feeling guilty

Hey there im booked with Mr C in August and i dont know if its just me or everyone goes through it but im on a guilt trip thinking im spending all this money on a pair of boobs and i have children.my husband who is very supportive thinks im being silly and very happy for me to have them done but i just have that guilty feeling. anyone else feel the same? xx

Hey 22ks, I felt exactly the same! I nearly cancelled my surgery a few times but I’ve decided to go through with it and I’m getting them done next week. For about 2 weeks I was really stressed out, feeling stupid about getting them done, was I being selfish spending that amount of money on boobs, did I really want and need them etc but when it came to cancelling I felt sad so I decided to just not think about it I was having it and that was that xx

i feel exactly the same, so i am not telling anyone (except the person coming with me).. I can justify spending the money to everyone else after i have nice boobies

I feel the same, I have a 2yo and 3 month old! I feel guilty as sin and keep wondering if its really necessary & what other people (like my in laws) will say – i hope they dont notice hehe!!

Its really worrying tbh xx

All you ladies who feel guilty STOP you sometimes need to do something for you as i am sure most of the time you are bottom of your list of priority . Enjoy your experience and aftercare pampering soon be back to normal x

Hi all i feel the same I was getting so stress about weather to do it or not and the month could buy so many other things, my daughter is about to become 17 and doesnt agree with BA, I had her when i was just turned nineteen and when i look back before i had her I loved my boobs and then i breast fed, the way i have been trying to look at it is i have wanted this for so long to boost my confidences and i would pay anything for that. I have also spent my live always putting my daughter first before me and spending my last penny on her rather than me. Do it before your children are old enough to have a say about it. you are not being selfish you brought them into the world and man that hurts. Sue i agree with you totally x

Ha Ha i think us guilty ones have been told, thanks girls i know what you are saying i have always wanted them done and when i was pregnant they were big and lovely then they went and i was gutted and i wanted them back i have 2 boys age 10 and 3.

im so looking forward to having it done and shopping for nice clothes oh and nice bra sets its just every now and then i start thinking and my head ticks over time. thanks again girls xx

I know exactly what you’re saying 22ks, I’m having mine on Sunday morning and i just can’t stop thinking all sorts of silly things, I have 3 kids and just keep thinking something will go wrong! I suppose everyone goes through it! But I know it will make such a difference to my life and confidence and I’ll be a much happier mummy!!

Hi Leigh, how you feeling? thats right i cant stop thinking of silly things and its filling my head up with crap. i know it will make a difference to my life having my new boobs even my sister commented on my flat chest so im glad im having them done. i think maybe cause i havent said anything to anyone well except my mum and my husband i feel its all in my head. i must admit tho im very excited about having them done xx

22ks- I’ve been wanting to have my boobs done since 6 years ago. I was on and off with my decision due to my mum dying of breast cancer… money has always been the case too and of course the priorities. I have 2 kids; aged 16 and 9 now. I have always done and given them so much of what I could give and I thought it is about time that I feel good about myself and also have them look after me in return. We deserve this girls and I think feeling guilty is a natural thing and is good. As a good mother we should be feeling this, but at the same time… we must admit who will look after us at the end of the day except US!

I am having my Ba on the 11th of August and I can’t wait. My husband supports this as of course… there are more to hold and fiddle!

Also, I had my laser eye surgery last Friday, Saturday I treated myself at Selfridges for some face treatments 😆

Leigh- Goodluck hon! Keep us updated OK?

Lublu- My daughter is 16 and she had comments of course. But she is happy for me. She knew that I have always put both her and her brother first.

Sue- Well said girl

Mrsf25- Gosh… my dad is coming to stay over at my place for at least 3 weeks… I don’t know what he is going to say, but my husband said that… it has nothing to do with him! Oh well, let us see what happened!

Hey keep

Not long now to yours……what size are you having? x

sharon- I originally agreed to 340cc, then I ask Dr Adamo if I could take 380cc which is about half a cup size. I am about 32a at present and aiming for D cup! Yap…not long now love… I am excited!

I’ve noticed a couple of you have mentioned that you have children. This is a bit off topic but would you suggest having a BA before or after pregnancy? Do your boobs change that much if you breast feed? I don’t want to get mine done now, then have kids in 2 years and then my boobs shrink again!

Any advice would be v much appreciated, thanks!

Hi lauren86,

i have 2 children and i would say if u r thinking of having children in the near future then personally i wood wait and have the op after u have had them cuz my boobs changed alot during pregnancy and they r now quiet empty,i dnt kno if having implants in wood of made the change more or less but i woodn’t of wanted to of had my boobs done, spend all that money for them to possibly get ruined in a few years time!! Thats just my advice im sure everyone is different xxxx

Thanks for the reply becky87. I was thinking the same thing as you and waiting. Nice to get another opinion and not just my own. Ta :o) x

Lauren- I agree with Lauren. Dr Adamo says so too as they pregnancy will definitely change the shape of our boobs.

That’s sorted then! I’ll hang fire for a few years and can save up some pennies for the op whilst I’m waiting!

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