Having a major wobbly…. :(

Booked in for uplift and BA with Mr T in Sept but ever since my consult I have had a horrible feeling about things. Firstly I was concerned that he offered me overs but I could see why he said this (to avoid double bubble) so tried to forget about that but I generally dont feel at ease about the whole thing. I know I defo want the surgery and Mr T has such a great reputation but I’m starting to think that perhaps he isnt right for me. I didnt really get a chance to tell him what I was after he just asked me loads of medical questions looked at me, told me I would never have the boobs of an 18 year old (which I fully accept) that he would give me overs, they wont look fake see you later! I didnt get to tell him the look I wanted to achieve (or at least as close to in my situation) or anything. My pc must be sick of me as I am constantly asking questions bugging the hell out of her and now I have landed a bombshell as asked to see Mr Russo for a second opinion. Do you think I am doing the right thing or am I just freaking out and need to chill!!! Its just such a big decision and until I met Mr T I felt really excited and now I just have a sick to the stomach feeling like something isnt right…..

You are totally doing the right thing! This is major and you have to feel 100% happy. You’re right Mr T has a great reputation but he is a man of few words and maybe that’s why you’re feeling like this. You could always book a second consultation with him and tell him you would like more information. This time bring a list of questions with you. Also, bring in some photos of the look you would ‘like’ to acheive and ask him how possible this will be? At least then, he will know what look you’re after and he will tell you how realistic this is. Buy some mens mags such as Zoo as Nuts and choose the size you like.

I also think that as soon as you actually book your op you do start freaking out and questioning everything, but that is just nerves! It’s completely normal, I was a nervous wreck the week before my op and doubted everything x

Your body, your money, your life hunni of course u should see someone else if u don’t feel right! And don’t feel bad about it babe if u don’t feel comfortable, u don’t feel comfortable end.of! U totally deserve to feel comfortable, at ease and excited!! Xx

Hey hun, I would def feel 100% comfortable with your decision as it’s such a big one! It took me 7 years to have my BA because of wobbles, research, not being ready and I would recommend doing it being completely sure. I did and enjoyed every second, no post op blues and would do it all again. Have woken up with a massive smile on my face every day even wig madonna swollen boobies! You can always see Russo and traynor again. Just be sure And trust yourself and your feelings x

I haven’t even had my consultation yet but if your having second thoughts about mr T there is no problem with looking at other options. X

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I went through 3 different surgeons till I chose one hun, 1st I seen Marion grob n she was lovely n very caring, even gave me her mobile number so I can text or ring her if I have any questions or concerns. But at the time I felt I hadn’t heard enough about her on this forum. So then I went to see me singh, he was great too but I just didn’t feel he was for me lol sounds weird but I’m sure you get what I mean ha. Now I’m going with traynor as I just felt at ease with him the most.

As lorelei said, It’s your money n your body babe. I think it’s all down to personal preference, you have every right to see as many different surgeons as you like until you make a decision xx

Thanks girls, I just feel like such a pain in the backside and my pc (who has been fab) must be really losing her patience with me…

Hi 5stonedown,

Please do not worry! Your PC is more than happy to help with any questions or concerns you may have!

If you need anything please do let me know.

Many thanks

MYA Mod x

Thanks Mod x

I’d be the same for sure!!! You need to feel 100% confident in your surgeon this is serious business your going to him to look better how can he achieve this without you telling what you want…

Added you hope that’s okay.

I was the same hun.

1st consultation I had to wait over an hour because mr Khazazi was in some sort of important meeting and when I finally got to see him, my consultation was over in 5 mins. I left more undecided than what I was like before the consultation.

My PC tried to arrange a second consultation with him and couldn’t so I decided to see Mario and was very happy with everything and he made me feel at ease which the other surgeon had failed to do.

xxx

Got an appointment to see Mr Russo tomorrow!! So watch this space!!!!

That’s good. At least you’ll have something to compare to.

Get that list of questions ready incase your mind goes blank. He won’t mind, he’ll be glad that you’re being so thorough x

List being compiled as we speak!!!

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