Feeling scared!

Hi girls I’ve been reading all of your advice and its really helped answer lots of unanswered questions, so thankyou Ive booked my op for 4th of jan with Dr Adamo in Highgate. Its something ive wanted to do for such a long time, infact i booked to have the operation about 4 yrs ago but let everybody talk me out of it. So this time im trying to stay strong and not let other peoples opinions get to me! although I keep having days where im wondering if im doing the right thing. Does everybody have doubts after booking? x

Yep definitely, its such a big thing to do its normal to have doubts but if its what you really want then go for it! I had doubts but now im sooo glad i followed through with it! xx

Thats what i keep telling myself! I know if i don’t go through with it, it will be something that i always regret! I think its just so real now and ive just been over thinking it xx

you ate doing the right thing follow your heart? x

i men are not ate lol

lol i knew what you meant!! I just wish it was sooner so i didnt have all this time to panic x

It will fly by honestly. I booked mine 7 weeks before my date and it was time before I knew it. I’m 10 days post op now and can’t believe how fast it’s all gone! Xx

Hey soph it is so common to have doubts and fears. I had wanted mine for 15 years and was desperate. However the week before my op, I seriously doubted myself, listening to people and problems that could occur. I also worried that although my boobs were horrible and too small, they were still mine and I suddenly thought I may be doing the wrong thing. Even straight after the op, I had the same thoughts. Felt so Poorly and boobs weren’t as I wanted them straight away. Although they’re still not perfect as I only had em done 2 days ago, I’m slowly coming round and am g,ad I went against my doubts. If its something you’ve wanted for so long, try and remember the reasons why. You will be so happy you went throughh with it once they’ve settled and you’ve got that figure you’ve dreamed of for so long. Good luck to you chick xx

like Kelly said, its natuaral to feel the way you do. I was so close to walking out the hospital. i thought when i was there “what am i doing… im so selfish”. Then i remembered the reasons i wanted them. I too have wanted my boobs from the age of 17. Seemed like the only girl in the class that never grew any tits! lol.

Then, i had my children and breastfed em and they became an embarresment to me. But, they have served their purpose and now… they’re mine. i feel like a lady LOL. ok, they look quite crap to be honest right now… all taped up. but, have no doubt in my mind what so ever that they’ll look a whole lot better than what they did before. go for it gal.xx

I’m having my op in jan! And I have these feelings everyday but then when I lie in bed on a night and my boob go flat or when I’m on top in bed and they look empty it reminds me how badly I want this!! I’ve lived with empty breasts since i stopped breast feeding 3 years ago, ad it’s just not me. I feel sooo under confident with my boyfriend and never let him touch my boobs so I just can’t wait to feel feminine again and confident in bed !! Don’t worry Hun we all have doubts xx

hi hun, why is it us women can think nothin of buyin stuff for our man or our kids but when it comes to ourselves we seem to come up with every reason under the sun why we shudn’t? like you i was back of the queue when mother nature was dishing out tits. it bothered me, affected my confidence the lot. like you i went for a consultation, booked my op, paid good money to secure the op and then came all the negative little voices in my head. i cancelled n lost my money. 2yrs later i went back hun cos that desire never goes away. i had my op. that was 11 years ago now. without question the best money i have ever spent. next wednesday i’m havin another boob job. trust me u seriously can’t put a price on changin the way you feel about you. all the luck in the world hun xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hey soph. As all the girls have said it’s a normal thing. I doubted I was dioing the right thing right up to walking to theartre but am so glad that 5days ago I did it. I am so happy. You will feel the same. Follow your heart. Your life your choice. Good luck with whatever you decide.xx

Thankyou girlies!!! Hugely appreciated xxx

YAAAAAAAAAAAAY I’ve been desperate for a boobie buddy. I’m also having Dr Adamo on the 4th Jan – 10 weeks to go!!! sooooo exciting, are you staying overnight?? Is it ok to add you hun? xx

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