Sooo last night my supposed best pal text me saying “are u watching snog marry avoid” so i tb saying yhe. She then tb saying. And i quote “that ugly body builder is what ur gonna luk like with ur horrid big fake boobs”
Wtf!!!! I was foaming!! Still am!!
She was dead supportive at first and now its getting closer she has turned on me!!
Grrrrrr sorry girls had to tell someone as my bf just says tell her to f#%k off shes a bitch lol
Brianne xxx
OMG that is sooooo nasty! don’t worry about it hun shes obviously jealous! I was watching snog marry avoid lastnite and that bodybuilders boobs didnt look nice because of her body shape where she was all muscly I thought the other girl who had fake boobs looked really nice! x
Oh Brianne
I dont think she’s jealous hun i think she’s just a dick that loves her own opinion!
Ignore the dumb bitch….i actually though that bodybuilder looked nice after the make over. The only reason her implants look like that is cos shes got a low body fat percentage xxx
I know she’s your ‘friend’ but I’d just give her a wide berth, don’t make contact with her. I’m sure by giving her plenty of time to think and reflect on what’s she’s said will make her realise. She’ll come running, all nice as pie. Take no notice of her, purely jealousy. x
Thanks girls!!
i feel a bit betrayed by her to be honest… I used to work with her and she slept about at work and i always stuck up for herwhen people asked me…
Its crap
Well ticky she is fatish with big boobs and im not lol xx
It’s funny how some people turn when they find out you’re having cosmetic surgery. I’ve had a few sly digs from people who are supposed to be my nearest & dearest. I can only assume it is a bit of envy. Don’t let it doubt yourself.
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Hey honey… you don’t deserve that kind of treatment at all!
I have the same problem with my best friend also, she hasn’t done/said anything that harsh as of yet, but she makes tiny little digs about how stupid I am going to look blah blah blah… all I do is ignore her, I laugh when she says something horrible or just completely disregard her opinion, if she’s a true friend she will see what she said was wrong and she will apologise.
Whatever you do, don’t listen to your boyfriend and tell her to f*ck off! Lol… my boyfriend says exactly the same thing! And trust me, it isn’t worth the hassle and arguments! Lol
Ignore ignore ignore and laugh!
Laugh hard! Because we all know, and you do too, that you will look SUPER HOT with your new assets and she will eat her words quietly! 
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Touch of the Green eyed monster!!!!
Don’t worry hun! You’ll look fab!
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lisam is right – just avoid her for a bit and if she doesn’t know when the op date is, don’t tell her. and when you do eventually see her dress down intentionally so she won’t necessarily notice the difference because then when she asks if you’re still going ahead with it you can tell her how long ago it was done. perhaps she’s just worried that you’ll look different to the friend she is used to and doesn’t want you to make a mistake but gone the completely wrong way about voicing that opinion and said the completely wrong thing.
if she has never thought about surgery and never been in this situation she probably doesn’t realise quite how scary it actually is or how hurtful her comments have been.
my so called friend once made a comment to me and my best about getting pregnant which we ignored at the time but i stopped speaking to her and when she asked why i told her upfront that her comment was disrespectful and hurtful and she felt awful about it.
sorry for the essay xx
Clare1812 that is so true. Most of my friends have big boobs and I used to hate going out with them because I was so flat chested 32aa and 19yrs old….Not good. Now that I have had my BA there’s alot off them now being different towards me, and saying comments like on a night out you will not be standing next to me because your bigger chested than me now, and some of my friends haven’t even text me to see how I got on, and im now 6days post opp haha.
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Blondie19 I SO understand what you’re saying! ALL of my friends have big boobs, seriously, none of them have anything smaller than a DD.. then there’s me with my teeny weeny boobies, I hate going to restaurants or anything that requires dressing up because I feel so inadequate!
Hopefully they’ll still invite me out after the operation! Lol
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Yeah you defo get to see who your true friends are and the ones who are just jealous and DONT understand Grhhhhh
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sorry girls been at the gym!
