Had a rude message???

Haway then anomynous who messaged u?

i dunno wots wrong with this forum nowadays, someone asks a genuine question and people jump to the conclusion that its a piss take… how does that look for the newbies that come on here and have a genuine question about procedures and healing?? its guna make them frightened to say anything cuz of the possibility of having similar to the above comments as their replies! tsk tsk

I know its crap… Poor lass just asking questions!

I think the other thread is reasonable too. I just wanna know who sent this message to anomynous x

I don’t know what i did wrong fairyxxx i pm you.

Yhe pm me hun dont worry bet ur a beaut xx

You are very kind xx

I don’t think anonymous meant it to sound how it came across, think sometimes things can be read and taken the wrong way, also I think because English isn’t her first language it makes it more difficult.let’s hope it all stops and we can use this forum the right way! Xx

I think that’s very true was a bit blunt x

I have seen the om and all im gonna say is what a disgrace. This poor girl has come on here for help! The girls needs to be very ashamed of her self!!

Amy has a very valid point xx

People can be unkind my brother has a wooden leg,and at the local pub they threaten to sand hes leg with a electric sander.

Oh great, I’ve come on here tonight and see that the daftness has started again! It’s very hard to know who’s taking the piss and who’s not! Some of the threads sound very strange. Makes me think twice before I post a comment incase I ‘offend’ someone. This forum is awful now compared to how friendly it used to be xx

so true tracy! well disappointing that its ended up like this xx

i have been on this forum for the last week and everyone seems very friendy.

anon – where about’s in russia are you from i lived there for a while in my teens

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The forum was bad but was resurrected because there were enough decent girls doing their all to revive it and miraculously it became lovely again. If it goes downhill again. Many of us will leave. Decent girls hang on and do what you know works xxxxx

well said anchovie! xx

Why is it daft??? She was upset cos she got a nasty message! At the end of the day, if you don’t like the forum anymore then don’t use it – nobody is forcing you to go on it! And if you don’t like whats being said – don’t comment on it…SIMPLES! I’m trying to give the newbies a chance after the goings on recently – and yes i too don’t know who is genuine any more but we can’t tar everyone with the same brush!

Ussuriysk x i’m not concerned now those girls are Bliad, na kaleni suka’ Ee-Dee nah hooy

Wow theres some judgemental people on this forum, what ever happened to giving people a chance, I feel so sorry for the newbies coming.on here seeing everyone questioning people authencicty, anon hope these comments havnt put you off the forum, its been a great help to me pre and post opp and hope you find it as helpful too, just ignore any nasty comments made people are to quick to judge xx

Yeah anchovie well said Hun. Sponge bob – some of the comments are daft, I now don’t know who’s being serious and who’s not and that is exactly how I feel. I don’t want to leave the forum I have met a lot of nice people on here who have been the best support. But reading some of the posts it’s like were going back to being silly again.

Anyways as anchovy said let’s move on from it and yeah I prob shouldn’t av commented just couldn’t believe it x

Spongebob you are one of the loveliest girls on this site. I -for one would not hav got thru this experience without you. You stand out as one who is always being sweet, lovely and kind. You are the essence of this forum. There are others too that are like you and that need you. Everyone think about what you need from this site and be like spongebob and the other sweet kind girls. No one should get hurt on here. If we are not sure who is genuine we shd try to give them the chance they deserve- just in case- what harm ever comes from thinking the best of people? We need each other! We look to the forum for healing words and advise only Xxxxx

ah i was in ekaterinburg. im afraid my russian is not so good…. lol

well take care, nina is it?

Swipe thank you for your kind words x Jodes yes nina x

Awww Anchovie, thank you hun Thats a lovely thing to say, i’m glad i was able to help…and you are right, there are loads of fab girlies on this forum its just a shame you get the odd few that have to try and ruin it for the rest of us – when i joined the forum around 8 months ago it was a godsend, but its gone downhill recently thanks to certain small minded people…hopefully we can get it back on track xx

I’m pre ba and you girls have helped me loads already. I’ll be relying on you all over the next few months. Thanks babes xxx

We can. Good always conquers bad. Think about Dorothy throwing the water to save the scarecrows burning straw. The wicked witch melted just because dorothy innocently tried to be kind. I know I’m a total geek but I m lucky enough to have got thru four weeks post operative trauma. Before my op I was fussy scared and anxious. Since my op I’ve Been sore, exhausted, depressed and lonely. No one other than my husband knows about my op which means without all of you I’m alone. I’m lucky enough to have been carried thru the worst by the sweetest of comfort and cyber strength. I want to be here to help others and I want others to have the help I got because I know it’s so valuable. We will keep this site clean and safe from harm if we work together xxxxx

ive been on here for nearly a year and it has been a god send but its changed drastically, u cant tell whose genuine and not these days, its like a kids playground at times. massive shame,bt thats why i dont come on much no more, dont get the whole thing, just seems a joke to some people. but thats just my opinion. like i say i wouldnt have gone thru with my ba if it hadnt have been for some of the people on here. there are some truly amazing people. so newbies dont be put off, this forum is a massive help if u genuinely need it xx

I like the name Nina. Nearly called my daughter that

well i love this forum so far, i have a good radar for genuine’ness (if thats a word) so dont worry i wont be put off. i can tell who is genuine and these people are really nice!

Reminds me of ’99 red balloons’ classic tune xx

Still Not as good as I’m too sexy for my shirt tho!!!! x

hahaha Anchovie….i might have to bring Fred out of the closet again next week….so he can ‘do his little turn on the catwalk’ xx

Please do. A Little treat for us!!!!!! xxxxxxx

who is fred? please share!!

My uncle is a fred he not sexy

hahaha

Lol…you will see who Fred is very soon jodes xx

cant wait!!!!

omg wats goin on here lately, take no notice hun sum people r sooo f…..g jelous, dont no how they get away wiv did shit, b careful who u add hun only add people dat have plenty of friends hun xxxx

Calm down girls somebodys just bein having a joke around its not personal or nasty is it?x x throws light bulb lighten up x x

Maybe a password should be given once we have had our consultations so that only girls seriously considering surgey can come on here… rather than everybody being able to. Just an idea?

Some of the comments made are easily took the wrong way, and I for one have doubts whether the comments are serious. x

i don’t see how a password would work to be honest…many girls come on here for information about surgery BEFORE having their consultations, they decide what size they are after, what surgeon they want to see etc based on other peoples experiences!

Like I said, it was just an idea. I’d prefer to know I am talking to someone who is serious and not taking the micky.

I didn’t come on here until after I’d had my consultation, as I’d researched elsewhere. You don’t need to decide on size, surgeon etc until after your consultation x

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