Friends

nice friend.. sorry i know shes your friend but im one ov these lasses that divnt take any shit from anyone mind my french.. but a friend should support you threw anythin thats why there called friends.. id tell her 2 etha shut her mouth or i dont wanna talk 2 her.. in a nice way tho.. but end ov the day its your choice and your body.. and by the sounds ov it she seems very jelouse.. i mean what she mean what advantages? urgh youl have big booobs duh!!! my friends kinda like that shes like god made you the way you are or a reason and all this but shes still been dead supportive with me and just tells me im stupid bt she still wouldnt be like that if you know what i mean.. i would just say hey man your just jel coz im guna have HUGE KNOCKERS!!!! haha i such a cow but hey
but honestly just say to her why cant you just be a friend and be supportive for me instead ov given me allecute its my body and ill do what i want with it.. if you dont have anythin nice to say bout them then please dont day nothng at all =]
hope i wasnt to much ov a bitch good luck hun xxx

your totally right jojo, i was having second thoughts because of what people were sayingb about it and then i realised feck them, its my life my body lol x

Hey shell,

I would worry about what your friend thinks, if she is a true friend she will stand by you no matter what! She may just be worried about you but it could also be jelousy.

I have previously chickened out of having my BA and all my friends where saying ‘ dont bother! why would you want to do that?’ so when i did have my BA in October they where all very shocked. I didnt tell anyone because i was doing it for myself ( i wanted to shout from the roof tops though)
( I wish id have had a camera when they came round)

Most of my mates are jelous now because ive got the biggest boobs but they love them and accept me with big boobies! whoop whoop!

Do it for yourself no one else, the ones that love you will be there for you!
The ones that dont stand by you will get over it !

I am dying to tell my friends that Im getting it done in less than two weeks but fighting hard to keep my mouth shut and surprise them! They will be so shocked! Most of my mates are genuine and I know will be dead happy for me, but there’s one or two that I know will have a good bitch about me! I know what to expect, But I couldn’t give two monkeys what they say once I whip them out, and I won’t be bothered what anyone says about them, because I know that the only reason people might badmouth me, or be against it is because they are jealous that I have (SORRY am going to have!) big fabulous BOOBIES!!

Don’t let anyone tell you any different, its your decision and if people want the best for you they will support you, the ones trying to influence you, worry you and hold you back are jealous and insecure, rise above it x x x

Same here! I keep dreamin about it! I am REALLY nervous tho2! X

Oh yesssssss i am excited hun but nervous deep down, and at night i am not sleeping to well as i am going over things in my head haha

xx

Totally agree Lousie and i have waited till i was 24 too, and i know i am defo ready and making the correct decision.

Oh Emma thats awful but ur right that is no friend. A friend is someone who support every decision in ur life and no matter what is there for you

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14dayz woopwoop! Cnt WAIT! Ahhh! Shel u exitd!x

Oh i know that 1 one of my best mates has been totally horrible infact vile 2wards me. It hurt alot but now think she wasnt a friend after all. I I love my boobies and find if others dont i dont care lol. Good luck xx

HAHAHAHAH!!! JaneyH thats defo is the way to do it

Hey Han…………….. how u feeling hun!! 14 days hun

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i no the feeling, ive told a couple of my close friends and they have said not to get it done, i dont need it done, risks and all that. i think im old enough to make up my own mind lol your right it is jelaously, no ifs or buts about it. i have stopped telling people now, if they notice they notice and what can they say once the bad boys are in there lol x

Hey Becky its awful i am soooooooooo excited and i have had some really positive comments of people its just this friend who just put a downer on my excitement but i am not letting her no more……… it really is jealousy for sure as i no she wont admit it but she would love to have a ba.

