Getting a bit fed up with some people :(

Well ladies, as a above, I’m really starting to get pissed off when I go out in public and stuff. Some people just have no shame; the worst situation being when a group of girls walked past me and my friend and yelled BUSTING! Like so loudly and everyone looked which was kinda embarrassing. I’m usually a very thick skinned person, I don’t get upset by things very easily and I’ve always been taught that I should always hold my head high no matter how I look and that no one can take your pride from you…Of course I’m still top heavy and proud, but yesterday I went out again, first in the daytime where I got a few dirty looks and that was it but in the evening I went out with 2 other friends who also have fake boobies which are on the large side and let me tell you, I’ve never felt so uncomfortable in my life! I might as well have been sitting there naked because of the looks and comments that were being thrown in our direction. I actually complained about this couple who were sitting quite close to us as the woman was going on about how disgusting fake boobs were and that women who get then are thick bimbos etc. I just don’t know how/why people are so mean! In a way it’s like making fun of someone because of their skin colour or the way they look because boobs are part of your body whether they are real or fake and play a big part in the way we look as women. I’ve just been ignoring it but my Mum goes ballistic if she sees anyone pointing or looking at me in the wrong way haha. These people are obviously trying to get a rise out of me and I’m not going to give it to them, but last night just really wore me down I REFUSE to cry though haha! I hate to say it but it’s the girls/women who’ve been the worst…the men are a bit pervy and some are just curious but that is to be expected. My parents always say, ‘They’re just jealous of you’ but I know that’s not the case with all of them…I just have to assume that there’s loads of bitches around! Which also makes me sad

Sorry for the rant girlies, I knew I was going to experience some kind of bitchiness, but not to this level! xxxx

oh hun sorry you are feeling like this, there really are some nasty people out there. I put it down to they must have nothing better going on in their lives than to make fun and pick on other people. whatever i thought in my mind (which we have to be honest and say we all do time to time!!) i would never say anything and hurt that person.

We are all individuals and all have our own tastes and interest, some people must want a really boring world where everyone looks the same.

You hold your head up high girl, some of these people will be jelous and some will just be down right rude. You had your ba for yourself nobody else. big hugs xxx

its an absolute joke and is 1000% jealousy this would make me more determiined to be showing them off lol these types of girls are not worth the time of day part of me thinks that they must be a bit insecure themselves and release that through bullying others rise above it dolly you obviously have something that they want x x

Def Jealous that’s a hell of a lot to do wiv it. X

Hun, u have had a massive op, and changed yourself for the better, not 1 of the girls that say anything to you can say they have the guts to actually change what they dislike about themselves!

With your huge new babies, everyone will comment, maybes it not always nice, people aren’t nice, but u are, and none of the comments people say will change that!

Just remember that no air head can actually go ahead with the op without a brain, not everyone can study law, not everyone is u! Xx

Thanks ladies, I have no regrets whatsoever, it’s just more annoying than anything else.

I accept that the ‘look’ I have isn’t for everybody and I’m sure there are some people on the forum who think I look ridiculous, but that’s fine because like kat1986 said, everyone has different tastes and no one has been nasty about it, they’ve just kept quiet as I haven’t received any messages or anything.

I think people should take not of the phrase: If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all xx

dolly92 your beautiful,and intelligent,jealousy makes people spiteful sweety,they are not worth you tears my lovely,you hold your head high,if people cant deal with it tough.xxx

Cheers Tina xxxxx

Dolly! That definitely sounds like they are jealous to me!! Woman always say things like that when hey are jealous! I anyone says anything to me I’m just gonna get them out and say something like ‘you got boobs like this love, nah didn’t think so’ haha! I’m not a bitch but if someone says anything about me having fake boobs I will say something to make them feel a lot smaller than what they made me feel, I that makes sense! Your boobs are fab, so don’t take any notice! They are obviously just insecure themselves to try and pick on someone they don’t even know!!!!! even one of my best friends keeps saying things like why have you had them done etc, she hasnt said one positive thing, she hasnt seen them yet as she is at uni and weve grown quite a bit apart since she’s been there, but I actually put that down to jealousy too! (I’m not up myself in any way at all!) but all my other friends are so happy for me and say they want there’s done too! Hope this helps a bit hun, girls are just so jealous that you’re hot and they aren’t! Haha xx

