    Dotty you’ve done this before :P

    Claire – From one Claire… to another. Forget about him. What’s for you won’t go by you. It hurts right now, but tomorrow won’t be so bad…. and the next even less. Then before you know it, it’ll be your op day. Afterwards you’ll be out showing your new twinnies off and before you know it you’ll have ever man eating out your hands.

    What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger chick. You don’t need a man to make you happy. Your twins will do that for you :)

    xx

    claire1985 4
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    Aw thanks girls :)

    I’ve not told any relatives and my friends will be working – I don’t really want to be any trouble to anyone. Its only 20 minutes on the train so I should be ok and I might just get a cheap hotel for the night so I’m not rushing straight home. I’m just a bit sad that ill be on my own as I’m nervous enough as it is! Thank his its Friday eh! Need bloody alcohol xx

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    Claire you wee petal.

    If you can’t speak to your family, speak to your friends. You can’t go through this alone. Don’t make me come down there! lol. Chin up chick, try and think of someone. Just borrow them for the day. They have holidays or flexi leave, they can use it! Then once your home and you have all your soup and easy access foods at an accessible height you can tell them to go home lol.

    I’m not happy that you’ll be on your own chick, I don’t know if they let you leave the hospital unattended?

    Please watch what your doing.

    xx

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    I totally agree with claireybabes :) xxx so many claires on here lol xx

    You can not do this alone!!! you need someone there for you hun xx if we were friends id make sure i was with you xx You have to tell someone!!!!!

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    i totally agree, u need someone with u for the 1st 24hrs after surgery xxx i split with my fiance in jan, he jus up n left so im now on my own with two kids i thought it was the end of the world but i picked myself dusted myself down and thought “F**K YOU, you will NOT get me down!” x it really is his loss sweetie and claireybabes is right, everyday gets a lil easier xx chin up chick xx

    P.S …. u gotta tell someone hun, the staff are not guna be happy if you dont have anyone there with you for the 1st 24hrs at least xx good luck chick

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    Girl Power!! – Sorry… had to say it.

    xx

    claire1985 4
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    Haha we’ll be burning our bras soon!!

    Right I will speak to a friend and see if I can get something sorted then, fingers crossed x

    Thanks for all being lovely, I was in need of a bit of loveliness! Xx

    Anonymous
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    claireybabes your comment says it all !!! :D

    good luck claire1985 :D just think soon you will have two new additions ;)

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