Hey Toni I have told her so many times and its mainly when were just about to go out and i have to some how alter what i am wearing to accomodate my small boobs, its always tape my tops to my self or put padding in my bra………..so she defo knows, lol!!! But i have had the same response from my other mates just being excited for me and just giving me support over it all, as i have been getting nervous about it now, esp the last few days lol

will defo kep u post hun, u know the closer it comes the more nervous i will get haha

The funny things is, i have had a few people say what does my fella think etc……. i think they think he wants me to have it done but he actually doesnt. He loves me little boobies just how they are. its me with the problem with them so its me who is doing something about them lol

to make meeeeeeeee happy

Thanks girls, u all are amazing

I cant wait to write my story up and share my experience

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Grr hate bitchey matez! Shes defanatly jelous! Stick with ur true friends! She’l soon realise! 16th 4me 2weekz here we cum!x

yes very jealous!! you ignore her, get it done and show them big babbalons off!! he he!! i am now a 32e and when i mention them my mates chnage the subject!! its so funny! so i just show them off more!! you go girl!! show um off!! XX

:wink:Hey Shell

So sorry to hear about your friend. Maybe she doesnt understand how important this is to you!! Have you sat and spoken to her?? It may well be a jealousy thing, and if it is, is she really all that much of a friend in the first place?

I have told my close friends and the first thing my very best friend said was ‘YAY IM SO EXCITED FOR YOU’
My girls know how important this is for me (i get my BA on the 15th too by the way) and how much its going to change my world, for the better. They have seen how upset i get about my body and seen and heard the taunts or comments.
Plus i was so supportive of her when she got her laser surgery….and thats your eyes!!!!!!! Plus your doing this for you, nobody else, nobody else has to live in your skin….just you…and you only live once….do whatever makes you happy (as my dad says)

It seems overall you have the support of a lot of important people and your life is in such a good place at the moment, dont let anyone pull you down. You only live once…..good luck on the 15th, keep me posted on how you get on xxx

I know EXACTLY what you mean!!!
i cant keep my mouth shut so practically everyone i know knows im having a BA
had some horrible comments off some people; apparently having a BA makes you a slut etc, it’s all rubbish and they just wish they had the guts and money to get one too
gutted for them, we’re th lucky ones, and were gonna hve AMAZING boobs
and she wants to fall out over a pair of knockers let her get on with it hunni!!!

Beckyxxx

ooopppsss feel (not feet!!!)

:cheer: Roll on the 15th Dec :cheer:
My new boobs have definately made me feet so more more confident in myself, both dressed and undressed :swingin:
Hip hip hooray for boobies xx

Thanks girls

i feel loads better but ur right a friend should support u even if she desont agree as that wat a friend is. She has now said that she is happy if i am and i was like i am the happyest i have been EVER!!!! and i really do mean that, i have suffered from depression in the past and now i have everything i want……… well nearly after the 15th but i have an amazing partnerwho i am lucky to have, brill family and great friends (bar one) and i do have the best life ever!!! hehe, excited mode at the min

I think she is dead against it, as deep down she would love to have bigger boobs and afford them but she only gets things she wants by other people (men) buying things for her!!!!

I wish i hadnt told her to be honest but just wanted to share my excitement with my friends thats all lol!!!

Roll on the 15th Dec…………13 days and counting lol

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Hi Shell – months before i had my ba i did mention it to one friend that i was thinking about it, and to be honest i wish i had never said anything to her! She is a natural F cup so didn’t really understand why i wanted it done!

At the end of the day, you are doing this for yourself, and not your friends. It can be hurtfull when you get negetive comments, but try not to let it upset you. I decided not to tell anybody else after that experiance (except for hubby, my daughter who is 20 and my sister who had a ba 2 years ago) and to be honest, nobody has realised that i have had it done even now! I had my ba in August! Even my friend who i had originally told, does not know and i have seen her lots of time since i had it done.

You have the support of your family and other friends, and i bet that when she sees your fab new boobs, she will be wanting hers done too! Good luck xx

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

I am hoping this is jealousy here.

Here goes……….. i have been wanting a BA for ages and one of my best friends knows this, now when i was talking about it a few months ago she was dead against it and since then i havent said another word to her, now she has been texting seeing how i am and wanting to meet up etc……….. and i was like yeh we can but before the 15th (my op date) So i told her why!!!

Her reply: OH MY GOD! Noooooooooo dont do it, so many things can go wrong!!!

grrrrr!! i am rather annoyed to say the least. I just replied with a ba has many advantages!!!

and her reply now is………………….WHAT ADVANTAGES!!!!!

This has to be jealousy?

all my other friends and family have been so supportive and right behind me bar her!!!

Sorry for a moan girlies………….rant over lol!
xxxxx

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