Dolly, just ignore them, it is only jealousy. I don’t know where you live, but some communities are more judgemental than others. If you have friends the same you need to stick together. I am the only person I know where I live having a b.a so will b interesting to see the reaction. Maybe we should all live in 1 place where only the pretty enhanced girls live and have all the best bars Etv and not allow the small minded hitches in xxx

Hi Dolly,

What realy annoyed me with your post is the fact people associate big boobs with being unintelligent!! Its literally ridiculous! Ive one degree and studying for another at the minute and getting my boobies done in less than a month, afterwards am i going to end up thick? Umm…..NO! Just take pleasure in seeing the look on peoples faces change when you open your mouth and SHOCK out comes an intelligent conversation!

Life is to short to waste it on people that dont deserve it babes!

xx

In simple terms there just bitches who need to get a life. were all doing this to make ourselves feel better, would the make bitchy comments about being flat chested? no! so what gives them the right to make comments about boobs? i pity them!! as you said dolly just hold your head high your fab! and fake boobies are fab too hehe xx

Hey dolly they are haters babe n haters gonna hate cos they are well jel put ure head high n boobs out that’s what I do at work it gets to them babe x x

babe let me tell you there will always be someone out there that has some stupid things to say… it is hurtful but dont let them take away your confidence.

Yes fake boobs do get alot of bad comments from narrow minded people but let them think what they want. Your beautiful and love yourself. What you feel when you look in the mirror is what truely matters not what some lame people think.

I think each to your own. People who have nothing better to do than talk about you clearly means they have nothing going for them. Its a shame that people belittle others to feel great. They still just as shit so ignore it even when it makes you sad.

How does the saying go ”whether its bad press or good…they still talking about you” so lets them carry on making you famous haha

xxx

There are some.small.minded children out there huni what they dont realisebis we.live in a.society were if we dont like something like our hair colour/style we CAN change it its what makes US feel good I cant wait for my first rude comment! Theyl be shocked by the reply! Im not a horrid person but truly detest small minded people makin small minded comments and sharin them with their big mouths At least huni you have great lookin boobs that people cant help but notice and have to make themselves feel better by passing rude comments or judgements lets hope a brain implant or manners will soon be listed by MYA xx

Dolly the world will never get better , there are alot of ignorant. People out there. Don’t let them get too you best thing to do is get them out with confidence , that will shut them up ,lol let them ramble on !! if you look look good show it off girl damm life’s to short enjoy your bobbies ) xx by the way they look spectacler

would be so good if we knew where these girls went out, so all us big boobied girls could all get together and then see what they say! haha xx

Ignore em babe and keep ya chin up. The problem is understanding. They don’t understand and what u don’t understand frightens you. That’s all it is is fear!! So cos of this they start getting bitchy but should keep it to themselves. My family have never been big on boob jobs and have voice their opinions to me but have never down right disrespected me. And ive waited 15 years for this. They are behind me now I have explained stuff to them and the understand more. You see these people that bitch have probably never had to live with being called ironing board or runway all of their lives because of their flat chest so don’t understand that all these years of name calling and jokes at our expense take a toll on your mind and sanity. We do this for us and us alone so I say F**K EM!!! (really sorry for language) u can’t win. I mean it’s not something that you go into lightly is it?? And I hate the fact that just because you’ve had a boob job your a bimbo is a joke. There’s plenty of airheads out there that dont have boob jobs but it’s not right to assume that there’s nothing between the ears because you’ve had the balls to make a change to your body to make you happier.

Anyways. Hope your recovering well hun. And sorry for the rant lol xxx

oh hun people can be soo mean! i know what u mean tho, mine arent huge but just now i went out in a vest top & the looks & whispers i get from women is insane, they need to get lifes!! i know parents have to say this my mum does but ther right lol but most of the time it is jealousy, they either know they havent got the confidence to do something like what we’ve done, they dont look as good as u, or they know ther man would fancy u more than he does her!!! lol

jess! good idea lol we need a big boobie get together! x

agree with you ayshababy on their man fancying you more than them! and they just want to make you look stupid hoping their man agrees, when quite clearly they wouldn’t! (i’m not sure if that sentence actually makes sense, but you know what i mean, ha!) not many people know i’ve had mine done but i know when people see them or find out there is girls going to be bitching, and i’ll just leave them to it, left the drama when i left school and not going back to it! lol!

ayshababy, we do need to sort something out, would love to meet all you girlies who have been such help, we need a big boobied group day/night out! haha would be amaaaaaaazing! xx

Thanks girls!

