Has anyone elses hubby/partner etc had any issues with…. Started by: seppet

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  • seppet
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    posting pre and post op pics? Had a debate with mine last night about this and he went right off on one. Really unhappy with the thought of me putting pics up or splashed all over the internet as he put it as you never really know who is looking, which is true i guess. As far he is concerned he is the only one that should see that much of me. In some way I understand what he is saying and i don’t want to upset him, but I have looked at other ladies photos on here and it helped me pre op to gain a better understanding of what to expect so why shouldn’t i do that for others? X

    becca13
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    this is so funny my partner is exactly the same he told me id better not post pics but wot he doesnt know wont hurt him as seppet said its to help others make an informed dessision x x

    Fairyxx 8
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    MIne doesnt know ive done it ha hha ha hha… I think they help pre op girls loads, plus ive had sooo much reassurance from girls looking at my pics xxx

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    mine is really supportive about the forum photos, but absoloutley forbids me to show any of our friends as he says some things should be kept for him only. He also doesn’t like me discussing it with male friends xx

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    my hubby would be cool with it…. looking at others pics is so helpfull before we make the decision , its helped me loads,,,, wonder if id feel the same if there was a willy extension site like this haha and all our blokes were loading up before and after pics,,,,,,lol they wouldnt do that tho. girls are dif to guys ,, we talk to each other and get advice,, blokes dont ,,, !!

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    My hubby doesn’t mind, as long as I blank out my face! Haha.

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    my hubby is fine as he knows it helps loads…..being on here and getting to see others girls stories has really help me come to my decision.xx

    just wanna thank everyonexxx

    ticky88 2
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    Mine takes the pics lol xx

    izzy
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    haha mine takes the pics too! he was a little unsure at first but then i explianed only people i choose can see them and how others girls pics helped me loads n he was happy then! x x

    kittijo
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    Mine asked if i was gona last night I said defo taking a before and after for personal use , just to remember how lucky I am . But right now there is no way my boob- less body is going on here just now , but after op I do think it will help others :) just like lots of you have helped me

    myamoderator 138
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    Hey Seppet. When you create an album and upload photos on the forum there are privacy options so you can make it that only your friends on mya space can see.

    Does that help? Perhaps if your other half may feel better knowing that xx

    kittijo
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    Wish there was a like button on here ! :) ^^^^

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    haha Izzy, mine takes my pics for the site too! he thinks it’s great that i’m showing other girls to help them as seeing other uplift girls prior to my op was so helpful xx

    seppet
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    Thanks MYA Moderator, I will have another chat with him tonight explaining that x Well thats the thing, he knew i was looking at other people’s so I naturally assumed he knew I would be uploading x

    vikki83
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    mine has been fine with it, he paid for me to have them done and has taken some of the pics :) he is sooo proud of my new boobies bless him xx

    SammyC
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    I’m pre-op but my hubby can’t wait to start taking pics for me to post on here!! xx

    claire1985 4
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    My other half takes the pics too :) he’s not said anything about it – I’m surprised as he’s usually quite protective! He’s more bothered about the TOT haha xx

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    Just make sure u speak to the people that u make friends with. Its really helps people soooo much and i think that ive uve had a look at others then u should return the favour. I am due to put mine up very soon, im not being a hyprocrite lol. Its ur boobs, ur decision non? ;) xx

    alexmink 1
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    my other half said how do we know that there are no men on here posing as women just so they can see the pictures. I’m still pre-op and had no problem worrying about it, but i can see his point, but at the end of the day its my body and my decision.

    I guess the best way is as said above is to speak to others before adding as friends

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    claire1985 4
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    The way I look at it, if blokes wanted to see photos of boobs they’d use one of the million or so free porn sites on the internet lol xx

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    haha thats so true. there are loads of boobs on the net, why would men wana have a look at freshly operated ones, unless they have some strange fetish haha xx

    alexmink 1
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    yeh i know, but i guess there may be some strange guys out there lol. I said that they wouldn’t bother, but i think my other half is more bothered about me posting my boobs and just trying to make excuses why i can’t – tough – im going to be doing it haha xxx

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    Good on you ;) aw bless him, sounds like he cares about u lots ^^ xx

    alexmink 1
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    he is dead protective of me and doesn’t like other guys looking at me – for god sake im 14 yrs old than him lolxx

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    haha, thats even sweeter. Hope ur op goes well hun xx

    alexmink 1
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    thanks hun – 8 days tomorrow !!!! xxx

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    WOOHOOOO! AW its so exciting isnt it!! If u have any questions then just ask xx

    zolza24
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    my hubby never had a problem with pics, he takes them for me too x is however really jealous about the amount of time I spend with you all

    blondie30- mine does not have a problem with me showing girls but no subject to be spoke about with any blokes ha ha ha

    seppet- when did you get yours done hun?

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    My hubby is a bit iffy with the TOT plans, he trusts me completely, he is protective and knows what men are like though. I can look after myself though :D

    Only reason he wants me to blank my face out is in case anybody he or we knows sees them and my op is a bit hush hush at the moment. I know you can make it friends only but you never know! :) x

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    Not in the least. 99% of women on this forum go by a fake name, which is most likely very different to the fake names they might use on other sites. They only post chest pics, and very few at that. Big boobs are great, but fake, and NEWLY made, wonky, blotchy, swollen, scarred, pimply boobs are just not hot LOL. Men don’t exactly see this as porno haven, so your boyfriends have nothing whatsoever to worry about ;)

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