Good morning everyone

Hi everyone,hope you are all well,most of you will be aware that there has been a lot of debate on the forum re my position as a member,I would just like to point out that I am in exactly the same position as all members,here to support and help when and where I can.

I am not a medical professional,I have never claimed to be,I advise based on my own experience,and would never make a comment that could potentially put a member in a position where their health / healing would be at risk based on my advise.

I log in to the forum daily having recently been made redundant from my job of many years,I feel if I can make a difference to someone day then my time has not been wasted.

I constantly check the home page,making sure that I extend a warm welcome to new members,some of you will be able to relate to this,as you will have received a message from me yourself,if I was on line when you logged in for the first time,I am displaying messages between myself and a member that has now been deleted for not following the forum guidelines.

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tina2011 Sent 5 days, 21 hours ago

Welcome to the forum,a good place to start is the boobie bible in groups,packed with information,the girls have taken the time to put this together to help new members,if you need any help navigating the site please dont hesitate to ask,all the members are very friendly,you will get the support you need here,xxx

feline Sent 4 days, 9 hours ago

hi i am new! thank you for your kind message.Are you the main member here? My names tanya.xx

tina2011 Sent 4 days, 9 hours ago

No honey im just the same as anyone else,there are some lovely girls on here that have advised for a lot longer than me,all just like minded people supporting each other.xxx

We all join the forum for the same reason,we need support advise and guidance,some people are researching their procedure and need to gather as much information as possible before they make such a life changing decision,others have made the decision,and need that support to help them through,others have had the procedure and need the support more than ever during the healing process,I think this forum is a fantastic place,with fantastic members all giving there time freely to help each other.

I would like to thank MYA for giving us a place to meet when we need support,I would also like to thank all members for the warm sincere private messages that I have received,letting me know that I am appreciated.I will be having a procedure myself on the 7th October,your support is very much appreciated.

Have a wonderful day,and remember,everyone on this forum is only an message away if you need them.

Morning hun. I know it’s taken a lot for you to post this as you don’t get involved in the pettiness that goes on on here usually, however you still manage to put your point of view across in a brilliant way that doesn’t put others down or patronise people (unlike some people can do). You are a wonderful person and myself and many others will be here to lend a shoulder and have a giggle when you need it it too. There are a lot of takers and haters out there hun and I can honestly say you are not either. Have a fab day and enjoy the sunshine while it lasts!!

and on an a daft note why on earth am I up so early on a Saturday?? Stupid sleeping upright > lol. xxx

Tina you have been nothing but kind, careful, wise and I hav observed as you have helped hundreds of girls. I myself have found your advice sound, comforting and thoughtful. I echo nickibocker’s statements whOleheartedly. You are never petty and have abstained from lowering yourself even when you yourself were being personally abused and persecuted. Tina whatever happens thank you for the blessing you have been to me and so many other patients here. People mistake you for a medical person simply because you are consistently giving excellent but measured advice to everyone. They overlook the fact that you are a patient too also in need of comfort, reassurance, opinions and guidance. You need us as much as we need you. You remained dignified even when you were being sniped at. Even when wounded and emotionally limping you were there welcoming new forum members and freely granting caring wishes to all. To see such immaturity and amongst grown women mothers who violate a medical advice forum has really made me contemplate the irony. We are all on here because we are insecure about our bodies. There is not one of us on here who has not agonised about some part of our bodies and each of us had the courage to face that by admitting it and then progressing towards a procedure. It is beyond me, therefore, how any of us would would deliberately berate or exploit a woman’s pictures of their breasts, bodies and ultimately their good kind nature. Everytime there is nastiness on the forum I consider leaving and then someone like nikibocker shows up who needs friends and advice as desperately as I once did 11 weeks ago. I, like Tina, have come thru my op and can help and lend advice, as I was fortunate enough to receive when I needed it. The forum is precarious when it should be a fortress of strength and a haven for those vulnerable. Please listen to what Tina and niki have said. The forum stands to lose her and all that she represents, if things don’t change. Xxx

Tina I can honestly say I found your welcome message lovely and all your kind words very helpful I love this site and I love the fact u are on here xxx

Brilliant message. I hope it gets read by all!

Lots of love to T xxx

Brilliant message. I hope it gets read by all!

Lots of love to T xxx

Tina your fab! you have been such a help to me, if I wasn’t for you I’d still be sat here unhappy getting 340cc and be in a right old mess. now I’m getting 410cc! yay. have a t day Hun, and just ignore petty comments from immature jealous people xxx

have a great* day oopsie bloody iPad x

Great messages, I can’t think of any thing else to add so ditto!! Lmao xx

Tina, you have always given me sound advice and been one of the backbones of this forum. You are a friend to all the girls on here and within hours of joining the forum, you were the first one to welcome me. I always read your posts, some of your stories are hilarious and bring some much needed humour to the forum sometimes – my favourite one is the chicken fillet/gardening tale when it fell out in front of your neighbour and you had to bury it!

There are many girls on here who think the world of you and I hope to see you on here for a long time to come.

