Okay, first of all I really don’t have an issue with people wanting to be friends with me for whatever reason, but I DO mind people adding me if I’ve never spoken to them on the forum or if they haven’t even messaged me first…it’s RUDE. There are personal pics of me on there and I’m not just going to accept you just because you send me a request. I’ve rejected about 12 friend requests today because of this; it clearly states on my profile that I WILL NOT ACCEPT if I’ve never spoken to you before! I’m sorry but what part of that don’t some of you understand? It’s written right there in front of you on my status and all you need to do is drop me a message
Sorry for the rant girlies but this is really starting to annoy me now; I just think its vulgar to add someone without talking to them or anything!
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Well said! It is rude! x
Exactly, the same applies if I don’t talk to people regularly either…I just delete them! Also I find it so so rude! I’m approachable as they come but I won’t accept people just adding me without saying anything! x
Lool bekkyb that’s the way I am, I try not to be mean but this just really annoys me! I HATE vulgarity more than anything! x
Totally true, I didn’t mind at 1st coz there was nothing of me on my profile but cause ice started to upload my pre op piks, I want to know who’s adding me now, and I will not accept ppl if they do not ask 1st, I’ve just left them in my requests xx
I just reject until they have the manners to talk to me first! x
iv just had a look at your new pics dolly :)they are amazing and massiveeeeee.look brill xxx
Thankyou hun! My left one is really annoying me though! xx
Because it’s higher than the other one, can you not see? x
iv just had another look and i can slighty tell only by really looking tho hun , i didnt notice atal until you said !! xxx
Ahh okay, maybe I’m just over analysing things because I look at my boobs for at least 20 minutes a day lol! I just think that one is bigger
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yeah maybe i think we always are over critical of our selfs they look brill to me hun xx
Dolly92 ure boobs are lush! lol i’m so jealous! You’re one brave lady
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spot on x
Dolly92, they are A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! xx
Gotta agree they are amazing and I can’t see barely any difference hun xx
ive had a million adds tday and only a couple messages it is RUDE lol xxxx
i’ve just logged on to try to put some pictures up and i have 12 friend requests and exactly 1 message!! xx
people DO send me a message but all it normally says is “can i see your pics?” the ost requests i had in 1 day was 37 requests
Sorry I guess most of the new people, myself included dont realise how rude it can be to request a friendship without actual cyber chatting. I guess we’re just overexcited about getting them finally done. Although I do think some effort should be made to a least message to ask before adding. Apologies (looks sheepish)
no one has sent me a friends request no one wants to be my friend lol. 🙄
dolly92 I cant see your pics hun, only the two showing your hair change, by the way I wish I had your eyes they are stunning!!
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