Having serious second thoughts about ba and uplift

I can’t believe I feel like this today I’ve been so excited about it and have booked my surgery date etc but I almost rang my pc today to cancel. I’m just so worried that I won’t get the results I’m after and will end up with big saggy boobs in a year or two. I’m also worried about scarring – I’ve seen pics of girls with scars that have healed really well and look great but what if mine don’t?? Am now convinced that I will regret going through with this. Anyone else felt like this before their op?? Xx

kiki im having my ba in 1 week and all i can think about is what if they look crap?i think this forum messes with our minds too as its so mixed!!totally feeling like you are xx

i think its only natural to feel this way i’m having the same op as you and i’m filled with doubts but i’m starting to relax now and i’m feeling excited about it.

Don’t worry you will be fine

Girls! all you need to do is look at my pics and see how bad they where and what they look like now.

if they can fix mine they can seriously fix anyones!

I had a BA and moderate lift with Mr Traynor x

I feel exactly the same about having the same operation as yourself. I feel anxious that the results wont last and then I wont be able to justify why I spent all that money on myself instead of on my family….I think its normal nerves though, like when you are 9 months pregnant and you suddendly realise “but I dont want a baby now!!”

I’ve been having these thoughts today aswel lol! I’ve been thinking what if they are not what I’m expecting and surely my boobs can’t be that bad but I know it’s because I’ve got time to think about it all! If I could have it done tomorrow I would so I wouldn’t be sitting here worrying myself stupid! I’m worried about how bad the scar going down my boob is going to be! Round my nipple and under I’m not bothered about its just that one line!!! Xx

Thanks girls, glad I’m not the only one to feel like this. Laura your boobs are fab and if my surgeon could guarantee mine would look like yours and stay that way for years then I would definitely go for it. Lindsey you’re so right about having time to think about it, a week or so ago I would’ve had it done straightaway without a second thought. I’m also worried about the scar down the front, the others don’t bother me. I know exactly what you mean 5stonedown, I feel guilty about the financial strain it will put on my family and don’t want to make a very expensive mistake. Sorry for being so negative girls – having a funny moment about it all xx

Must be something in the air cos I have felt quite negative about it all today too.

I think if I could see more results by my surgeon I’d feel more certain about it all aswel! It’s just that scar going down the front of my boobs! That’s the biggest worry! The money is another thing if I’m not happy with the outcome but then again surely anything would be better than these flaps of skin I have for boobs lol xx

If you where so unhappy with your boobs ( like most of us) in the first place than when you get them done even if there not exactly what you wanted just remember what they where and ull b fine u will love them xx

If you where so unhappy with your boobs ( like most of us) in the first place than when you get them done even if there not exactly what you wanted just remember what they where and ull b fine u will love them xx

Check out my pics too. I had Mario and he only put in small implants (i left the size up to him) because to my mind if you tend to have stretchy skin, you don’t want to put anything too big in there and be back to square one after a year. I’m thrilled with how mine turned out and the scars are healing really well.. I’m 4 mths post op and even in my pics the scars look worse than they actually are in real life (there’s nothing like the flash setting on a phone camera to show up the worst of things!!). Go for it…you’ll be so pleased with the new shape if you’re needing an uplift. xx

Honeybunny what size implants did you have? xxx

Whose your surgeon Kiki? I’m 7 days post op – no regrets whatsoever. Mine were 295cc unders, no pain, small, healing nicely scars, boobs don’t feel heavy. I feel full of confidence. To be honest if I had read lots of the stories on here prior to surgery I would have had doubts!! It is a real mix bag and does mess with our mind. I joined this site just two days before and I must admit some of the lovely ladies I befriended who had similar sizes to me all put my mind at ease. Good luck xx

Thanks honeybunny have sent u a pm. Lillyrose my surgeon is mario russo – I have no doubts that he is the man for the job. Who was your surgeon? I’m pretty sure I will go ahead with this but just postpone it as I’m not sure I’m ready. I only stopped breastfeeding 4 months ago and I feel that I’m gradually getting some volume back. I think I want to wait until my boobs have settled and I know exactly what I’m dealing with!! I kinda feel like I haven’t hated them long enough to go through surgery – does that make sense???? xxx

Hi kiki sorry to hear you are feeling wobbly. I had terrible doubts for the two weeks upto my day, even unsure as I walked down to theatre I think that has been the worst part of my experience the recovery has been easy. I started to talk myself out of the op thinking that they looked better but they were the same, take some pics it may help. I was also worried about scarring but when I woke up and saw two rounds boobs rather than two saggy ones it was all worth it. I have my 2 wk check tomorrow so will put some pics up of my scars for you to see, hope this helps xx

Hi kiki I was just reading about you breastfeeding. To prevent infection you should wate at least a year after so the milk duckts are clear…… But I am being a hypocrit cause I stoped breast feeding about 6 monthes ago and I want my surgery it the next 3 months I just can’t bare to look down at them any more .xxx

Oh deb you’re a star – thanks for that! I would love to see round boobs on me again, it’s been a while!! Looking forward to seeing your pics, best of luck for tomorrow xxx

Hi Kiki, totally see your point now, definitely think you should wait for breasts to settle. I was reading about Danielle Lloyd who had problems with new breasts post pregnancy and realised the dangers of surgery too soon. I had Mr Russo -he’s A1 xx

Niki, i had 220 in one and 240 in the other as i had one a little bit bigger than the other. Mario just decided on the day in surgery. I left the sizes up to him – I just told him the look I wanted and that I didn’t want to be any smaller afterwards and he just took care of it.

Didn’t realise you should wait a year but it does sound sensible as I think I still have a bit of milk on one side – thanks Michelle. When I went for a consultation with the hospital group back in March they were ‘encouraging’ me to have surgery early April – not even 3 months after breastfeeding!! Lillyrose that’s scary about Danielle Lloyd, don’t want that to happen to me!! xxx

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