Tina,

I think you a such a lovely person and you have given me the extra courage to go ahead with my op in May because your words of wisdom and support are very comforting and reassuring and I have been wanting this op from I was 16 and I am now 35 If anyone on here has a different opinion then just ignore them because in the end it is just an opinion from one person. I call you the mummy of the forum and that’s how you areto the girls on here!

Chin up and think of your own op that is coming up on the 7th, which is exciting for you.

xxx

Lovely message Tina, I think your fab and you have been a great help to me xxx

Tina I HONESTLY think its lovely what you do on the forum and YES you do help ALOT of girls…But it wouidnt of took you a min to say (Jo and Hush i NEVER insulted u both) Because if somebody had done that to me and jo we wouid of wanted to make it clear it was’nt true.

Maybe Tina was trying to maintain her dignity and ignoring the posts which made her the bigger person. I would assume no-one would have actually believed it was true that she would say that x

She couid of sent a pm,Had somebody of claimed i’d insulted another member by private message I’d of sent a quick message sayin i HOPE you know that is’nt TRUE! Maybe thats just me Tho.

Tina would not hurt anyone. That is clear. Neither would she enter into a dialogue which may serve to aggrivate an argument. Someone once wrote to tina posing as another innocent forum member and their aim was to frame Tina. Tina has been a target for a long time. Beats me why as thereis no one more kind. She doesnt deserve it.

Depends if she read it, I saw some of what was said but didn’t have time to read it all as there was so much going on, it all got v confusing. Had it been about me I wouldn’t have kept reading it

Me and jo are NOT bothered tbh.

Just thought i’d ask.

Same here. I stopped reading as it was futile and and confusing. I didn’t like to read unkind things said about either Tina, Jo, cuks or anyone so I signed out. Tina is a very good communicator. She just didn’t know who to trust after being the brunt of a malicious thread and previously being used as a pawn in a vicious mind game. I think that person no longer exists on the forum though. The forum is no place for this. If there is a genuine misunderstanding it can be resolved.

Hush I think there were nasty things said of you too. But I can’t remember if it was hush 1 or hush 2 that was ripped apart.

Why would you need Tina to reassure you that she had or hadn’t said anything? She would be the last person who’d slag anyone off. This **** really saddens me just get over it ffs. It’s a forum, we don’t all live next door to eachother! lol and I think the above was Tina trying to explain that she hadn’t sent those kind of PM’s to Tanya but without bringing peoples names into it. x

Smile and be happy girls x the sun is shining and it won’t last long so get ur boobs out and enjoy it x stop this thread and go enjoy your Saturday x

Here here Ladyc or is it hear hear :S oh I dunno, I agree anyway lol! x

Totally agree, maybe we can move on now and get this forum back to being a forum rather than a chat room, so that people can go back to getting advice and reassurance from us. There’s new people joining every day and this is not the sort of thing that we want them to see. This forum has such a bad reputation on the other forums and it’s such a shame, of all the forums this is the only one that people have added me as friends on, and I always get replies from the girls on here. Lets bring it back to where it was when I joined!

Thanks my butt is about to go out!!! boobs too. Oh my the are so huge!!!!

lmao anchovie you bloody go girl!!!! xxxxxxx

I am over it lol

Good. xxx

xxx

Opens A CAN OF BODDINGTONS AND LIGHTS UP

Tina u’ve always been here if i needed to chat about something and u always manage to put my mind at ease and i thank you for this! And have the upmost respect for you babe ur a lovley person and am glad to have to privalige to speek to ya hun xxxxxx Thank you

Bunch off potatoes

String of onions

Handful of grapes

Bag of plums

Packet of lettuce

Bag off donuts

Bags been written ladyc…ur out

Ohhhhhhhh carrots

Stick of rock haha

Soak on a rope….yes im still awake lol

Soap even

Dolphin swim

Fairyyyy how was your hols xxx

Im still here hun!!! My bf only just told me how to connect to the wireless in the villa lol!! Only a week left

how are u? Whats been happening on the forum? Everytime i log in now i get a message about how the forum is a lovely place … yaaahhhaaaaawwwwnnnn… anyhoo how are u??? Who’s been dissing wor tina? Xxx

Fairyxx!!!!! cant believe i missed you boooo!!!! hope your having a fab time and text me when your back!! xxx

Really felt like I had to respond to this for all the new members who may have read this. Tina has been wonderful to me in every way. She welcomed me when I joined the forum and has continued to give advice and support ever since. I have pm’d her many times for advice and she has always given me her opinion on matters always stating that she is not medically qualified etc etc but that what she is giving me is her opinion. I nearly backed out of my op; Tina was there to calm me down. I hated my boobs at first but couldn’t get my photos up on here to show the girls. I was desperate for someone to tell me they were ok so I asked Tina if I could text message her a photo of my boobs(!) that is how much I trust her. And god how much better I felt when I received her feedback! Tina is a kind and genuine soul who wants to share her experiences with us and help new members. This forum is here to offer support and help to others and it is annoying as F when people try to ruin it or put other genuine people down.

Tracy xxx

lovely messages Tracy! and VERY true!! xxxx

Thankyou xx

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