@greevek, my parents live in St Albans which is where I’ve been recovering so I’ve been going out with some of my old friends, but your definitely right about communities being more judgemental than others; I live in central London and I’ve just got back to my flat now, been on the tube and everything and I haven’t gotten a single dirty look or whisper from anyone. I prefer the big city! lol and definitely we should have like our own little barbie town haha

@em232323, I know it is ridiculous that people think that big boobs= dumb; they always get a shock when I turn around and say, er actually I’m studying Law at uni…that always shuts them up!

@Jess91 that would be hilarious to have a ‘big boob night’ lol

Thankyou to everyone who has commented so far; I didn’t make this post to moan and have my ego massaged, I made it so some of the pre op girlies know what could be heading their way xxxx

Im in London….if you have a boobie get together im keen:)

xxx

i can train to london, would love it! i might get on the case! x

Dolly people will look and judge all the time! Theres a lot of narrow minded people out there and will pass judgement if your gay, straight, black, white, for the colour of your hair and the one I can relate to is disability! My son has severe autism and constantly gets people looking/pointing/making rude remarks! It used to really upset me but now it goes over my head, you shouldn’t even give people like that the time of day! You look amazing so go out and enjoy your new boobs and if anyone says anything whip them out and I’m sure they will soon shut up haha xx

Dolly you look amazing hon, rise above it it’s playground behaviour and I’m sorry to say but some people never grow up, you will experience this for a while because of how you look, I’m sad to say it won’t change, but u can become more ignorant to it. Jealousy is vile. You look fantastic, wear your fantastic breasts with pride because you look fab. To hell with the haters! X

haha, after reading this post, iv just had it at the school gates:

im an air head as i got ‘air boobs’ and i drive a brand new nissan nivara and a brand new saab and the other cars i own, i have blonde hair, fake nails and a fake attitude to life….

well that was news to me! last time i checked the outside of us doesnt matter, but hey ho! and all this came off a faked tanned gypsie wana be!

i think she was trying to compare me to something…. i think its something shes aiming at being though xx

people are so damn narrow minded and stupid thinking including so jealous…they seriously need a life…

plus the older you get does not neccessarily mean that people grow up. they stay childish most of the time.

dont let it affect you girls xxx

Ignore them hun, if you can. Rise above them. Its all about jealousy and not an attractive trait at all. I would flaunt them. x x

It’s seriously a mix of Lots of things..

They envy you as they dont look as good,

Hate that you prob get more attention then them and know you the eye catcher

Afraid of you in the sense that their men would prob love to see you walking down the street

And pure fact of just bitchyness!

To look good infront of others when actually it makes them look pathetic getting kicks out of trying to make people feel bad about themselves! Take it With a pinch of salt (easier said then done I no!) but you look bloody great chick! Feel proud to be you and not them think everyone deserves to be happy and if having bigger boobs then smaller makes you happy then go for it, as all us ladies on here no as we all want bigger then what we have been given! iv put up with being put down all my life so I’m out to look after number one and make me happy. Absolutely hate when I hear or read that people have to go through such stuff.. Chin up love!! xx

Ahh dolly keep your chin up hun, don’t let them get you down, like everyone has said they are only jealous xx

Thanks girls xxx

dollyib added u hun how did the appointment go today x

Everyone on this forum is supportive and friendly because noone on here gets jealous, instead we admire other people who have great features and assets, which is what makes us better than those who instead get jealous and pull people down to make themselves feel better because they are bitter people and they know it. Rise above them sweety, they can say what they want but we all know who people admire more. xxx

Bekkyb I will accept as soon as the website starts working again and the appointment went really well, stitches can come out on Friday

So true rachel250…great post! A friend of mine sent me this quote which is I think is great: “They’ll hate you if your pretty. They’ll hate you if your not. They’ll hate you for what you lack and they’ll hate you for what you’ve got” xxx

Love that saying.. Its so true! Xx

Isn’t it just

On the subject of attention, these Chinese tourists took their pic with me today because they said I was like Barbie lol that’s London for you, hah! xx

dolly92 one word; HATERS!!! have you got any pics im super curious now??

xx

Yeah I have loads of pics, take a look when the site is working again xx

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