Friend Requests Again

Hi girls,

As my op is drawing nearer, I’m getting quite a few friend requests from girls I haven’t ever spoken to on the forum or haven’t had a message from. I will most likely be putting up pics after I’ve had my op as other girls pics have helped me out loads.

I don’t mind in the slightest if anyone wants to add me for advice or anything but as I’ll have pics up in a few weeks, could you pleeeeeease just send a message first so I know who will be seeing them. The only reason I ask is cos I feel a bit funny about putting pics up in the first place and like I say, the only reason I’ll be doing it is because other girls have helped me out so much by sharing their pics/stories/advice xx

Hi hun we will never solve this unless mya put a mandatory comment bit in the request a friend option!

As some one think it was renaule suggested! (Maybe wrong and cant spell lol)’

I now just accept then cancel

They are seriously either plain ignorant and have no respect or cant read as I have *pls pm me before u add me* actually on my profile status. ! Which has to be seen as add friend is on same page!!

Most girls on here are ok but there are the odd few, I bet when they have their BA they wont be happy people just adding away!

Hi hun we will never solve this unless mya put a mandatory comment bit in the request a friend option!

As some one think it was renaule suggested! (Maybe wrong and cant spell lol)’

I now just accept then cancel

They are seriously either plain ignorant and have no respect or cant read as I have *pls pm me before u add me* actually on my profile status. ! Which has to be seen as add friend is on same page!!

Most girls on here are ok but there are the odd few, I bet when they have their BA they wont be happy people just adding away!

I know hun! At the moment I don’t mind all that much as I only have a non booby pic up but I would never add someone without telling them why first (unless they’ve blatantly stated not to bother messaging them before adding but even then I generally send a polite message first…)

I don’t wanna sound mean to the newbies and I am more than happy to try and help but when I do have pics on, i will definitely be expecting a quick message if I haven’t been in a convo with them on the forum. Ah well xx

I totaly agree girls I logged on today to find 7 friend req only one of them pm me first and even a bloke why would he want to see my pre op pics when his having his ears pinned back perv I think we all need to be very carful as people can not only see are pics put can download them then upload them on the web I dont fancy my bro mates or my mother in law seeing me with my current saggys out lol x Fairy may I add you please? Heather xxx

I have 30 friend requests of people who I have never seen on the doin never mind spoke to, unless I recieve a message I wot be accepting as its personal pictures, so please be polite and send a little message xxx

it is very annoying isnt it, i dont think they even consider that we have personal pictures on our page, and although we dont mind sharing (helping) its polite to add a note to explain why they would like to see. its one of those things that unless something like fairy said is put in place it will never change..x

its so annoyin that people see we ask this and ignore it an stil send requests!! x

REJECT REJECT REJECT!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m happy to help answer questions n for others with the same stats see my pics but like u Fairy have put please pm first the polite ones have sent a pm others just add away all it takes is a quick message to say hi blah blah blah come on RESPECT x. X

Maybe MYA should have friend requests on the sticky subjects – something like

“Rules of Friend Requests” ???

Hmm that’s a good one cuks but they are that blatant they add u even if u say pm first n don’t bother so they gonna keep doing it babe x x

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