Has got a dilemma…i know the answer but am I being selfish???

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My bf told me that in June next year me, him and his family are going on holiday to Gran Canaria. Its going to cost me £450 for my ticket, and i’m stressing out because i can’t afford it. I’ve told him i can’t afford it and he said he would pay for it and i can save up the spending money, but he’s also helping me save for my nose job, by giving me £200 a month towards it. I already have £200 saved but am I selfish because deep down I want this nose job sooo much more than a holiday?? I know he’s pissed off about paying for everything but i said to him i can’t afford it but he’s insisted..and now i just feel awful. It didn’t help the other day when we had a row he called me ‘vain’ because I still want a nose job. I’m worried that his family are gonna think the same..they don’t know I want one and I don’t want them knowing cuz I feel like it’s a personal thing to me..helppp xx

i dont think your being selfish, its just something you not happy with and can change so why the hell not if it makes you happy…. and who cares what others think…x

I know but i think it’s because they r the ‘in-laws’ so dont want the hassle of falling out with them. I know he’ll moan about giving me money for my nose job but i would rather not go on holiday ever again if it meant i could have my nose job done. I’ve told him i won’t go because its not fair on him but he won’t have any of it. xx

well if he insisting, id go. i understand where you coming from with the in laws tho but im sure if you were to explain to them they would understand how much it means to you… would it not be cheaper to have a loan to get it done?? x

Well i’m saving £1000 and getting a loan for the rest. I don’t really wanna tell them because they won’t understand. My bf doesn’t understand rly and thats why itrly frustrates me when he calls me vain x

will they not notice?? sorry but had to ask… and im sure once you get it done and he sees how much more confidence you have he will understand…x

what u mean? when i get it done? well they kinda know i want it done but dont know ive made a start on saving..2bh its none of their business and i know they would probably not like their son helping me out with the money each month, just wish i could win the lotto or somethin x

it will happen for you, and who has to tell them hes helping?? x

Ive told him not to because i dnt wanna be bitched about cuz i dnt think they agree with surgery. do u think i’m worrying for nothing? x

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