HAS ANYBODY HAD ANY JEALOUSY WITH THEIR NEW BOOBS??

ITS JUST INTERESTING TO HEAR STORIES OF JEALOUS MATES ETC HA HA!! WHICH IS QUITE FUNNY!! IVE HAD A FEW BUT WUD LIKE TO HEAR OF ANY FUNNY STORIES PPL HAVE, ! x
I HAD A FEW B4 I EVEN HAD THE BOOB JOB! MY PARTNERS FAMILY WERE SAYING “OOOHH DONT GO TOO BIG” (LIKE THEY REALLY CARE) AND JEALOUSY AFTER WITH LOOKS OF OTHER GIRLS ETC!
BUT I SUPPOSE WHEN THAT HAPPENS IT BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE EVEN MORE!! HE HE xxxx

Hi Janeyh

Yeah im having a nightmare at the moment. Thought having the ba would boost my confidence at the mo it is doing the oposite cus lots of people think they have a right to pass comment on me whether its negative or positive and i have to say it has been mostly negative. And its winter and my boobs have been all wrapped up so god knows what its gona be like in the summer im dreading it. And had a major issue at work. A resident made a very sexual comment towards me and bearing in mind im wearing a nurses uniform which r extremely unflatering. When i made a complaint i was told that what do u expect when u have a boob job done. So its such a shame cus I love my new boobs but it is actually causing me a lot of upset at the mo. Hope ur ok xx

Emmatyler

That is absolutly unacceptable for you to put up with at work no one has the right to comment on your reasons for doing it and your ba!!! Your employer should at least know that!!!! That really is grounds for grievence!!!

I think most people associate having a ba with someone who is easy and I think that people think they have the right to make any comment and pass judgement on others..

We know that this is not how it is but I don’t know who some folk think they are bloody jerks sorry but that’s really got to me

this is what im worried about, people passing judgement
i dont want people to look at me differently and think they have the right to pass comment
I work in within a small team an i just know when i go back after having the op they will all have something to say about it

xx

I knew I would have some bad comments but there has been loads and when Im feeling strong I think ur only jealous but when im feeling down which is at the mo it just makes me wanna cry. At the end of the day im an adult and what i do with my body is up to me, so y people think that it is ok to pass judgement on my i dont know at the moment i feel like im owned by everyone and im in a goldfish bowl with every1 staring at me xx

Unfortunately the world is full of judgemental people Emma. People who criticise others and put other people down are really very, very critical of themselves and unhappy most of all. You see, bullies Emma, are really very unhappy deep down. And it makes them feel more superior to you…especially when they can see how unhappy it’s making you. How sad is that, being nasty to someone can make that nasty person feel better about themselves?

Who’s controlling who here? Are they controlling you and how you feel? Turn it around Emma. Take control and make a stand for yourself.

Sit yourself down and have a good old chat to yourself. Sounds a bit mad I know but I’m serious. Have a think sbout why you had BA and how it makes you feel. Write your feelings down. Maintain positive aspects and feelings withn yourself.

There are a lot of people who are ignorant of others and their feelings. The next time someone passes comments about your BA… look at them squarely in the eye, smile and say “and your EXACT point is?” AND You don’t need to explain yourself to anyone.

Log all comments and report all offensive comments. If any of your work colleagues pass offensive comments, make a complaint. If a resident/s makes another comment, log and report the comment. If nothing is done, and the offensive behaviour is still occurring, find out who the superior is, or even take a trip to Human Resources to make a formal complaint. xxx

Oh my god Emma can’t believe what you were told when you made a complaint!

I completely agree with Claire79. If this disgusting behaviour continues and you get no support from your superior the first place to contact is HR. But, if/when you contact them say that you are seeking legal advice with regard to taking them to tribunal, because believe me,you are WELL within your rights to do that and you will earn compensation from your employer, which they will wish to avoid at any cost!

I’m totally crapping it about when I return to work. I’m basically telling no one and just going on a week and a half’s leave from which I shall return with boobies. I just KNOW I will get stared at the moment I walk through the door, but I’m taking the line that if anyone says anything to me about it then I’ll say “I’m more than happy to talk to you about it over a pint if you’d like?” as I would be, and anyone who is going to slag me off behind my back (and there will always be someone/some people who will do that, you cant stop that) then that’s up to them. If they judge me any differently because I’ve purchased boobs then so be it. Maybe I’ll recommend MYA’s services to some of them At the end of the day I’m still the same person on the inside and I can only ask them if they’d feel the same need to gossip/be shocked at me had I had a nose job or lipo. But, should I get treated inappropriately at work because of it then god help the person/people who are stupid enough to do so!!

xxxx

[and now I’ve said all that I dare say I’ll still want the ground to open up and swallow me the night before I’m due back at work ]

Hey, im not telling anybody at work that im getting it done. Ive taken two weeks off and said im going on holiday. They probably will notice but whats it got to do with them? Its my body and its my decision.

Ive had a lot of jealousy from friends but mostly in the form of negative comments and jokes which im sick of. Other people cant seem to understand why im doing it. which makes me really angry.

My motto is IF YOU HAVENT GOT ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL!

just ignore all the negative comments and im defo not going to let it ruin something i have waited 2 years 4.

xxx

Heya girls i haven’t even had my ba, and yet im getting judged
sick of people saying oh you’ll look top heavy, fake, plastic daft and all this
their my boobs and i want them done to make me feel better afbout myself

xxx

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