Gonna get so depressed not being able to cuddle my babygirl :,( xxx

my girls 18 months and so clingy/mummified its going to absoloutely break my heart not being able to respond to her or have her kept away from jumping on me etc…how long does it take before you are comfortable to do this? xxx

My little boy is about the same age and i have been told to wait about 2 weeks before picking him up, so i am assuming it will be about 2 weeks till we can roll around and play like we usually do . x

Awwww i want to know the same hun my little girl is 5 months next week and i feel like im neglectin her! I duno weather its just me but i feel like she knows and isnt happy with me for it! Im only a week post op but ive not squeezed and cuddled her for what seems like forever! I held her for first time today when she wasnt in a wigly mood because i dont want her to catch them or to do anything that will affect them! Im going seeing the nurse tommorow so il be asking her! Cant wait till i cant give her lots of kisses and cuddles as they are long overdue :)xxx

im same girls, got two daughters 3 and 18 months im dreading when they come and jump on me for a cuddle and i have to more or less push them away its not forever though i keep telling myself xxx

its really tough! they are gonna think were being horrible!! but yes youre right not forever. im paranoid of her jumping on me will hurt soooo much! xx

awh girls you will be fine! my youngest is 2, im 12 days post op and i was only able to pick him up for the first time yesterday which has been difficult but we have still had lots of cuddles since my op i was nervous of him jumping on me in the early days as i was in lots of pain but he kinda realised and after 2 days he was so gentle around me and would say “mummy sore boobies” bless his little heart it will be difficult not giving your kids the attention theyre used to but its only for a couple of wks and youve got the rest of your life to make it up to them dont worry!! xxx

This is what i’m dreading, my little boy has just turned 5 months and is with me 24/7, we’re going to stay at my husbands nans but actually dreading it when shes trying to do somthing n he wants cuddles and i cant so young he wont understand, having unders aswell on sunday doc said itl b bit longer til i can pick him up x

i have a little boy who is 20 months, he has become very clingy at the moment an i am 2 dreading not being able to tend to his needs, but i try n think of it as we give our babies everything 24/7 we as mums r just taking a little time to our selves nothin selfish in that at all we will soon be healed n back to being mummy xx

I picked my niece up on sat for 1st time it was automatic responce, then i thought yeh im fine i can cuddle my 3 year old! it was great im 24days PO Iv been so carful my daughter is same as yours bek10 shes always saying “i wont hurt your boobies mummy” “are your boobies ok mummy” they will be ok girls and you can have cuddles soon they can cuddle your tummy strait after xx

i like that attitude gem made me feel abit better lol…i just cant imagine it yet and im not getting much help..dunno how im gonna bath her or get her in/out of bed! xx

oh gosh i no im worried about this especially cuz my partner isnt the most helpful bt he ll have to help more! i have a 4 and half month old and a 16 month old, gona feel useless but just think wont be forever xx

it will only be 2-3 weeks out your and baba’s life and the joy you will have walking proude with them feeling compleat! i cant wait for are hol! xx

hehehe omg be so fun buying bras and bikinis!!!!! xxx

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