Feeling down and silly :(

Hi girls,

I have been thinking about having my boobs enlarged for well over a year now,

I had a consultation with one company last yr and didn’t like them so stated looking into it more and someone recommended MYA! So I joined the forum have spoken to some of you girls and Heard bout your experience and decided to book my consultation which is next week and up until last night I was really excited, I told my 4 closest friends last night and the reaction I got has kind upset me. They were very negative about it and told me a was silly because I don’t have anything “wrong” with my boobs so why risk it?? Well I am lucky and I have a good shape but I used to be a full D cup and with a bit of weight lose I’ve gone down to an empty C and for me I don’t feel confident anymore and would like to see them fuller and bigger. I was also told my boobs would just look fake and stuck on! Which im suprised she saud as our friend has her boobs done and they look so natural, so why would she think mine wouldnt? I was also told I should be using the money for my future with my boyfriend, but we have a flat together and we are happy and if we wanted to move we still could regardless if I got them done or not!

One of my friends was sweet about it and said to do what I feel is best and she would love big boobies too lol but I still upset by a few of

my other friends comments has anyone else had this with there girlfriends? If so how did u handle it? It’s kinda made me feel silly about telling them now and question my decision, and I hadn’t till now but I feel my gfriends know me the best, so is there some truth in what they say??

I’m very confused sorry for the rant but hopefully u girls can give me some honest advice

Xxxxx

Hey Hun. My 3 friends who thought were best friends were the same. My one from work said I’ll look daft with fake boobs. Another said I needed my head checky n should be saving for a car (I am anyways). N Hannah said I didn’t bedding one but said if it makes me happy shell be there n she has shes been brill. My friend from work even had a couple nasty words to say to Hannah about it on s night out. So I haven’t spoke to them about it apart from Hannah who’s been just as excited as me. My 2nd friend o haven’t heard anything from her my op was last wed guess shes not a true friend. N one from work has text to make sure I’m ok. But thru are just jealous of you Hun! And that’s all it is. Things as big aa this make you realise who your true friends are. D

Sorry for the essay!!! But the girls here a fab n you can talk to us abbot anything xx

i dont think it matters what your “friends” think, they should surport you whatever.

and as for saving your money for you and your boyfriend, thats nothing to do with them! keep there noses out i say, there entitled to a opion but not tell you what you should spenmd your money on! do something for yourself girl! xxx

Thanks Girls, yeah I was bit suprised she came out and told me how to spend my money!

I was just hoping for bit more support never expected them all to agree on it but was bit taken back by alot of the comments and really didn’t think they would be like that!

Xx

There have Been a few girls on here with similar reactions from ‘friends’. I don’t know why they have such unexpected reactions or why they are insensitive in their remarks. Not sure if it’s just intimidating for them. They don’t know what to say. They genuinely think you’re beautiful as you are. Just take it as a compliment and do what you in your heart want to do. It’s you who looks in the mirror when they’ve gone. It’s your confidence in question. Its your money and your relationship with your boyfriend – What they think doesn’t actually matter a great deal. Follow your own feelings not others. I didn’t tell anyone at all. It’s like baby names people always have opinions. They will only make you doubt your self. We are all different. Stick to how YOU feel and what your boyfriend feels matters somewhat where money is concerned. Don’t let people make u doubt yourself. Xxx

Aww thank you anchovie, I know I need to do what’s right for me and that’s exactly what my boyfriend said and he’s suprised at how unsurportive they were. He’s been really supportive and told me to do what’s right for me!

I’ve had two friends that have had boob jobs and I’d like to think I never made them feel how I felt last night! Infect I know I didn’t! and I’m pretty sure they didn’t react like that to them?!

I think I’m just going to stick to the girls who have constructive things to say and just keep it to myself now.

Thanks girls xxx

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