Really appreciate ur support!
Been at the gym with my other pal (who i have know for bout 1yr!!) and she is really supportive! I think the other one is trying to hurt my feelings on purpose. I havent tb and wont be i am waiting for her to.
i have never had boobs and she knows i have been un happy for years however she just turned on me! she has made sly little comments when out shopping but no where near as bad as last night
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hey hun, i posted sumthin last wk about my so called best pal bein a bitch! shocked me how she had always been supportive aswel..i think they must have insecurities themselves and getting a lil jealous! take no notice, u realise who ur real friends are xx
omg fairy, that was really spiteful of her to text that. Why do some girls have to be so hurtful? You are going to have fabulous boobs hun, you have done lots of research, and have decided on a size that will suit your frame. It is hard, but try to ignore her hun, hopefully she will be regretting her text, if not then you could do without friends like her! Big hug, Tammy x
OMG how rude was that! Sounds like a bit of a twat! This isnt something you have just thought about overnight…am im sure you will look fab
She just sounds like an over-opinionated cow lmao! Just try to laugh it off as you know FINE it isnt true, thats KINDA similar to me theres a guy I hang about with in uni but I dont really like him but he hangs out with the people I hang about with so cant really escape him, he slags me about my new boobs all the time and it really pisses me off coz Iv went and spent £3350 on these and i take it REALLY personal, I dont go and slag him about his shite car that has stupid stuck-on gay-looking crap and it probably cost him the same as my boobs…..just wish he’d fuck off and stfu. I actually called him an arsehole today…dont let that girl get to you, tell her where to go…
Funny she mentioned the bodybuilder.. She probably jealous of her too cos she can’t lose her fat (u did say she’s fat right)..
she probably has always envied u cos your silm and now ur gonna have boobs, she feeling threaten… As she knows fake natural boobs look better than the real thing… Plus u are gonna get way more attention than her…
Fat people are always self-righteous!
JEALOUSY … think 99% of this forum would have experienced this hun! x
I’ve got friends that are jealous but it’s a good thing… Probably more encouraging them to want one… We all laugh about it… No bad tensions at all.. Which is what it should be..
Ones who take it badly is only cos they got major insecurities… Which I can say that everyone here does too but the only difference is that we actually have or doing something about it. X
don’t let others insecurities get you down hunn, she should not have said that. it’s at times like this when you really see who your true friends are. Luckily i haven’t experienced this from my close mates but a girl came up to me on a night out and said that my boobs were really offensive a week ago! i told her her face was! you’ll get that kind of thing from time to time, but it’s just because you look so damn FINE! that’s what i like to think
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unless u look like a man in drag covered in fence varnish with a big blonde rat on ur head i doubt u will look anythin like the woman on sbog marry or avoid.. i saw it and it was scary…. sounds like ur mates bitter she isnt gettin hers done. just tell her its better to look like that than a green-eyed monster with no boobs lmao xxx
Heey girls!
Awww u are all great!! I dont know what the matter is with her she was fine at the start. Now its week away she is being like this. Im sure things like that dont just come out by accident so i think she has thought nasty things from the start. She has natural big boobs but is chubb so only has fat boobs really… And mine wont sag hehe…
Thanks again girls i knew u would all make me feel better xxxxxx
Just thought I would add to your post!
I text my best friend last night and told her I was all done, I got a text back saying “good” !
I’ve come home today and nothing, not a phone call or anything! it’s worse, She lives 3 houses down from me??
Very confused to what her problem is!
Pissed off with her big time!
Aww carmel sorry ur friend is also being like this. Hope ur ok and happy after ur op
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I wonder if some people who have a slight jealousy issue with us getting our boobs done, dont bother sympathising and checking in because theyre probably thinking well its your own fault!! Hummm the female mind huh lol xx
I know.kezza lol
just winds me up that i have stuck up for her so much and she turns on me!! Xx
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