Girls I'm devastated :,(

Was lying in bed yest arvo, the “ex” bathing our lil boy, I get a text

It’s like having 2 flipping kids in the house, can’t wait for the 16th tho xxx

It was from the ex to another girl…. He sent it to me by mistake Suppose i always thought we would get back together… I’m only 4 days post op and cabt stop crying… How much heartache can one person bring to another…!

I looked her up on fb she’s stunning … :,( I wish I had moved home now and not spent the money on surgery … I’m gunna be stuck here for months on my own now! :,(

God I feel sorry for myself… Crying does not help stitches either!!

Your stunning,very stunning and a lovely caring person,and you have done so well with the healing hun after what you have been through,you have coped with all this and you will cope with what he throws at you,and if he thinks the grass is greener on the other side,let him graze,because there is something better around the corner for you,he will be the one regretting in a few weeks time,believe me. This news has come at a bad time for you hun,i agree,but he may have given you false hope if you hadnt found that text,we all love you chezz,your one in a million,and were here for you hun,post op blues may be kicking in too,its round about day 3/4 this can creep up on you without realising,so my girl you have my number,if it gets too bad,text me,im here,ill phone you back xxxx

Oh Hun, I’ve been in that same situation. I know it’s heartbreaking but what will be will be. Ive come to learn that everything happens for a reason, like what Tina said, let him graze and he may realise the grass isn’t greener, no matter how good looking that girl is she may be a discusting person. You have to be strong for you and your lil man. Who did you have the surgery done for? You!! Your a strong independent woman!! Try and keep your chin up luv xxxx

And your looking proper bang tidy!! Lovin the pics Hun!! Xx

Well said newkaren,morning lovely how are you,our chezzies will bounce back hun,we will make sure of it,xxx

I’m ok bit tired as my lil ones got me up at 3 then 5am!! But love them all the same!! Lol. Getting more and more excited!! Only 2wks 5days for me!! Can’t wait. I hope she does she’s always so positive, I hate hearing her feeling down xx

She has our support hun,she has done so well with her recovery,bless her.xxx

Oh girls thanks I’ve cried all night, face is so sore, I can’t believe he is doing this this to me… More kin hurt … I have never done anything to hurt him! EVER!

All’s I ever wanted was my own little family that know one could touch, and it was all mine.. I just don’t know what I’ve done so wrong in life to deserve so much shit!!

I hurt majorly this morn :,(

I used to think that’s all I ever wanted… A family unit.

But…. I’m so much happier doing my own thing with my two babies!! I have a lot of support from family and friends which has made the process easier. If you don’t have that Hun you will always have us!! Xxxx

I live 70 miles away from lovely f and f :,( I’ve never settled here even tho Ive lives here for 7 years, just stayed cuz he was here… I can’t even go see them… :,( I’m exhausted 2 hours sleep is not good!

I was so shocked …. it totally was out of the blue… Abs I know the date that will be a fun day… :,,,(((( DEVO!!

Oh babes I just wanna give you a big hug, but that my hurt ATM! Lol. I’ve sent you a pm xx

Chezzis hun,of course your devastated you love this guy,he has just literally ripped your insides out hun,and all your thoughts will be focussed on him hun,its a natural reaction,first thing you need to do is get some sleep your head must be pounding,god I wish I lived closer,Im stuck here in the middle of nowhere surrounded by bloody sheep.Have you got some one to help with the little one,you need to sleep sweetie,its the best healer,you’ll still be upset when you wake but things will be a little clearer,make sure you get some thing to eat too,you wont recover if your not eating and I know you’ll feel sick right now but please hun try and force something down,you still have a long way to go with the healing and the little one needs his mummy too.I cant bear the thought of you getting emotionally sick over this situation. You know where I am hun,and I have all the time in the world for you.xx

Awww sweety I know exactally how you feel I caught my ex husband with a girl from work and to say I was gutted was an understatement as I had just hada baby….. then he lead me down the path pretending we would get back together….. Your a strong gorgeous person and you can get through it…. You’ve done nothing wrong at all…. He’s obviously just thinking with his jibblets…. And he will find put the grass isn’t greener and you can laugh at him…. Mine was 7 years ago and he’s now married to a right bitch who doesn’t let him step out of the house unless he takes his 2 little boys cause she obviously doesn’t trust him knowing how she got him he leads a dogs life and me I’m the lucky one I’ve met my prince and he would go to the end of the earth for me…. I thought I loved my first husband it turns out I didn’t even know what love was… Now I’m getting married in 8 weeks xx. It’s awful and nothing anyone can say will make you feel better…. Just stay strong we don’t need men to feel good just Mario Russo hahaha xxxx big loves xxx

aw chezzies how horrible! i know it hurts atm but u will meet someone amazing cz, lets face it, u r 1 hot girlie xxxxx

Abi lmao!

