Has anyone's partner not liked your boobs after?

I’m 4 days post op feeling quite a bit of pain up in the night and very bloated!!
I’m really happy with the result I think it was just the right size for me.
My boyfriend has said he doesn’t like my boobs saying they look fake this has made me feel quite down a long with the pain and unable to do much other than sit around all day!
I just wondered if anyone else had had their partner say they don’t like their boobs after surgery?

@charlotte I wouldn’t worry Hun your only four days post op they have loads of changing to do yet I haven’t had mine done yet and my bf is already against it anyway if your bf doesn’t like them I can garentee someone else will x

First thing to say is that as long as you like them, that is the most important thing before anything else! I think a lot of men feel insecure when their other half has them done, because they’re worried your going to get more attention from men so they can be very negative before the op and much more so afterwards. You might just need to give him a bit of time to come round to the fact that you’ve had them done and get used to them. Sounds horrible but sometimes men are like children, they need lots of positive reassurance!
Don’t let it get you down though, you’re probably feeling very emotional as it is after having your op without having to contend with that as well xx

I think you should try to ignore the comment for now, im not sure of it’s purpose, if your partner treats you well and loves you then he maybe did not realise how incredibly harmful it was to voice it at a time when you are feeling quite emotional and depleted of energy, at the 4 day marker your breasts will be presenting as still swolen probably sitting quite high and will not appear like a male would probably expect them too, it might just be a bit of a shock for him and your entitlement of an apology may come later, they will obviously look quite fake they are fake but will turn into a more natural looking breast over the coming months, if this type of behaviour is the norm for him then maybe he should look at adjusting his attitude as your breasts adjust you simply don’t need any extra worries on top of your recovery, if he can’t support you without upsetting you then i would suggest you continue to post on the forum because there are hundreds of ladies here who are ready and waiting to do just that, we all help each other out as much as we can, were not doctors so some of our surgical opinions should be taken with a pinch of salt but in terms of cheering you on and keeping your confidence up we are absolute experts!!!
Ive been on here months now and seen quite a few posts about wonderful partners suddenly having these selfish outbursts, i guess we have to remember they are on this journey too they will have concerns and worries for us and maybe just struggle with verbalising them in the best way, sending you a big hug and hoping tomorrow is a better day for you Charlotte xxxx

Im sure when he tests them out he wont be saying that just there way of being an idiot because they think you will always have them on show x

i think it sounds like insecurity on his part, that you are a gorgeous girl made even more gorgeous by the new boobies! xxx

Thank you so much for your comments! That’s exactly right I just felt at the moment I feel so emotional and dealing with the pain and recovering the last thing I wanted to hear was him say he doent like them!! I’m hoping when they settle down a bit he will have a different view like you say when they re first done they are so swollen they will look fake! But thank you all for your lovely comments has made me feel a lot better! I honk the first week post op was always going to be tough xxxxx

Chin up huni you have so much to look forward to!! the first 2 weeks are so difficult
xxx

Ditto what everyone else has said. It only really matters that this is something you want and that you like them. I can’t generally believe a man doesn’t like boobs, whatever shape or size! I think he’s jealous of the attention he thinks you will get. Chin up Hun I’m sure they look amazing. X

My bf hated them the first week even when I had my tapes off he wasn’t sure I’m just five weeks po and he loves them I wouldn’t worry too much xx my bf was very supportive through my whole process so maybe yours just has to get used to change

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