Tina just had some all bran it was hard work, had the last of my strong pain killers now wee man off to nursey in 15 so bed for me… And I had a look at her again… She looks like a horse… Lol knock ya self out man ha ha… Sorry me being a bitch RRRAAAA!! lol

Mummyummy… OH I DO LOVE A HAPPY ENDING… I want prince charming…. The Hubble to be got any dishy friends that like huge bangers ha ha… I’m so happy for you!!! there is alight at the end of that tunnel, just need to get better and move home away from him ….. !

Ent it funny how we’r all strangers and yet I think the world of you all… I couldn’t of done op without you all… Specialty Tina… My rock!

I love you all thank you so much!

Keep your chin up hun, you are gorgeous and he will be gutted when you are up and about and looking damn hot! Xx

Chezzies we love you,now concentrate on you,get healed, your absolutely drop dead gorgeous,you will find prince charming,its tough now babe,but every day will get easier, just keep looking at your beautiful body,shame he aint gonna see the finished result babe,but lifes a bitch,now get some rest hun,we will be here when you wake up,fighting fit,xx

chezzies i know what u mean, id rather chat to u girlies than my friends xxx

No way does he get his hands on my girls now lol!!

Off to bed now ZZZZZ lol x

Missus, I dont really know you, but if he can do that to you then he is defo not worth the bother….I know you are upset, but this has happened for a reason and it usually means a better man is lying in wait for his perfect lady and that will be YOU!! Similar thing happened to me and now I have married the man who is very good to me and all I could ask for. Trust me, you were meant to see that text, even if it hurts so badly right now…but you will look back on this and think it was for a greater good. Thinking of you missus…HUGS x

aahhhh mistake my ass… hes sent that text to cos he wants u to think hes happy with this other girl( cos men really are that pathetic) OR , if it wasnt on purpose then ur clearly on his mind for him to send it to u!!!

i say leave him too it, he isnt worth it, ive had many arseholes in the past like that… one didn the same to me, i was sick one night and the next morning he sent a message to a mate but sent it to me by mistake saying “this bird is oathetic, shes been sick all night, i cant wait to get out of here” hahah cheeky bastard… the last straw was when he answered his mobile phone DURING SEX!!! and actually replied to his mate on the phone ” i cant talk now mate im IN SUSIE”!!!!! omg can u believe he did that??? hahahaha i shoved him off and kicked him out, never to be seen again lmoa what a knob!!!!! xxxx

Susie I think the same… What a selfish prick 4 days post op… Why couldn’t he of just waited… All’s he said today is it’s none of your business anymore …. Well he’s in trouble at work for not doing his job properly let’s hope the prick looses it and I’ll be laughing when he has to move in with mummy and go bankrupt ooooo I’m getting evil now lol

Some of you must have a friend that needs me in there life, I’m a party on can just add vodka ha ha!

Omg not during the fekkin cheek of it! Good on you girl!!! x

haah i know!!! who does that!!!! he was a right prick lmao xxx

Chezzies – where does she live mate? x

Chezzies……….you were a gorgeous woman before your op, and a gorgeous woman now. You really deserve soooooo much better. And by the sound of your ex, he probably has a really small willy

The most important thing just now babe is you and getting better, so you can get out on the town and flaunt that gorgeous new bod of yours!

Concentrate on yourself honey and I hope you get better really, really soon.

My wee Granny once said to me, ‘no relationship is better than a bad one’ and its the best advice anyone has ever given me.

Take care and keep that gorgeous chin up. Lotsa love xxx

Cuks I nearly let a wee out:…. Not good when your in full body corset lmao … Love ya you big crazy!!

Well out of bad comes good I’m moving home 1st sep gunna stay with me friend for a month whilst I get work sort wills out and a nice shiny house for us… LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL!!!!

Can’t believe I was so upset this time yest… What a fool!!! x

Hey chezzies

What an ass but hey ho, u have fab boobs now, a crakin tiny waist n a flat tummy and soon to b a nice big shiny new house.

Who needs him!! Lol x

Chezzies pls dont peee ur pants xxxxx making u laugh is all part of the cuks service xxxx I think they will section me instead of putting the implants in.

l know how exactly how ur feeling and wish l could gve u a big hug xxx

Chezzies l been married 3 times l thought it was my 1st hubby that l truly loved cause he was my sons daddy u know what l split from him and met hubby no 2 he was nice in public behind scenes ttl wife beater dragged me down the stairs he was also a alchi!! l went back to hubby 1 3/4 times cause l was so unhappy. untill l met my soul mate and l know that he is my soul mate cause we live work breath together.

Take care chezzies and they always look worse the 2nd time u look at them x

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